So, you want to know psychologically the best way to flirt?
here are some tips
Number one
Touch them
Much research has demonstrated that touching a person can increase their complience to completing wide variety of requests
and this may extend to the world of flirtation
so it may be a good tip to touch the person you desire
No
Not like that
Studies have found that when a young man in a nightclub asks a woman to dance with him
his request was more likely to be followed if he touched her forearm for one or two seconds
This may be because tactile contact is associated with dominance
as later when the women were asked to complete a survey
a high score of dominance was associated with tactile contact
Number two
Smooth talk
Words can do a lot when it comes to flirting
It can certainly do you good to sutily communicate your affection with the person you like
Ok no, that would never work
Pitch and tone actually have a lot more to do with flirting than one may believe
Research from MIT suggests that men are more attracted to women that vary the tone in which they speak
Those whose voice went up and down in frequency more often
received more romantic interest from men than those who spoke with a flatter tone
This study also found that women were more attracted to men who interjected when they were speaking with phrases such as
yep
OK and I see
This not only suggests dominance which is an evolutionary trait women find appealing
but also understanding
Number three
Mirror body language
Mirror, mirror on the wall
who is the fairest of them all?
In this case
you'll act as the mirror
55% of attraction communication is made through body language
and one of the most sutil
yet most effective methods of flirting with someone is to mirror their actions
This is because we unconsciously copy those we are attracted to as a sign that we are interested in what they are saying
Mirroring someone not only demonstrates that we have good communication skills
but also, that we're invested in their thoughts and feelings
This is also a sure fire way of whether knowing someone is interested in you
as if they copy your mirroring they just may reciprocate your feelings
Number four
Wear red
Not that red
Not only an eye catching color that flatters many skin tones
red is also a symbol of lust and sexuality
and studies have shown that when both men and women wear red
they appear more attractive to the opposite sex
This may be due to the social expectation surrounding the color
However, psychologist Adam Pazda suggests
that instead our attraction to red may be a hangover from human's evolutionary past as animals such as female baboons display patches of bright red skin to indicate they are ready to mate
However, it may be good advice to keep it sutil and classy
Number five
Eye contact
Often viewed as the number one sign of attraction
eye contact is key when it comes to demonstrating your attraction towards another person
when we make eye contact with a prospective mate
we're in fact searching for evidence of their attraction to us through their physiological response of pupil dialation
and this is why staring into one another's eyes feels so intimate
Therefore, the best way to let someone know you're interested in them is to gaze into their eyes
Just make sure you're smiling and that you don't over do it.
Follow these tips
we wish you luck
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