So essentially the face is like the epicenter of communication so when you're sitting down
having a conversation with somebody you're not looking at their arms or leg most of the
time.
Most of the time you're paying direct attention to the face and for the most part there's
a lot of different signs of attraction in the face.
One of the most useful things without a doubt is going to be smiles, so smiles and laughter.
You tend to see that when someone's attracted to somebody you tend to see a significant
amount of smiles.
Like when you're on a date and no one smiles once, not a good date.
The more smiles the better and typically you want genuine smiles.
Genuine smiles are indicated by the crows feet to the left and right to the eyes and
wrinkles below the eyelids.
Those are the indications of a genuine smile.
Essentially there are five points to a smile.
One is the upward turning of the lips creating that smile face.
The second is the raising of the cheeks.
The third is the opening of the mouth.
Most people can make that fake kind of smile.
Most people can activate the fourth and fifth criteria for a genuine smile or an zygotic
smile or a smile which essentially is the crows feet.
So there's wrinkles to the left and right of the eyes and there's slight wrinkles below
the eye.
So most people when they can just nail that and look at you and give you that genuine
smile it's an indication that they really like you so it's something that you're looking
for.
You're looking for smiles, you're also looking for laughter.
So laughter is definitely correlated with date success.
You'll look for blushing, that helps.
What's really cool, is you'll look for the maintenance or preparation of the face.
One of the things people tend to do is if they like you they want to look good.
Right?
So you'll tend to see that during the date for example, they may constantly fix something
or constantly gesture something about their face or constantly change some sort of aspect
of their face to make themselves essentially look better.
So one of the things you'll see before people kiss is that they lick their lips a lot or
apply lip gloss.
So what you can do is sit there across from somebody and they haven't applied lip gloss
once and then all of a sudden in the last 10 to 15 minutes of the date you tend to see
them apply lip gloss like three times.
Why?
Why are you applying lip gloss?
The reason is because you intend to be kissed.
People check their breath, people will lick their lips a lot.
I see it all.
I've observed so many people do this.
It makes sense.
We're about to kiss somebody we want our lips to be prepared.
It's one of those things we tend to do to attracted somebody.