Hey guys, did you know there are certain phrases
that a man can say to a woman
that will make her melt
yes, even if you've just met her.
So, whether you've just met her
or you've been together for a while
these are the phrases that turn women on.
If you're new to my channel
my name is Anna Jorgensen
welcome to just the tip Tuesday.
The first thing is that these are not pickup lines
that will land you a one-night relationship.
However, they can influence and affect
that goal if that's your goal
and make you stand out from other men
who are not using these phrases.
But if you are looking for a keeper
and want the one
that you can settle down with without settling
then these are definitely phrases
you're going to want to keep in your tool kit.
But the key is knowing when to use them
and when to tuck them away for later use
or when to definitely not use them.
So, let's get into the phrases
and then I’m going to share with you
when not to use them.
One, I got this babe or bae, baby pet name
depending on your generation
and where you're at in your relationship.
So, when you say I got this babe
that lets her know that you're taking care of her
and an example of this can be big or small
it can be paying for something paying for a coffee
I got this babe.
Or it can be dealing with a plumber
I got this babe
so she doesn't have to deal with something
that is less pleasant.
And it also shows leadership and confidence.
Number two, very similar phrase that you can use
is I'll take care of it
and again, this can be used when buying something
or dealing with an unpleasant situation
or just handling something that
she's maybe really too tired to do like laundry.
Or if you can see that she's frustrated
because the trash is full
and she's now taking it out
you go over and take that trash
and say I'll take care of it,
she will note, she will take note trust me.
Now, this especially works
if she is trying to take care of the thing herself
but you know she really doesn't want to,
but she's trying to suck it up because
maybe because of feminism
or maybe because she doesn't want to nag you
or maybe because
she thinks she should just do it herself.
Whenever you step up and help her out
when she's doing something she really
doesn't want to be doing,
but she's doing it anyway maybe to save you
or maybe to save a relationship
or maybe because she just wants it done.
If you say I'll take care of this
then she's really going to appreciate that
maybe not in that moment.
If she's got resentment because you haven't done this thing
that she had hoped you'd want to do
she might be like finally.
But just let her have her frustration
stay cool calm collected do your thing
don't be resentful because she's resentful
and just know that it is stored in her psyche
that she is appreciative of that.
If you've just met her
again saying I'll take care of it
could be getting into
a restaurant or finding a seat.
Or finding a place for her coat or any little thing
that you can help her with that shows her
that you're taking care of her and taking charge
will definitely make her want you more
than if you don't do that.
Three, you got this babe.
So, if you say you got this babe
it shows encouragement
it shows that you support her
it shows that you believe in her skills and abilities.
So, if she is wavering on going back to school
because she doesn't think she can handle it
or asking for a promotion or changing careers
or let's say if you have just met a woman
and you don't know her very well and essentially
you can get into a conversation with her
and find out what things
she might be struggling with
you know, what challenges is she looking at.
But it allows you to find out
where her insecurities are
and either exploit them
or encourage her to overcome them.
So, just find out what...
You know what she's struggling with
and then you can say you got this.
From what I know of you already
I can tell you got this.
So, you don't say babe or anything like that
because you don’t know her well enough
to give her an intimate label.
Four, you are so beautiful.
Okay, now I know I've said in other videos
that you shouldn't compliment a woman on her physical looks
especially if she's really beautiful.
Now, if you haven't watched that video
then you're definitely going to want to watch that video
I will link it at the end how to complement women,
but essentially once
you've actually already established
a bit of a relationship with a woman you can say
and you should say you are so beautiful.
The best time to say you are so beautiful
is first thing in the morning
when she's got no makeup on
and she hasn't even tried.
Or she's just got out of the shower
and she's got no makeup on if you're
actually in a relationship
or you know you've gotten that far down the road.
If you don't know her very well
then you might say that
to her when she's on a day
where she's not necessarily looking her best.
Because then it's not just about
what she puts on externally
whether it’s makeup hair clothes
to garner your approval of her looks basically.
Now, if you do know her
or have known her for a little while
maybe you're even in the friend zone
or maybe you’ve been with her for a while
then the other time where you're going to say
you look so beautiful is when she clearly
has made an extra effort
to look extra good that day.
So, for some reason she's looking better
because she's put in extra effort
because she's going for a job interview
or because you're going out on a date
or something like that
then yes, she does want to know that
you think she's so beautiful.
And especially if you've been with her for a while
she's going to want to know
that you're still attracted to her
because all women understand that
physical attraction can wane over time
and men notice looks more.
So, she's going to want to know
that you're still attracted to her over time
and depending on the girl it might be a month later
it might be 10 years later
where you're going to want to continue to use this.
This is in your toolbox
you need to use your relationship toolbox
to keep the maintenance of the relationship
from the very beginning to the very end
in fine tunement.
Five, again along the same lines
is you look extra beautiful or extra *** today.
And you can use this again with someone that
you are flirting with that you already know is
accepting of the mutual flirt
or even of your flirt.
Where you're trying to gain her as your girlfriend
maybe you're just courting
or maybe you're dating
and if you're in a relationship this also applies.
So, when you say you look extra beautiful
you're implying she always looks beautiful
but today she looks extra beautiful or sexy.
And again this makes her feel special.
Six, one more in the beautiful category
you can also say especially
if you've been together for a while
and or you’ve gone through some difficulties
and now you're on the other side.
Now, keep in mind there are some times
you’re not going to say these phrases
that are really inappropriate
will have the reverse effect
there will be a turn off
and I will share that with you
in a little bit here.
So, but first of all, the next beautiful phrase
that you can use on a woman sincerely
is how do you just keep getting
more beautiful all the time
or every year or every day or whatever it is.
So, if you’ve been with a girl for a little bit of time
whether it's it could be three months
it could be six months, it could be
six years, ten years, whatever.
Six years, you want to continue to say
that you’re attracted to her by showing her,
by telling her that she's beautiful
because women really know that
men are attracted to beauty
and actually side note here,
studies show that men of all ages look...
When they look at photos of women
the average age that men find attractive is 21.
That's whether the man is 20 or 60
whereas women actually find men
closer to their own age
attractive when they've done these studies.
So, it really is true
you guys... I mean it's just biology.
It's not a bad thing it’s just biology,
but we all know this instinctively
and women really know it so that...
Especially if a woman has been with you for a while
she wants to be reassured
that you're still attracted to her
to her physical beauty.
Seven, hello my love.
So, when you say hello my love
or if you're not
actually with her in a relationship,
you might say hello beautiful
or hello lovely you are...
If you're in a relationship you're basically claiming
possession of her
this may ruffle
a few feathers especially with women,
but if you've ever been in a relationship and said
and your man has said hello my love
or the next one that I’m going to share with you.
This will help give her butterflies
this will give her butterflies like the first times
she kissed you or you kissed her.
Especially if you're saying it in a setting
I’m going to describe in a moment
then you are essentially announcing to the world
you are off the market and she's your girl.
So, while a man needs respect and to be desired
to be respected and desired
a woman needs to feel loved and cherished.
So, one of the ways
you can make her feel loved and cherished
is by making these kinds of
subtle public declarations
especially if she's with
a group of her girlfriends
and especially, especially
if she's with a group of women
and any of them are attractive.
So, if you walk up to her
in a group setting and said hello my love
then she is going to be like he just claimed me
that means you can't have him.
So, that's the internal unconscious dialogue
that's going on in her mind
and more importantly in her body
when you say something like that.
When you claim her in front of other women.
Now, when you don't want to do this
and I'll give you three examples at the end
of when you never want to use these
but you may not want to use this
if she's in a group of men
maybe she’s talking to
a group of colleagues or friends.
And you go up and say hello my love,
then that may be interpreted
as you being insecure
and needing to claim her
in front of those other men.
Now, depending on the woman and your relationship
that may be a turn on or it may be a turn off
so that one is something
that you're going to have to navigate
in your particular relationship
if and when you get to that stage.
If you don't know her you can still walk up to
the woman that you're interested in
and if she's in a group setting
whether it's men or women and say hello beautiful.
Or hello lovely or if you're not at that
stage of comfort level
of communication with that girl
then you might want to say hello lovely Ashley
or you know that way if you're not certain
that she's reciprocating her feelings towards you
then you're not going to
put her in an awkward situation
where she's going to have to say yeah, no I’m not
maybe you can just call me Ashley, right.
So, you want to at least know that
there might be a bit of interest from her.
Now, if there is interest and you walk up to her
and say hello lovely Ashley
then again,
especially if she's in a group with women
then she's going to feel singled out and special
and that'll make her feel good
because you're not saying that to the other women.
And again, the next one is very similar to that
you might say hello my woman.
Now, of course this is when you're either dating
or in a relationship
because if you claim her when you're not
then that's going to most likely look insecure,
but if you claim her when you're in a relationship
again, especially if she's with
other women that are attractive
then she's going to feel special, cherished.
So, now let's look at
when not to use these phrases,
when never to use these phrases
or they will backfire.
And then I’m going to give you one extra juicy tip
for how to use these phrases
that will ramp up their effectiveness.
When not to use, never use these phrases
when there's something in it for you.
If you use these phrases
when there's something in it for you
when you're trying to get something
then it's going to come off
as insincere and manipulative
because that's what it actually is.
So, never use them if you are in trouble
if you're in the doghouse for some reason
and you're looking for forgiveness
because that's what it's going to be taken for.
She's not going to trust you
in future using these phrases
because she'll automatically associate them
with you trying to win over her forgiveness.
Unless it's something very, very small
and you totally exaggerated
and I'll give you that example in just a minute.
The second time
that you're never going to use these phrases
is if you actually want something from her.
Whether you want a favor
or you're going to be asking for something
that you know it's going to be contentious
or that she's not going to want to give you
or like nookie or maybe you want to go
on a bachelor party to Vegas
when the maxim 100 swimsuit models are there
or something that
you know, she's not going to be happy about.
So, don't use these phrases
when you're trying to get something
or you might be able to get away with it
is if it's something relatively small.
Now, you have to gauge because in this example
it depends on whether or not
she's really insecure
or not insecure or jealous or not jealous.
Now, if that's the case then you might want to watch
my red flags video because that's in there.
But the example is
she says to you, you're in a restaurant
she's like did you just check out that waitress
and maybe she's not really mad about it
but she's kind of like catching you.
And so if that's the case
and she's not really actually upset about it
but she is calling you out on it,
which means she doesn't really want you doing that
but you know you're not going to be in big trouble.
That's when you can use the you're so beautiful
or one of these phrases that
will exaggerate your
sort of request for forgiveness
by saying something like
no way, I did not check out
that brunette in a tight red sweater
because you are so beautiful.
So, you know it's obvious
you did checkout the chick
because you've logged enough details to prove it
but at the same time you were telling your woman
that she is so beautiful or she's
or she's the only beautiful or whatever it is.
So, you're using it in an exaggerative way
because you can get away with it
because that's where your relationship is
and that's safe for you to do with your girlfriend.
Now if she's really insecure
that's a different story,
those are things you need to watch out for
and that's a whole other video.
But do watch my red flags video
if you have experienced jealousy.
Okay, juicy tip the bonus juicy tip
that will make her swoon
and send shivers from her head
all the way down to her toes
is if you use a slow deep sexy voice.
And if you say it
either within close proximity to her
where you would be within her intimate bubble
close enough to kiss or right by her ear.
The reverberation of your voice
is going to literally have a visceral reaction
through her whole body.
And if there are other people within proximity that
she would be pleased for them to hear
what you're saying like other women
then you do still want to say it
loud enough, just loud enough
that it's a personal intimate conversation
that other people can hear.
So, you're claiming her
you're calling her beautiful
whatever it might be it's close to her
it's a little bit inappropriate to say
in the presence of other people,
but at the same time it turns her on physically
but also mentally and emotionally.
So...
if you want to know
the character traits
that all women love and that turn women on
that any man can develop
then you definitely want to check out
my what makes a real man to her video series, bam!
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