again we want material things are even achieving goals
it's never about the thing it's always about the value that were trying to fulfill
and we can start with something very simple like I want a new car.
I want to make six figures next year can be any of those things that you might
consider to be materialistic
it's fine because there's always a value behind it so you have something in mind? Do you want to say what it is
are do you want to... You don't want to say what it is.
so what word can we use to refer to it? Powderpuff.
so you want powderpuff and you have it off in training four times around the sensory
acuity skills
watch your breathing we go because in town making plans to talk in by her
posture
you know just be looking for these things what else
Alvin and listen to the words issue
games on so you want her
and if you have my house in the air
yeah and if you can buy a house
well what's important up well I'm supposed to stay positive but tired of
feeling just trying to combine I can just get their house
ok so you know she is a bit of the also what you want to come back to what you
want to 71 a bigger house so if you have a bigger house
you didn't have to deal with that before
ok did you see that
all ships you did and some of them and she said relax now
he likes of the value so with the drive so the box is not something you see I'm
going to be looking somewhere in Neverland not something that is really
happening
its internal experience ok and what's important to you about realizing i could
be so present knowledge you also link on the word people so that's an indication
that there's something there that's important to her but I want to keep more
attractive what we're talking about
so if you were president specifically people
feeling making the use
so she didn't really go up the logical levels to kind of that supplements and
use the word time she went on that
so these are meeting about the time you have left
and what you want to do with that time to worry about that
I'm saying was working on making that again I'm 18
so if you are wasting
got him out of it
you should use a metaphor which is nice I was doing something tomorrow i will
keep that in mind
work to use about a more interesting that for that to come again later
- so a little bit about that is turning from the client may be a little more
like bacteria
what was that for what do you see here you know yourself doing well and when
you're going well
what is that allows you to do or have fully present a lot of feel
Silent Night Live present
we got puppies give me a year now and so when you're able to relax
still very present slow really feel alive
put all that experiencing that within that a lot of you to experience it
now she might be 50 top here to my idea
the height of this and we're gonna check out what's important about jewel in
other ways that you know that you kind of get the highest guy is she either can
tell you before about it or she starts going back down logical
she starts going back to some of the things that she said before that you can
see from here understands up a lot better
okay so she's getting in touch with these things that you've got quite that
and i would have a sense that right now
station and you know if I really wanted to tell you something you bought all the
workshops are
so this is going to use I mean the person i like this was really the cells
context that you listed values and your package whatever you do something with
the value is also very good so I don't you
so reporters kind of applied at this point but you might be a little more
before the same values and understanding what you're telling me that's very
important to you
so this is really good for also your sensory skills if you're watching how
she slowed down a lot of progress in some sort of the ship red
so now I know what's really really important and pretty much all of these
can be transformed into qualities
these are our values behind these are all qualities as well so are being
present you like your very presence person
ok so I just identifying the video quality
sometimes present not also I when it comes to flow
you say that you people that love you
then you're really going to bed since if you're a lot of most of the family that
ok so these are all qualities and we're going to get to transform an addictive
qualities of certain quality
look at the way you can have all these qualities are certain self-concept so
well isolated one for you . we are also going to follow a certain quality
so this is just a sensitive intelligent person seen you guys are very different
than the other together so that's again
I didn't see the presentation she's like yeah certain balding things don't take
it serious
so that would be an example of a certain quality now the highest values are
uncertain qualities and specifying if you can turn all of these into certain
qualities of all people
your experience to it probably