- And sometimes we have another problem they sure to accept presents from men
and they really need some time to get used to the fact that man can give her presents
- So a couple of weeks back marriage agency owner or matchmaking broker
sent me a video from a rival don't you just love how they like two dox each
other in and in this video the ... I guess matchmaking service they review or they
react to one of my videos my I guess infamous video at this stage five
reasons never to date a Ukrainian in girls part of a series of course I made
a couple of them gonna link those up up in a card if you haven't seen all of
them already also down below in the description go and take a click after
you've watched this video of course and I think there are some really
interesting points that I can educate you a little bit with in this video
because you're gonna see just how how revealing a lot of their reaction to my
video where I give you the honest hardcore advice about you know the
problems and issues the foreign guys face when they come to Ukraine to try
and date beautiful Ukrainian women and you're gonna see the reaction and
there's a little bit of an undertone that's very very revealing so let's go
and I'm gonna just react to just a couple of clips in their video and
you're gonna see what I mean one of my friends he was in Kiev and he matched with a girl on
tinder and they agreed to meet at a restaurant in the center and she said
suddenly there will also be 2 of my girlfriends with me is
that okay he went along with it he acquiesced and he said yeah sure and so that's
three people on a date which is just weird let's be honest about it why would
two girlfriends come so anyways they had dinner and he paid
the bill because Ukraine and he has to pay entire tab that's just the way
that the culture works then they went to another place across the street which is
a very expensive and famous bar in Kiev and he told me that when you know maybe
ten minutes later all this sushi just appeared on the table these girls have
already eaten so they just ordered it he didn't speak
Russian so he didn't realize that's what they're ordering why do you think my
friend did in this situation you think he got angry no no there's a better way
he just looked at his phone picked it up and said ah girls sorry I have to
take a business call it's noisy here I'll just be back man I'm gonna
take it outside he never came back - he is a real gentleman it's nothing to say
yeah a real gentleman and you know it's funny how a man is always a victim in
such a situation why nobody's saying that he agreed to meet with the first girl he
was open to meet her friends and of course he was taken to the second bar
not under the weapon - this is the thing just because a guy invites you out on a
date does not mean he's legally adopted you and that he's now suddenly
responsible for everything every expense that you incur in his presence right
there's normal decorum and politeness and manners which often Ukrainian girls
don't have it's true but in this case even in Ukrainian normal etiquette you
don't start ordering you know a second dinner without asking the guy who
invited you because he has to pay the bill it's so disrespectful and you see
here their reaction their action is like my friend or you in that similar situation
you should just suck it up take out your card and pay for it because that's what
you are there for and this is very very disconcerting because these women owe a
fiduciary ... they have a fiduciary relationship with their clients right so
they I were supposed to look out for the best interest of their clients who match
my friend in this case right they've where they've gone on a date imagine
this happened with one of the women that they set a client up with are they gonna
react the same way she invited her friends and they went to second restaurant
and just used him for money for free food - it was something that he wanted to
- Probably he realized that there won't be a threesome yeah
and then the dumb joke
about the threesome as if that's the reason why he left when he was getting
scammed again they think it's funny they think it's a big joke of course the guy
should pay and to get suckered the Western guy when he comes yeah that's
what they're there for and that is what really
got me when I watched this video really I find it very very very disappointing
So that's it for me from this video I've given you guys five reasons having
talked to my friends who are foreigners or in different countries like Italy
Turkey US Britain about why you should never date a Ukrainian girl it's not always
like in my video from Odessa where I showed you you know
beautiful weather a great city super hot chicks - well maybe he's dating chicks and
not ladies so that's a problem -- oh so another curious thing that I find
about marriage and dating sites or matchmaking services that are marketing
themselves towards former men who want to meet beautiful Ukrainian women in cities
like Odessa on the shores of Black Sea is the fact that they always use the
word lady to describe the women that they're trying to pitch to their clients
now of course lady is a word a general word in English but it's very for me a
curious word to be using because you don't use it that often we use in terms
of special context in English like to be a lady is usually kind of a little bit
more refined maybe - ladies use guys Ukrainian ladies serious Ukrainian ladies
- and obviously the equivalent on the male side is gentlemen - gentlemen and ladies
a real gentlemen and yes it's in Ukrainian traditions when the lady goes out to the
gentleman with Ukrainian or the foreign gentleman foots the bill I don't know
any such ladies - now just think back where these words were really commonplace that would have
been probably a hundred years ago I'm guessing maybe longer when it was very
chivalrous women had no access to education make money or anything like
that and what was the natural the natural consequence to that men were 100%
the providers for the family the main breadwinner and I know that's part of
the marketing is traditional values but basically they're using this word lady
in this very antiquated sense when let's be let's be frank about it you will be
taking out your credit card to pay for things and to sponsor your lady - you
know it's very strange usually guys contact us and
they're really they don't like that politics of feminism they don't want to
compete with women but at the same time they come to Slavic countries because
women are more traditional here yes - right let me just stop it there the
number one reason why Western men at least come to Eastern Europe hoping to
meet beautiful women is that reason because they're more beautiful let's I
mean I know all the marketing for these marriage agencies is always about traditional
values and there's a certain extent radical feminism I talk about this
obviously in one of my vodcasts so again up and below as always if you want to go
and watch those if you've missed it but yes that is a factor but that's not the
number one factor if that was number one factor Western man would be running
around North Africa or the Middle East looking for women and their men wouldn't
be coming to Eastern Europe either if it was all about traditional values believe
me women the Middle East women Muslim women they're super traditional but
they're also not sexually liberal and on average although was like Lebanese women
I did talk about that in one video where it is of course more liberal in Lebanon
than the rest of the region they're not as beautiful on average this is the
reason the guys are here and she's trying to put it about Western feminism
here that just doesn't gel this is not the reason why Western men come it's not
you know if the women were ugly in Eastern Europe compared to Western
European women believe me there wouldn't be so many guys coming and running
around looking for women in Eastern Europe this is the number one reason not
this stuff about traditional values so yeah - I don't claim anything maybe they
are like nice people but if a girl is dancing half-naked or if she posts half
naked photos it doesn't mean that she's like a wife material so that sad - very
interesting that the continuously slut-shaming is actually I found a clip
in her video where she shows quite a lot of cleavage his own I mean I'm not gonna
start slut shaming but interesting a little bit hypocrisy maybe yeah - don't
try to date people from such trashy dating sites or don't go to nightclubs
right she is very like your smile and a mini-dress and it's all
- they're all very anti girls you would meet in night clubs or bars but a lot of
them they organize what are called socials which are basically parties for
their clients that are exactly like nightclubs and bars they're basically a
banquet hall a nightclub or a bar it has music and dancing it has alcohol and has
basically everything a bar or club would have except admittance is reserved just
for their clients and they invite a huge number of women to them all right and
they charge a huge entrance fee to the guys who go so I can actually see where
the value might be and this for certain guys who basically don't want to work on
themselves and they're normally very unsuccessful night clubs or bars otherwise
you just go to night club or bar and actually the ratio of being ten to one
is actually good if all the women are actually generally there to meet someone
which of course you can't really vouch for but we'll just leave that out for
the moment so that's actually what they appeal appeal to certain guys on is
basically like listen you basically suck and you can't go to a bar or club
you can't get attention from women in your hometown but come here we will rig
everything so that you have this experience like kind of nightclub
experience where girls want to talk to you and they're actually interested in
now that's one way to do things I'm not saying that's a scam or anything just
wouldn't it be better to work on yourself and actually become the guy who
can go to the nightclub or bar or club or any sort of social situation and
actually have women genuinely interested in you rather having to create this
artificial set environment where the girls are supposed to like you and also
isn't it very interesting that unless you're paying for their nightclub or bar
you don't find good girls and nightclubs and bars - of course ladies that go out to
clubs and now they are till 3 a.m. would be quite different from the ladies that
we attract to our exclusive matchmaking base or ladies that do not go clubbing - you
know just be skeptical about why they they're against night and bars they're
competition because nightclubs and bars obviously corral women beautiful women
the top women often into these places where there's alcohol and fun and
music they tell you no no you're not gonna meet them there but you know you
pay us the big bucks which basically is about the same as paying for a table at
a normal nightclub normally from what I've seen on pricing you can come to a social
which is basically another name for a private party at a nightclub or bar
- So one thing that you really have to realize about Ukraine and dating is that it's
absolutely massive business an industry insider actually told me that Russia and
you can combine is a dating market marketed towards foreigners is actually
a 1 billion dollar per year industry so basically that's why they have all these
structures the disingenuous agencies basically set up to milk you along the
way as much as possible you have to realize that if you're paying for stuff
like communication and all these expensive relatively expensive for
Ukraine services like sending flowers and gifts and of course they've already
set you up as I explained earlier in the video with all chivalry and ladies
and gentlemen and you're the white knight coming with all your with your
credit card and they're they're the ones that are gonna take advantage of that so
just be very cognizant of just how big a business it is in this region and
Ukraine is pretty much the ones who marketed the most now contrast that
to what what I explained in a recent episode of my vodcast with neighboring
Belarus where the situation is very different where there's a strict rule of
law and you basically cannot really get away with being a scammer yeah just be
very very careful if you decide to come to a marriage agency in Ukraine that you
do understand how everything's structured
- Yeah we were in Odessa this summer just to give an example and basically the Western Europeans also
from the Middle East or Turkey I saw even and it was clear the girls they
were so I will not call them professional but very smart in deceiving
those poor guys who had no knowledge of the way of their thinking and actually
took advantage of their wallets and then made them pay for clubs and food and
drinks they did not order and the bill was higher and basically scammed them and
they were not really successful asking me
as I said I'm with the insider so it's not gonna happen
very simple - so there you go that's my video about why you should never ever use
a marriage, matchmaking or dating service in Ukraine if you are really determined
though to go and use one of those services in spite of all my warnings in
this video then definitely go and check out the links below to the couple of
matchmaking services that appear to be genuine that I have done some
collaborations with in the past go check out their ... I have some content also with
them some other videos so you can go and at least learn from that now if you are
looking for something very different which ironically in the last year has
actually led to a lot of success two of my my clients who lived the tsar experience are
actually getting married which has left actually me really shocked because that
wasn't this explicit purpose of coming and living the tsar experience it was
almost a possibility of course as you know if you're a regular viewer of this
channel I do not provide any matchmaking dating or marriage service explicitly
what I provide with my clients is just an unforgettable experience here in the
east of Europe whether that happens to be in Russia Ukraine or Belarus if you are
interested and you believe that you are worthy of living the tsar experience
because it's not for everybody it's not a good fit if you're not interested
investing the time and money into developing yourself and actually pushing yourself
to really be worthy of dating beautiful women in this region and you're not
completely crazy unrealistic about what is possible
I'm obviously gonna help you a lot but I can't make miracles happen if
you're not the right fit if you're not actually coachable you have to be open
to actually developing yourself if you are that kind of person then I have an
application form that you can click on below in the description to this video
go to that fill out the questions and if I think having reviewed it that you're
potentially good fit to work with me then we'll be jumping it on a short
strategy call together to see if we can work out the technicalities
technicalities of where and when we would meet could be here in Odessa Mama
not at this time of year to be clear Odessa is not a winter city I don't
recommend coming here in winter but in summer it is a phenomenal place to come
to we'll probably be hitting another city if it's in the next few months together
equally if you put on this video you've watched it because you were maybe a lot
younger ... also thinking of a dating service I see that they've now started
marketing themselves a little bit to the younger demographic they seem to be
pushing into things a little bit like pickup artistry which is kind of
hilarious for me because that's not really what most of them seem to be
suitable for but if you put on that and you've been on this video you've come
across it and you've been considering because you find yourself in that
category like you need a lot of maybe help with coaching on your confidence
you're not maybe in the older category you know trying to find a wife because
you feel like your biological clock in a certain sense it's obviously more
relevant for women but also for men feel like you're getting older but if you're
in that younger category then also the tsar experience is not going to be for you
because quite frankly I want guys who have a certain level of confidence with
women I have helped you know some of my initial clients with that but
it's really not where I think I can give the best value and it's not really what
I want to do myself there are other guys normally or women on the Internet who can
help you with maybe basic confidence coaching how to approach women how to
build up yourself and actually be able to engage with women be normal with them and
actually then push on be able to project yourself I think that's probably best
for you to do first before you apply for something like the tsar experience
because it's really kind of like I guess then the last level the last
step you're gonna have to take in terms of developing yourself to actually be
really successful here in Eastern Europe with women but it's actually not just
that it's just like you're gonna come here and have a phenomenal experience
but if you don't for example feel very confident fit in well in nightclubs
or whatever category you fall into then or when you go out socialize you're just
a bit awkward a bit out of place then it's not really gonna be for you you
need to work on other things in your life of first before you can get that
level and then you can apply to live the tsar experience anyways I've been
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