- Hey, what's up.
It's me, Jesse J and I was just wondering
if you've ever sat and thought to yourself
what two things do women find most irresistible?
So I'm glad you asked, because today I'm going to
tell you the two things that
only confident men are capable of doing
that'll help you get and keep the women you want.
And these are two things that most guys,
bless their hearts, they think they should
absolutely never do when it comes to a woman.
So I'll make sure you stay till the very end, cause not
only am I going to tell you what these two things are
I'm going to tell you how to do these two things
on autopilot so that you can attract women
to you without ever having to try ever again.
And to makes sure you never miss out
on another opportunity to monetize women to you
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Okay. So these two things I'm going to tell you
about most people would argue that like,
oh my god, why would I do that?
Then I'm gonna land in prison. Or even
Oh my god I can't do that, then she like
won't like me and I'll never hear from her again.
But here's the thing,
20% of the men out there
are attracting 80% of the women out there.
So what you think would normally not work is
basically how the 80% of men
not getting the push they want are thinking.
Did you track my whole sentence on that one?
It is the men who stand out from all the rest
that we women will gravitate towards
a hundred percent of the time.
Again, the title of this video is
the irresistible things.
These are the things that we women
without rhyme or reason will just chase
after whether or not it's a logical thing to do.
Most of the times it is a very non rational decision
but we women, we want to be in the chase mode for you, men
as much as we bitch and complain about like,
Oh my god, like he's a fuck boy like he's never around.
That's actually the state we like being in.
We like being in the state of extreme tension
where the only thing
that will relieve that tension is you.
Okay. So the very first irresistible thing
that confident men do is think with their dick.
I don't know if you could see his.
Okay, so what do I mean by that?
Hold on I'm gonna put you down.
Okay. So what I mean by that,
thinking with your dick.
Actually, I mean, talking with your dick.
Ahh that's even scarier isn't it.
You see I can't talk with my penis I'll get arrested.
What I mean is we want you to want us
I can't stress that enough.
Most guys are afraid to talk with their dick
because they think that it's disrespectful,
that it's too forward, that it's creepy.
But at the end of the day, the super creepy loud
obnoxious frat boy will get laid a hundred times more
than the super respectful quiet guy
who doesn't want to upset her.
When it comes to women, we cannot resist the
guys who act like they cannot resist us.
We want to be wanted.
We want to be thought of as like sexy.
And we want to be chased after.
And we want a guy who looks
at us and is like, Oh my God, you're fucking hot.
I was having a conversation one time
with this super older gentleman
I'm going to say like in his seventies
and he's sitting there and he's talking about
I don't even fucking know what he was talking about
but he's sitting there and we're talking and he's like
and like you you're fucking hot, Oh my God.
And I was like, Oh my God.
It was very matter of fact, talk with his Dick.
He's not talking to me like, I'm an object,
but he is talking with his dick
which is what we women find so fucking irresistible.
So it didn't matter that he was like
super fucking old and married
and his kids were all older than me.
There was something in that moment, something so primal
in me that was like, Oh my god,
what I would do to his old dick and balls.
It is not an unromantic thing
or an ungentlemanly thing to show us you want us.
In fact, that's what we're fucking here for.
That's what the puss was made for.
The puss was made to take you in.
If you don't talk with it and we're not going to think
that you want us to take you in, so we never will.
And if you're not a man who was comfortable
talking with your, you know what
then I'm going to go over what you can do about it.
After I give you the second
most irresistible trait confident guys have
which is walking away.
I can't tell you how many men I come across
in my line of work, where they just
hold on for dear life.
Jessica, I can't not text her,
then she'll forget about me. I got to keep texting her
I don't want to lose her.
Or even, I just like keep trying to like
come up with more things to do
and more things to say and then she just
kept pulling away more and I don't get it,
I was trying so hard, I can't let her go.
But let me tell you what,
the men who are capable of walking away
are the men that we are going to have to chase after.
We can't chase after somebody
who's standing right fucking here all the time
like my toaster and just can't get up
and just leave and just won't so I forget it's even there.
Here's the thing, if you know you're not
getting what you want and you know,
this is a girl who's not into you,
why would you want to be with somebody
who doesn't want you.
It's the men that are like fuck that
I don't want to be with somebody who isn't
super fucking crazy about me.
Fuck that, fuck her, bye girl, onto the next one.
It's that attitude that makes us think like
whoa wait oh my god like maybe I am missing out,
shit, he doesn't need me? I now need him.
Sure it's very antithetical to think that
walking away is actually going to get you with a girl.
Or being a little more peen prone in your conversations
is going to gross her out.
But really, again, it's the things that
set you apart from the 80% of the men out there
who won't do it cause they're too scared.
And if you know that you're just not getting there
in regards to being able to
be the sexual guy that we need you to be,
or if you're having trouble justifying walking away,
don't forget to check out this video I made
on why we women will
chase after the guys who are not
doing the rational thing when it comes to seduction.
I call this the override effect
where something in what you do triggers
a thing in our brain to shut off all rational reason
and just come after you, compelled with
the emotions that you've stirred within us.
Again, I don't even think I said it
I did this video at Speak To Spark Arousal.com
it's going to show you the override effect
which is going to have you creating
this mechanism in women where they're like
oh my god I have to fucking have him
I don't even care if my girl friends think
he's ugly or if he's broke or if he's really weird.
I have to have him.
That's the override effect
that's what I'm going to teach you.
If you don't know how to talk to your,
talk with your dick, talk to your dick
you probably do a lot or
walk away effectively in a way that
gets women magnetized towards you
without even trying anymore.
Again, at Speak To Spark Arousal.com
you're going to learn the override effect
if these two things are things that you're
not capable of carrying out with women
in your conversations right now
and once you do carry out these two
simple things, welcome to the top tier,
20% of men who are able to get
80% of the women out there.
Thanks for watching as always
and I'll see you guys next time.