that the relationship itself must be allowed to be alive it must be allowed to expand and so
what you're looking for are not promises because no one can keep any of them anyway
so you're not looking for promises what you're looking for is enough compatibility that you
that you have a pretty good chance of getting pretty good momentum going where you will not
lose yourself in the relationship what you're reaching for is the freedom to continue to decide
i want the freedom to continue to decide and in some ways a relationship in and of itself as from
your perspective of it sort of belies that because it it sort of says i i'm going to get so hooked
on you that then i won't have the freedom to not be hooked on you if i should choose to be it's a
freedom thing it's a control thing yes that you're feeling yes and you can get around that or or
get to the heart of it by understanding that the only thing that anybody can control is their own
relationship with who they are that's what you're reaching for all the time if we were entering into
a relationship standing in your physical shoes it is our promise to you that our relationship vows
or determination would go exactly like this so far i like you pretty good let's see how it goes
let's see how it goes i'm going to do my best to stay in alignment with who i am which means this
relationship has a really powerful probability of not only surviving but thriving because i'm going
to do everything that i can do to be in alignment which means i'm going to look for the best in you
and in everybody and i'm not going to talk hardly ever about things unwanted and i'm going to keep
myself so tuned in that i have source energy flowing through me so that my capacity to love
is going to be more than almost anybody you know because it's going to be steady and consistent
and my capacity to love you is not going to be contingent upon anything that you do
i'm leaving you out of that part of the equation i'm taking full responsibility for how i feel
and i'm going to practice it for a while i've been practicing it for a while
and i'd like to practice it for a while with you but i can't make any guarantees because
i want to be in alignment i just want to be in alignment i want to know that i can
be in alignment without holding someone else hostage to standing on their head
in lots of different ways in order to keep me in alignment so what i'm saying to you
potential lover of my life is that there are no deal breakers
there are no deal breakers there is nothing there is nothing there is nothing that you
could ask of me that would break this deal because my relationship with you is not
about that my relationship with you is about my relationship with source and you're really pretty
you're really pretty you're really smart you're real you're you're tuned in tapped in turned on
in other words have fun with this you don't have to make long-term promises but in the meantime
collect some data and in the proc in other words you're wanting to collect some data what you want
to say to people who are coming to you is i'm trying to find myself and and maybe we could
hang around together while i find myself and finding myself means i want to see how much time
i can spend with you with all of the variety that you might introduce into the relationship with me
while i stay in alignment with source energy that's what i'm doing right now and it is
our promise to you that you'll not only find that alignment but you'll find someone else
who has exactly the same plan can you imagine two people coming together who are neither one holding
each other hostage for the way the other one feels tuning in to source energy and living happily ever
after or not but living happily ever after or not not holding anybody responsible for how they feel
about them themselves how refreshing is that you see and that's really what you came to us to say
it is it is yeah it is so if we're because i study a lot of different
um platforms and cetera and i love your stuff it's conversational it's easy it's law based yes yes um
how do you phrase this is our purpose to awaken at in the in the human experience to the fact
that we're connected to source or is our is a is a purpose here to play with that we are source
and what what do you think is the distinction
because awakening to the fact that you are source is necessary before you play with source yes um
i guess it's it's more of a you know what is the meaning of life kind of a type of question
the meaning of life is i was alive before i came and i wanted to come into this body because i knew
that i would have more vivid tangible tactile experience with life to be physically focused
with all of its manifestational evidence is really the leading is the best this is where all creation
is so to be in human form and as you've said good words consciously consciously deliberately
aligned with that broader part so that i'm constantly and deliberately tuning myself to that
so that the whole of me or all that is available to me which is
more than we can even express can flow through me in any point in time so that my moments
in this body my focused moments are rich and full and meaningful and incredibly satisfying
to be in a physical body in concert with source energy so sometimes you're not in concert with
source energy because you're exploring contrast and out of that you are you are more defining
about what you want but then when you come back into concert with source energy and allow
yourself to experience what you have defined that's just as rich as it gets esther's been
asking some serious questions sort of like what you were posing here she is asking us abraham
do we really need to continue to write books and hold seminars and have conversations or are
aren't people just going to figure it out as they go along and we say certainly there is
the potential of figuring it out as you go along once you understand that your emotions are the key
but until you understand that emotions are the key until you get that you're vibrational
and that your emotions are your indicator of that then you don't have any guidance that is
consistent enough that you can really know what you're doing emotions and feelings are the same
thing in in your words close enough the emotions the way you feel emotions are your indicator
between the vibration of your thought in this moment and the thought of that broader part of
you that knows so if you're in a moment you're in a situation let's say you're you're part of
a program or you're taking the seminar or whatever and you're you're in resistance to it or anything
about it let's say it challenges your religious beliefs or whatever we would make up about it
how do we know what's the difference between the emotion of that and the feeling of that
well we would not try to make any distinction between the two because any and emote what we
mean when we when we say emotion again you have to start with the premise that you're vibrational and
so that an emotion is a literal physical translation of conflicted vibration right it's
introducing resistance into a vibration so for example when you're when you're feeling elation
there's no contradictory thought within you right when you're angry
there's a contradictory thought contradictory meaning what the source within you thinks about
this right now and what you're thinking about this right now aren't blending but you have the
free will to introduce it into the equation so you get the benefit of feeling how your thought
merges with the thought that you have really come to as the evolving expanding eternal being
that you are so the meaning of life the true meaning of life is expansion really the true
result of life is expansion we've we've said for quite a while that the basis of freedom because
you're so free you can choose bondage but and the purpose of it has to be joy because in seeking joy
then you're seeking alignment and the result of that is outrageously delicious expansion you say
can you be confused between your emotions and your feelings like you're in a in a situation where
like your belief system or your fears are holding if you don't isolate them if you don't isolate
them and examine them in a sort of steady way you can because because as you move from thought to
thought you're feeling shift right and so the best way to subdue that confusion that we've noticed
that our human friends have discovered is when you're feeling an emotion especially the strong
ones if you'll stop in the middle of it and just say simply let's say you're feeling a strong
positive emotion if you'll stop in the middle of it and say ah we have agreement here what
my opinion and the opinion of source about this right here is same when you have strong negative
emotion stop and say ah we have a disagreement my opinion and the opinion of source are not
the same my who i have really come to and who i'm allowing myself to be right now are not the same
so it's interesting because that means that all agreements or disagreements are between you and
you it they seem like they're about what that person wants or about what that person's doing
but they're just introducing a concept that you're having a reaction to right and the reaction that
most are having to what most are saying is i'm not free to choose and that's not true but once
you start exercising your freedom to choose and you watch the powerful law of attraction bring you
what you choose and bring you what you choose and bring you what you choose and bring you what you
choose you begin to feel invincible not selfishly invincible as if you are depriving others of what
they want but invincible in the sense that you understand your true point of attraction
and the power of it and the power of your point of attraction lies in the power of your ability
to focus on what you want and the power of your ability to focus upon you want what you want
lies in your ability to feel the difference between what you want and what you don't want
in other words you want love you want love i do you want love so when you think about
focusing on someone and loving them you want that love when you focus on losing them
or you focus on them not staying right or you focus upon them being distracted or not
loving you back now you're focused in a way that the source within you is never focused and so
and we can see how it could be confusing but we promise you once you get a handle on your
emotions you'll never be confused again you won't be confused about what you're doing and you won't
be confused about what anybody else is doing when you see somebody freaking out you just know
they're not in alignment with who they are and they might even be justified in not being in
alignment so this is the contradiction like when you say the want i want something which
is to me as i hear the inference of lack i want that therefore not that that's semantics and we
understand that and the word desire might be a better word applied to you but the the reason that
we don't mind the word want is because you we all will continue to be wanting right we will there
will always be more for us to move toward and as you relax into that understanding because it's
the premise of all expansion then yeah then it's good yeah so create your vision of what you want
desire and then sit in it as if you were already it or the experiences are what you believe it
will feel like well said exactly right so even though i'm not in a relationship to be
in a relationship in my mind with the person or or how i would have it to be or how i have her to be
well here's this is something that we would give to you that's a little different from that
certainly that works and if you're really close to knowing what you want and feeling
pretty good about it then that just accentuates in other words the more