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are you in a relationship with someone
who might be immature in order for two
people to be able to have a strong and
healthy relationship there needs to be
intimacy honesty trust respect loyalty
dedication and most of all maturity the
level of maturity that partners show in
a relationship can make or break it now
before we go on and list all the signs
of an immature partner we'd like to
mention that this is meant for
educational purposes only and not at all
intended to attack or criticize anyone
who may be displaying these signs with
that said here are seven telltale signs
that someone may be too immature for you
one they act on their emotions do they
have a bad habit of letting their
feelings be the main input to a decision
being with someone who often lets their
feelings cloud their judgment and turn
them cruel in the heat of a moment can
be incredibly stressful and even abusive
when things get out of hand they're
prone to insulting you screaming at you
and sometimes even throwing things at
you when their emotions get out of
control - they take everything
personally do you feel like you're
walking on eggshells around them or are
you worried that they'll lash out on you
if you say something wrong
if so it's another sign that you may be
dating someone too immature for you such
people lack the maturity to understand
that not everything is about them
they're so narrow-minded and sensitive
to criticism that they can't stand to be
corrected you can't communicate openly
to them about their flaws and weaknesses
because they're so defensive of their
ego which brings us to our next point
theory they lack self-awareness
self-awareness is one of the most
important elements of emotional maturity
because it's what allows us to recognize
our flaws and take responsibility for
our mistake
so if you're dating someone who lacks
self-awareness they're going to have a
hard time understanding your perspective
and hearing you out in an argument
because they're so incapable of seeing
their own faults or others points of
view their denial of their own feelings
as a person makes them more prideful
stubborn hard-headed and inconsiderate
towards others for they blame other
people for their problems are they apt
at playing the blame game do they refuse
to own up to their mistakes immature
people don't know how to hold themselves
accountable so they blame others for
their problems and simply make
themselves out to be the victim in all
of it they victimize themselves as a way
to avoid responsibility and convince
themselves that everyone but them is
always to blame they spend all their
time whining about the situation they're
in but don't do anything to help
themselves get out of it instead they
simply point their finger at someone say
it's their fault and demand other people
clean up their mess for them five they
always have to have their way entitled
demanding rigid and overbearing do those
words describe your partner if so then
they might not have the maturity to be
in a healthy relationship right now
people who always want to have their way
tend to be controlling and manipulative
at first they may be kind charming and
pleasant to be around but the moment you
disagree with them or refuse to do as
they say and they'll get into a big
argument with you about it and won't
stop until you give in they don't want
to listen they're not willing to
compromise and they always want to be
the one taking charge in your
relationship six they act
passive-aggressive
does your partner give you the silent
treatment without ever telling you what
it was you did wrong it certainly goes
without saying that engaging in passive
aggressive behaviors and playing mind
games with your significant other it's
not something a mature person would do
but instead of being honest with you
about their feelings and communicating
them openly your partner acts out by
avoiding you ignoring you making sly
handed remarks at you and treating you
with thinly veiled hostility they deny
that anything's wrong when it's clearly
not true because they're not mature
enough to simply talk to you about
what's bothering them in seven their
overly possessive
do they get upset when you spend time
with others do they often disrespect
your personal boundaries immature
partners may be clingy possessive and
unreasonably jealous they don't want you
spending too much time with anyone else
because they want you all to themselves
all your hobbies interests and personal
goals have even fallen to the wayside
after you started dating them because in
their eyes making them your only
priority is the only way you can prove
that you truly love them so is your
current partner showing these very same
signs of immaturity or are you
personally guilty of doing these things
we've mentioned here if so it's okay to
admit that you're still learning how to
be more mature emotional maturity takes
time and it's something a lot of people
struggle with throughout their lives but
the fact that you're willing to admit
that you still have room to grow shows
progress it shows that you're willing to
open up to your mistakes and change for
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