You in a relationship right now and you're
just thinking maybe it's time to break up.
Maybe it's time to leave this person and
you're just not sure what the signs are,
what to look for.
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So you're like,
maybe dealing with who knows what
and you're trying to decide should I stay, should I go.
You really just are looking for the size
and so I'm gonna give you five signs.
Maybe it's time to break up right now.
And if you have anybody in those three A's,
I've been saying this for
years and years and years.
And I always used to say to people
when they would come into my
office to do consultations for divorce
and I would they say,
should I leave my spouse?
Should I not leave my spouse?
Should I leave my boyfriend,
my girlfriend,
whoever it is?
Do you have your child or whatever?
And I would say, I'm not in a position to say leave,
say go, whatever.
But I'm gonna qualify that because if
you have one of the three A’s
of use addiction, adultery.
These are the things that are extremely difficult,
extremely difficult to get past.
They attack the foundation of a relationship,
the integrity of the trust,
and abuse can be physical abuse,
obviously, but emotional abuse.
If you're dealing with emotional abuse
you know, narcissistic abuse is emotional abuse.
it's eating away at your soul.
They have to be absolutely
committed to recovery.
Absolutely committed to you.
Committed to seeing that there's an issue,
seeing that there's a problem and if they're not,
it's time to break up.
That's number one.
And by the way, if you are looking
for a divorce from a narcissist,
I do have a whole video on
how to ask for a divorce from a narcissist.
You definitely wanna check that out.
Number two
You're just very unhappy in the relationship.
You're just not served in this
relationship consistently consistently.
You feel like you have no air in the relationship.
No oxygen.
You can't breathe.
Your soul feels like it's stifled in the relationship.
When your soul knows it's time.
That's it.
Time to go.
Number two.
Number three
you know, one once massive
careers or wants to travel all the time
and the other one does that or one has totally
different religion than the other.
Very very spiritual.
Very Christian.
The other one's not and
one's threesomes all the time or something like that.
One wants to do drugs all the time.
The other one doesn't.
Totally different people.
Then that's obviously a very huge sign.
Number four
That's another huge sign that it's time to break up.
If they're not respecting you,
they're not respecting the relationship,
they're constantly breaking promises to you
To the relationship then
why are you staying in the relationship?
There's no commitment to you.
No commitment to the relationship
then that's huge sign that this is a time to break up.
You deserve better.
And I want you to put that in the comments right now.
‘‘I DESERVE BETTER’’.
Know that you're worthy.
Feel that you're worthy.
You're worth it. Alright?
And number five,
They're lying to you.
They're lying about things, you know.
You can't trust them in this relationship.
Even if they're not, cheating but
they're lying about all kinds of things.
They're lying about how they
spend money or other things.
That's a big problem.
If there's no trust in this relationship.
No integrity in the relationship.
Big problem.
Time to break up.
Again, it goes back to respect respect for you,
respect for the relationship.
These are the five major signs.
It is definitely time to break up.
I would love to know which
of these you guys have seen,
which other ones you would like to add.
Go ahead and add those in the comments below.
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