- Hey guys, what's up.
Today we're doing a highly requested, second part of
Dong-In Answering Questions Girls Are Too Afraid to Ask.
- You have the questions? I have all the answers.
- All the answers.
- All the answers, I'm back.
I'm back from wisdom tooth surgery.
(both chuckle)
- Our viewers really liked what you had to say in the last video,
and I got so many requests on the second part.
So, I picked some of the questions I received following the last video.
- I've always been observing men,
- Men,
- fellow men a lot,
wondering where it stems from, this brutish simple mindset.
- Okay. So I'd say let's get right into it.
- Let's get started.
- Start with the first question.
Do boys like it when the girl runs after them to get their love and attention, or is it annoying?
- What kind of girl are we talking about?
Is it like a situation where the boy is also interested in the girl?
Or is it like stalking?
(both chuckle)
- You mentioned both ways.
- Let me think.
I think running after someone,
like, regardless of gender,
running after someone to get their attention
and being all pushy about it,
when they clearly don't return your feelings,
it's generally a bad strategy.
- Bad idea.
- Yeah. Waste of time.
Waste of energy. Do something better.
Find someone better.
- Yeah, I think so as well.
I think the same goes for all genders.
If you like someone and they just don't seem interested.
Just leave it, go and find someone who gives back.
- You have to know when to stop. Respect yourself.
- Next question.
Do guys often get jealous when their girlfriend has a friend that's a guy?
- Oh, okay.
I think it depends on the region also.
Different cultures, different countries it's all different.
I think in Korea...
I've noticed most guys get jealous about that.
- Yeah. It's not that common in Korea.
- Yeah. Yeah. It's like, okay you're in a relationship.
Stop, stop meeting all those other guys.
- All right.
- All are all vultures, all threats.
Most European countries aren't that strict, right?
- No, I don't think so.
- I'm not the type to get really jealous.
- No, but also I don't really have male friends.
- Yeah.
Asking the camera guy: Do you get jealous about your girlfriend meeting other guys?
(Farina chuckles)
I would say yes.
- It depends on each person.
- Yeah, absolutely.
- There's some guys,
if they feel like they're stuck in the friendzone,
they're actually friends or they pretend to be friends.
But they have this one-sided love thing going on.
So, they feel like since they love you so much,
they are entitled to get some kind of affection back.
- Yeah.
- So they get like really weird and creepy
and if that's the thing going on.
Or if I feel like that's the thing going on.
I don't really get jealous.
- Uncomfortable.
- It's uncomfortable. It's creepy.
And it's kind of disrespectful.
Have some respect for another person's relationship
and their choices.
- Right.
- They don't choose you. That's all right.
That's just how it goes.
- But also if I'd have a guy friend like that
and notice him having feelings for me.
- Yeah.
- I wouldn't friends with him anymore. I guess.
You know.
- If you can't like draw a line.
- Yeah. Right.
Next question.
Do guys dress their girl like girls do for guys
and do they notice when girls do it?
- I do.
I think sometimes.
- Thank you.
- It's like really nice.
Always really nice.
I dress for myself and so should you.
- Right.
- Everyone should dress for themselves first
and feel comfortable.
- I agree.
- But on special occasions.
Yeah, I do dress up. This my good shirt.
Farina always tells me
- My only shirt.
- She tells me I shouldn't wear the shirt too often.
There's a very good reason actually
for me wearing the shirt, this is my only shirt.
(both chuckle)
- Your only buttoned shirt. Right.
And do you notice when I dress up for you?
I mean, you probably do because I'm living in sweat pants.
- In Germany, we call it 'Gammelig'.
How do you translate like 'gammelig'? ...moldy
(both chuckle)
The way you dress usually is like really comfortable.
So of course I notice if you shower for once.
(Farina chuckles)
- Wow.
I also think you should never dress up just for somebody else, unless it's your own choice
and your partner is very appreciative about it.
Next one.
Do most guys prefer girls who are fragile and protectable or strong and independent?
- I think a lot of guys,
or men are intimidated by strong independent woman.
Yeah, I think so.
Like in my experience with guys,
I don't have much experience with guys.
(Dong-In chuckles)
that sounded kind of wrong. Yeah.
Anyways,
I think insecure men will want
frail and submissive women.
I think they prefer it
because they feel like they have this power position.
They want this power position and yeah.
They wanna feel strong.
So they obviously want someone weaker than them.
Someone not a strong willed or something.
I would say, screw them. Screw those guys.
- Especially if they're toxic.
- Yeah. Just forget about them. Just live your life.
Be strong and independent.
If you live that way. And you just show it.
And then you don't feel like,
Oh, I have to be submissive for guys or others to like me.
Then you will ultimately have like a filter
where it filters out all those toxic guys,
they will avoid you.
They're afraid, they're intimidated.
So eventually you will have a better chance
of finding good people.
- Next one.
Do guys like it when their girl takes their hoodie?
- No.
(Farina chuckles)
- No.
- I think a lot of guys like it.
I don't like, have a particular feeling about it.
Only the lack of my hoodies 'cause you wear them.
'Cause you always take my favorite hoodies
and then I obviously can't wear them.
- So I think we just have to buy more hoodies. Right?
It's the solution.
- Yeah. I need more clothes.
Yeah. I think that's, that's the point of this video.
- Yeah, right.
(Farina chuckles)
- Next one.
Do guys refuse to kiss if their girl has bad breath?
- What kind of question is that,
well, if you truly love someone,
pull yourself together and you give your partner a kiss.
Even if they smell like death.
You know last week, when I had my wisdom teeth pulled
and I couldn't eat it.
Like all kinds of stuff, nothing too spicy.
Farina ate a lot of kimchi.
Kimchi always smells like garlic
just pretend like there's no smell.
And that's how devoted you have to be.
- You especially love it when I eat my favorite cheese right?
- Farina has this favorite cheese that she likes,
smells like farts.
(Farina chuckles)
- But it's really tasty. It smells very bad.
Next question,
Do guys like when the girl wears revealing clothes outside.
- Also a cultural thing, I think, right?
- Yeah.
- I think Western countries,
like a lot of my friends actually they don't care
or they like when their girl dresses up,
They're like 'Oh yeah, that's my girl'. Then again, Korean guys...
Or like Asian men.
They're more like from conservative cultures.
I think they're more protective about that.
- I think in our case,
I am the one who doesn't really like to wear too revealing
clothes outside.
- Because you get catcalled. Right?
- Right.
Basically, the only reason why I don't want to wear
very revealing outfits,
even though I find them pretty is because
I wanna feel safe.
Do guys like it when girls get touchy with them,
like hugging or trying to hold their hands?
- Like, are we talking about a random girl or girlfriend?
- Yeah. I'm not sure. I'm not sure.
- I'm a big fan of personal space.
with you it's all right.
- All right?
- No, it's okay. It's okay.
- Okay.
- Korean guys are like really touchy with each other.
- Sometimes they are holding hands.
- You can see Korean guys like Korean straight guys holding hands.
But like with the other gender, it's like very different.
In Germany it's like,
guys give each other handshakes.
And if there was a girlfriend, you just hug her.
- The question is what's the relationship like? Right.
So if you're not that close with each other,
it's kind of weird except when greeting each other
or saying hi, but other than that, that's weird.
Do you guys get excited when the girl they like
is around them?
- I think guys do get excited.
But some also get nervous.
- You were pretty nervous in our first date.Right?
- I was nervous. Nervous as ****.
I was just, I don't know.
I think it really depends on the person and the personality
and how they approach
the other gender is flirty or smooth.
- You were very cool. I thought you were cool.
- Yeah, I was just nervous.
What's something that girls misjudge about guys often
when they meet for the first time?
- Yeah. The thing we just talked about,
you thought I was cool.
Thought I was confident, you know.
I was just really nervous.
Yeah. But I think that's,
- You covered that up pretty well.
- I think guys are good at covering up their nervousness
but I was like 'yeah I'm good'.
(Farina chuckles)
- So the last question,
How does it feel to have balls?
Sad face.
(Dong-In chuckles)
- It's okay. I guess I can't complain.
Yeah. Wouldn't want to live without my balls.
(Farina chuckles)
- It feels like having a very sensitive and precious organ.
Just hanging between your legs and it's really fragile.
Why are we talking about my balls?
(both chuckle)
Yeah. Anyway, if you have them, it's fine.
It's annoying when running. I think we talked about that.
In the first part.
- I can imagine. - can be annoying.
Should wear the right underwear.
If you do happen to hurt them,
it's a very excruciating pain.
Words cannot describe.
- Okay. Thank you for enlightening us today.
- It's been a pleasure as always. I'm very sorry.
Today's input was lacking. I lost a lot of weight.
A lot of brain mass.
- Okay guys,
I hope this video was helpful for you.
If you want another part,
leave your questions in the comments
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- Bye.
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