- [Narrator] One year ago,
I started tracking my mood every day.
Each night, I'd look back on my day and give myself a score.
Was I proud of what I accomplished?
Did I struggle with anxiety?
How many times did I get so frustrated
that I plowed my head through drywall?
I've heard a lot of people talk about the benefits
of tracking your mood and happiness over the years.
- Every single day I track how I feel zero to 10
about my life, my work, and my health.
- [Narrator] But I've never tried it up until now.
Could it help me find happiness, contentment,
and a greater sense of awareness over my feelings?
Here's what I learned
from tracking my mood every day for one year.
This video is sponsored by Squarespace,
more on them later.
- All right, so my very first step was to figure
out a system for tracking.
Now to create some consistency around this habit,
I decided to set an alarm each night at 7:00 PM.
This way, I could look back on my day,
reflect, and give it a score.
Inspired by author Jim Collins, I settled
on a five point scale from minus two to plus two.
Minus two being awful, minus one being bad, zero being fine,
plus one being good, and plus two being amazing.
I found out pretty early on
that it's really freaking hard to give your day a score.
It felt like I was
over a simplifying a really difficult question,
"Did I have a good day today?"
I mean, my mood varies so wildly from the time I wake up
to the time my head hits the pillow at the end of the night
that it's really hard to tell.
- [Narrator] But as I got into it,
one thing that really helped me was to write down a summary
of what happened that day.
Sometimes it was just a few words, other times,
a full paragraph.
(upbeat music)
January 6th, spent six hours trying to screw eight holes
into a wall, score, minus one.
March 20th, ate two donuts, played Last Of Us,
score, plus one.
October 13th, got Nat pregnant, score,
(upbeat music)
plus two.
Instead of being swayed by my current mood,
by writing down this reflection summary,
I was able to give myself a better picture
of the day that I had.
- I didn't realize until later
that these summaries would really become an invaluable tool
as I looked back on my year and tried
to spot patterns and trends.
- [Narrator] The system that I'm using isn't new.
Top performers from different fields all
over the world have been doing this kind
of record keeping for years.
On the extreme end, skateboarder and entrepreneur
Rob Dyrdek systematically tracks every minute of his day.
- I track every bit of my time and tag it
and it pumps into a dashboard.
So I could tell you exactly where I spend every single hour
of my life over the last three years.
- [Narrator] He then ranks each day on a scale
of zero to 10.
- This now gives me insight to what things would pull
and take energy from the quality of my life through the lens
of what's happening in my work, how I'm taking care
of myself, and what's going on in my life.
- [Narrator] But that kind of obsessive tracking
isn't for everyone.
- I take it to a fanatical level.
- On the more reasonable end, Jim Collins,
bestselling author of "Good to Great" tracks his day
in a simple spreadsheet.
He talked about his approach on Tim Ferriss's podcast.
- [Speaker] So at the end of every single day,
I open a spreadsheet
and that spreadsheet has three cells on a line.
The first thing is just a simple accounting
of what happened that day
and then the second cell is the number
of creative hours I got that day.
Now there's a third cell
and what this is a totally subjective,
how quality was the day?
- [Narrator] The biggest benefit that people
like Dyrdek and Collins get from tracking their mood,
they get accurate data on how they're spending their time
and if that time is being spent wisely.
- It makes it so much easier to say yes and no
to things because you're looking at it
through the lens of first, second, third order consequences.
- [Narrator] And most importantly,
after they step back and analyze this data,
they can adjust their life accordingly.
After all, data doesn't really help
unless you do something with it.
- As impressed as I was
with some of these crazy tracking systems,
I was really just doing this for one reason.
I wanted to find out if I was as happy as I hoped I was.
Now, this seems like an obvious thing to answer except
for the fact that we actually do a really bad job
at accurately judging our own happiness
and that's because if we're in a funk,
we have a tendency to think, "I'm unhappy.
My life is miserable."
But the truth is that we're probably just having a bad week.
- [Narrator] As someone who has struggled
with a lot of anxiety and burnout,
I frequently fall into these patterns
and I was hoping that by the end of this experiment,
I could look back and say, "Hey, you know what?
I had a pretty good year," and so I continued
to track each day, the good ones and the bad.
- We got mouth guards.
- I don't know if I like it.
- [Narrator] The totally boring and the once in a lifetime.
(soft music)
One thing I noticed early on was
how much more self-aware I was over my feelings.
Okay, so my computer froze and I lost three hours of work.
Am I really going to let this ruin my day?
(smash)
The answer's yes, yes,
I will definitely let this ruin my day.
I spotted my first real trend
in September when Nat and I took a month off
to get married and travel around Europe.
I had 24 days that were a plus one
and above and zero bad days at all.
This was the first month that I'd ever taken off from work
and as someone that has struggled in the past
with taking weekends off, it was a really strong signal
that maybe I shouldn't center my entire life around work.
The year wasn't without its challenges.
November was one of the worst months that I had all year.
I logged 19 days with a score of zero or lower.
I felt like I had no consistency in my routine.
Nat was sick from her first trimester of pregnancy
and I was struggling to get motivated with work
so I wouldn't really worry too much
about the fact that you can't,
(coughing)
hold on one second.
After a few months of tracking,
I realized the handwritten journaling system I was using
was a little more tedious than I expected.
So out of sheer necessity, I gave up the pen and paper
and started using an app called Daylio.
This definitely made things easier
from a tracking perspective.
This process was starting to make a difference
and I felt a little bit more accountable each day
and I was eager to see
if there was anything I could learn new
from taking a step back after 365 days
to spot bigger trends in my life and happiness.
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I don't know why I just winked, that's weird.
So I did it.
I tracked every single day for 365 days
and here's what my year at a glance looks like.
(accelerating sound)
69 amazing days, 169 good days, 98 fine days, 25 bad days,
and four awful days.
Using the five point scale, I could add up all
of my days to come up with an average score
for the year which was,
(drum roll)
0.75 and if you're rounding up,
that means that I had a good year.
Yeah, I had a good year, but now I wanted to see
if there was anything I could learn
by zooming in and taking a closer look at the data.
So I pulled everything into this spreadsheet here.
There are four main columns, day, mood, reflection,
summary, and keywords.
One of the really cool things
about organizing it like this is
that I can now sort my daily scores to find trends
among my best and worst days
and here are the biggest lessons that I learned.
Work and productivity came up a lot, 119 times in total.
But I think the most interesting thing was that it showed
up both on my very best days as well as my very worst days.
Two of my lowest rated days were
because I burnt out from working over 12 hours in a day.
But on the opposite end,
many of my best days were rated plus two because of work.
I didn't have to travel
around Europe to have a peak experience.
Simply sitting down at my desk, getting lost in my work,
and making progress towards my goals was enough.
I already knew that I had a complicated relationship
with work, but one clear trend that I noticed was
that I never ranked a day positively because I worked
over 10 hours, but there were many negative days
because I just simply worked too much.
So this could really be one thing that I work
on going forward slash continue to work on going forward
'cause I've been trying for a while.
Can I cut myself off before I reach that 10 hour mark?
So I've been working on this video
for 12 and a half hours now.
That's your answer.
I'm not doing a good job.
- [Narrator] The one trend that surprised me the most
and this is going to sound a little bit corny
is the keyword fun.
27% of my best days happened because I did something fun.
I think like a lot of people,
I grew up really quickly after college
and I tried to become an adult as fast as I could
and that meant focusing all of my energy on my ambitions
and leaving video games, travel, and sports behind.
But now that I've started to make more room
for fun by traveling with Nat, by learning how to golf,
by joining a softball team for the first time in five years,
my happiness has really gone up a lot.
(swing)
- [Speaker] Fore.
- [Narrator] My golf game has not.
People who regularly track their mood
say it helps them increase their self-awareness,
and identify underlying issues and I think that's true.
There's something about tracking your mood every day
that forces you to confront the things
that you're not happy about.
The goal isn't to get rid of bad days entirely.
They're inevitable.
The goal is growth, to continually find ways
to challenge yourself, to improve your circumstances,
to move yourself a little bit closer
to the life you wanna live.
- Thanks so much for watching.
And yes, if you were wondering, I do my own stunts.
(smash)