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>>> THIS WEEK, WE ARE TALKING DATING, LOVE AND SEX. TALKING
DATING, LOVE AND SEX. AND WHO BETTER TO DO THAT WITH
THAN ONE OF THE SEXIEST WOMEN ON
THE PLANET, PAMELA ANDERSON.
SHE HAS LITERALLY -- YES. SHE HAS LITERALLY NOW WRITTEN
THE BOOK ON THIS TOPIC.
WELL GET TO THAT IN A MINUTE
WHEN SHE JOINS US LIVE. FIRST, THE WOMAN, THE ICON,
WATCH.
WATCH. >> LOGAN, WATCH YOUR WATER.
>> NEARLY 30 YEARS AGO, PAMELA
ANDERSON SLOW-MO JOGGED ON TO
THE SCENE AND INTO POP CULTURE HISTORY, AS C.J. PARKER ONTURE
HISTORY, AS C.J. PARKER ON "BAYWATCH."
"BAYWATCH."
>> THAT LITTLE GIRL COULD HAVE
DROWNED, JOHN. >> Reporter: SHE GRACED THE
COVER OF "PLAYBOY" 14 TIMES,
MORE THAN INELSE IN HISTORY.
SHE IS A PARENT TO SONS BRANDON
AND DYLAN, WITH ROCKER TOMMY
LEE, WHO SHEY EDIED ON A BEACH
IN HAWAII IN A BIKINI.
NOW, SHE HAS A BOOK OUT, "LUST
AND LOVE."
AND LOVE." ITS ALL ABOUT SEX AND INTIMACY.
SHE IS ALSO AN ADVOCATE, PUSHING
AN AD FOR THE LIMOUSINE
ORGANIZATION.
ORGANIZATION.
>> YOU APPEAR STRONG AND
HEALTHY.
SO, NO NEED FOR HEALTH INSURANCE.D FOR HEALTH
INSURANCE. >> PLEASE WELCOME PAMELA
ANDERSON.
ANDERSON.
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HI.
GOOD TO SEE YOU. [ APPLAUSE ]YOU.
[ APPLAUSE ] ITS WALL OF PAM.
OUR WALL OF FAME.
>> OH, DEAR.
THATS CRAZY.
THATS CRAZY. >> ITS FUN TO SEE THE YOUNG
PICTURES OF YOU ON THE BEACH.
>> THE YOUNG ONES ARE FUN.
THE OLD ONES ARE SCARY.
THE ONES TEN YEARS AGO ARE MORE
FRIGHTENING.
FRIGHTENING.
>> IS IT TRUE YOUR LIFE WITH "PLAYBOY" BEGAN AT 22?E WITH
"PLAYBOY" BEGAN AT 22? >> I DONT KNOW HOW OLD I WAS.
THIS AGE THING, ITS NOT -- I
DONT KNOW.
DONT KNOW. WITHOUT AGE.
WITHOUT AGE. >> YOU GOT STARTED AT A YOUNG
AGE.
AGE.
SORT OF THRUST INTO THIS CRAZY WORLD OF FAME, SEX KITTEN ANDY
WORLD OF FAME, SEX KITTEN AND GODDESS AND ALL THE THINGS THAT
PEOPLE CALLED YOU.
AND I LOVE THAT YOU SAY IN THIS
BOOK, YOU FELT LIKE YOU WERE
SORT OF TWINS.
THERE WAS THE REAL YOU.
AND THERE WAS THE PUBLIC PAMELA
ANNERSON.
ANNERSON. >>
>> .
. >> IS THAT A SIGN OF CRAZINESS?
IT DID FEEL LIKE A CARTOON
CHARACTER.
CHARACTER. I DIDNT FEEL LIKE THAT PERSON.
MAYBE POSING FOR "PLAYBOY," IT
WAS EASY FOR ME TO PRETEND I WAS
SOMEBODY ELSE.
SOMEBODY ELSE.
I DID HAVE, MAYBE, A LITTLE
MULTIPLE PERSONALITY DISORDER.
>> AND FAME CAME QUICKLY AND WAS, IN YOUR CASE, YOU BECAME A
HOUSEHOLD NAME.
HOUSEHOLD NAME. EVERYONE KNEW PAM ANDERSON AND
THE MARRIAGE TO TOMMY LEE.
>> THAT DIDNT HELP.
WHAT DID THAT DO TO YOU?
THAT LEVEL OF FAME?
>> IT CREEPS UP ON YOU.
I REMEMBER GOING TO THE FOOTBALL
GAME IN VANCOUVER.
BEING ON THE BIG SCREEN AND
DOING A COMMERCIAL FOR LABATTS
BEER AND GOING TO L.A. TO POSE
FOR THE "PLAYBOY" COVER AND MEET
MEETING TOMMY.
MEETING TOMMY. I WAS GOING TO GET MONEY AND I
WAS WEARING THE LISA FROM "TOOL
TIME" OUTFIT.
TIME" OUTFIT. HOW DO THEY KNOW WHO I AM?
I WAS WEARING THE OUTFIT.
AND THEN, PEOPLE STARTED
RECOGNIZING ME AND SLOWLY, YOU
KNOW, IT BECOMES YOUR LIFE.
YOU START BEING PROTECTIVE AND
MAKE MISTAKES AND IT JUST
HAPPENS.
HAPPENS.
ITS HARD TO TELL YOU -- IT DIDNT JUST CHANGE REALLYIT
DIDNT JUST CHANGE REALLY QUICKLY.
QUICKLY. >> YEAH.
>> YEAH. >> JUST FIND YOURSELF DEALING
WITH NEW ISSUES AND NEW THINGS.
>> YOURE KNOWN AS A SEX SYMBOL,
AS A BOMBSHELL.
ITS FUN YOUVE WRITTEN THIS
BOOK CALLING FOR A SENSUAL
REVOLUTION, FOR MORE INTIMACY.
YOU SAY THE BOOK IS ABOUT THE
ENDURING ART OF HUMAN INTIMACY
AND HOW ITS BEEN LOST.
>> WELL, THERES SO MUCH ACCESS
TO EVERYTHING.
TO EVERYTHING.
SO MUCH ACCESS TO INFORMATION AND TO PEOPLE. TO INFORMATION
AND TO PEOPLE. AND I BELIEVE IN A COMMITTED
RELATIONSHIP.
RELATIONSHIP.
I THINK WERE STRONGER IN PAIRS.
AND WE NEED EACH OTHER MORE THAN
EVER, IN THIS ROBOTIC,
DESENSITIZED TIME.
AND HAVING TWO SONS, IM CONCERNED ABOUT THESE DATING
APPS AND ALL SORTS OF APPS.
AND I JUST WANT TO -- ITS NOT A
BOOK ABOUT WHATS RIGHT OR
WRONG.
WRONG.
ITS A BOOK ABOUT TAKING STOCK
IN WHAT WERE DOING. ARE WE REPLACING SOME OF THE
BEHAVIORS WITH OTHER THINGS.
ARE WE RESORTING TO PORNOGRAPHY?
ARE WE LOVING OUR WIVES IN OUR
COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS AND
LEARNING TO HAVE GREAT SEX IN A
COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP IS THE
BEST, NOT THIS KIND OF SO MANY
PEOPLE AND EMPTY EXPERIENCES THE
AND I HAVE A LOT OF FRIENDS FROM
THE 60s.
THE 60s. A LOT OF THEM HAVE REGRETS AND
THEYRE ALONE.
THEYRE ALONE. WE NEED TO STAY TOGETHER.
I DONT HAVE THESE CONSPIRACY
THEORIES.
THEORIES.
SOMETIMES THEYRE TRYING TO SEPARATE US.EYRE TRYING TO
SEPARATE US. WE NEED TO REMEMBER LOVE AND
COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS AND THAT
WERE STRONGER IN PAIRS.
AND WE NEED EACH OTHER BECAUSE
WE HAVE SO MUCH INFORMATION.
WE WANT TO BE HAPPY.
>> I KNOW YOU WRITE ABOUT HOW --
SHE CO-WROTE THE BOOK.
>> YES.
>> YES. >> WITH ROBABBI SHMULI.
>> YEAH.
>> YEAH. ITS FUN THE TWO OF YOU PAIRED.
THE STORIES OF WOMEN COMING TO
YOU SAYING, IM SITTING UPSTAIRS
IN MY NEGLIGEE AND MY HUSBAND IS
IGNORING ME ON THE COMPUTER.
SURFING INTERNET PORN.
>> THIS IS A 20-YEAR-OLD GIRL.
>> SHES SITTING THERE SAYING,
HERE I AM.
THAT GIRL IS NOT ALONE.
A LOT OF WOMEN HAVE HAD THAT
EXPERIENCE FEELING DISTANT FROM
THEIR PARTNER.
THEIR PARTNER. >> HE HAS GREAT ADVISE.
HE TALKS ABOUT MENTAL FIDELITY.
HOW TO EMPTY YOUR PHONE OF
TEMPTATION AND THINGS LIKE THIS.
IM NOT A PRUDE, I DONT THINK.
>> WE KNOW.
>> OKAY?
>> OKAY? BUT I BELIEVE WE CAN BE
DISTRACTED AND WE CAN MAKE
EFFORT.
EFFORT.
WHAT YOU CAN DO IS PAY MORE
ATTENTION TO THEM AND TAKE THESE
THINGS OFF YOUR PHONE OR JUST, YOU KNOW, CONTROL YOURSELF.ST,
YOU KNOW, CONTROL YOURSELF. ITS SELF-CONTROL.
ITS SELF-CONTROL. AND I THINK IT PAYS OFF IN THE
END.
END.
>> AND DELAYED GRATIFICATION.
>> DELAYED GRATIFICATION IS SEXY AND HELPS UNITE A MARRIAGE. SEXY
AND HELPS UNITE A MARRIAGE. SHE HAS ADVICE FOR THAT FOR
LONG-TERM MARRIAGE AND HOW TO
SPICE IT UP.
>> NOT THAT I HAVE HAD LONG-TERM