My dear elegant ladies, welcome back to my channel.
Today, I want to do a sit down video where I'm going to discuss the really important
topic on why you should not show your boyfriend on social media.
A lot of people think that it's a big warning if you're not showing your partner
on social media. But actually,
I advise all my elegant ladies to keep your partners secret and I'm going to
explain why in this video. If you've been following me on Instagram,
especially last week and you've been watching my stories,
and if you don't follow me on Instagram, make sure you do that.
It's School Of Affluence.
I spoke about last week in my stories because somebody asked me why I don't show
my partner on social media.
Why I never post pictures of each other together and so on.
And this video will definitely answer that question,
but I'm also going to touch upon the topic why it's fairly common actually that
women, especially women in high society,
they don't showcase their partners so much on social media.
And actually, women get a lot of bad reputation for that.
People started assuming that all these women that living a luxurious lifestyle,
like they must be with really old fat, bald, ugly men. Otherwise,
they will be showing them on social media, right?
So do you want to talk about this? Because actually, of course,
there is a percentage of women who do have bald, hairy,
fat and really ugly partners,
but actually a lot of women don't.
So I really think it's important to talk about the reality.
So how will this be applicable to you? Basically,
I know that my audience is quite widespread.
I know that I have women of high society watching my channel,
as much as I have the beginner lady watching my channel who has never even
placed her foot in high society. Now, I don't only teach about high society,
I also teach about elegance.
It's basically a lifestyle transformation that it is that I teach about in my
elite finishing school, but also here on my YouTube channel.
I think that regardless if you're single, married,
in a relationship or whatever your relationship status is,
I think it's just really important to think about this particular subject.
But I do want to point out that I'm not talking about hiding your relationship
in real life.
I'm talking now only about hiding your relationship or more hiding the identity
of your partner on social media. Okay. Let me start explaining why.
There are basically two types of women,
those who hide and those who really don't hide.
I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with showing who your partner is
I think if that serves a purpose for you as a person in your life,
then why not? There's a lot of influencer who like to include their partner,
their whole family and so on.
I am definitely not that influencer and I'm sure it works for that person.
I think that you don't have to be an influencer.
You don't have to have a large following.
All that I want to talk about in this video is actually applicable to you,
even if you just have one follower.
Women who are part of my community, who are part of my program,
who are perhaps watching my YouTube channel, majority of you ladies,
I'm sure you are women who desire to have an affluent partner and some of you
already have an affluent partner or some are striving to have an affluent partner.
And when you have a man of a certain caliber,
you do have to be a little bit strategic because high caliber men oftentimes
have a higher desire around them.
Simply because they have higher status, higher power in society and of course,
more wealth. And you know, when a man has a lot of money,
the flies come out and get attracted to him.
So you do have more women who want to have the high caliber man out there.
Because of course,
there's a lot of women who strive to upgrade themselves and their lifestyles,
exactly what I teach about on this channel. But also,
they know that the fast track is through a man.
So if your partner has a lot of money and is somehow,
a good catch, you want to protect that catch, don't you?
You don't want to fully expose him on the market and say, "Oh, look at my man.
He's so amazing. He's so fantastic.
Look at everything he's giving me and how he's treating me,
and how handsome he is and all of that." And then you just showing it bluntly on
social media. You know, one thing that I keep seeing this a lot, actually.
There's even women who have situations and partners exactly like I just
described, and then they also tag him on Instagram. Oh my gosh.
I think that is probably one of the most,
I personally think it's absolutely stupid to do so.
not because you cannot trust your partner.
I'm not talking about the fact that you cannot trust your man because I fully
believe that you can trust your man. You can absolutely do so.
Not every man out there is a cheater and not everybody is a bad man who will
treat you poorly or leave you or something else. I mean, again,
that's such a stereotype. There are good men and there are bad men.
That's the reality. But life is also unpredictable sometimes. And sometimes,
life goes through phases and sometimes,
we are in vulnerable phases in our lives.
And if you're just kind of making it so easy for let's say,
mistakes to happen or opportunities to happen,
then I think that's a little bit stupid. I don't think that necessarily,
if your man is definitely not a cheater type of guy,
but there are women out there who are capable to do anything. And you know,
even just giving out the identity of your man so that people can sabotage,
maybe sabotage for your relationship or sabotage for his career,
or maybe sabotage for your families, whatever it is.
There's a lot of crazy people out there and I think that a lot of people keep
forgetting this.
One thing that I keep telling my friends over and over again is that you really
have to remember one thing.
There's a lot of unstable mentally ill people out there in this world and all of
these people have access to internet just like you and me.
So if you are going there all-in with your identity and spread out on social media,
tagging your partner,
giving all the access that these unstable people can have access to.
Then of course, bad things can happen.
And I've really seen it a lot in social media and bad things have happened from
everything, from cheating to stalkers to you name it, really.
So you just have to protect yourself and your personal life.
And that's really why I'm making this video because I want you to be more aware.
You know what I've noticed ladies?
There's this type of women and I'm sure there's a lot of you watching me right now
Don't feel triggered.
See this as an opportunity to maybe start thinking instead. A lot of women out
there want to validate themselves.
And the great validation way is through a man,
especially if you have a good catch of a man. If you have a handsome man,
if you have a wealthy man,
then wouldn't it give you so much pleasure to just go and show him off on your
Instagram, and show how much in love you are and make everybody thee jealous.
I mean, a lot of women do it and that's why a lot of women decide not to hide the
identity of their partner. But I really think that's a big, big mistake.
I really think that you end up losing more than you're gaining. I mean,
surely you're gaining a temporary kind of satisfaction,
kind of quick fix, kind of, I made it, haha,
look at me type of thing. But really,
what you're doing is just you're exposing your personal life and longterm,
you can actually create more damage rather than the instant fix that you got
from showing off how good things are in your love life.
Please remember this.
The more you invite people into your personal life,
the more they can actually have access to you and can sabotage.
And for this reason, you always need to be at least 5 to 10 steps ahead.
I know this because I'm an influencer and you really, really learn.
Some don't learn so some end up with mistakes and I know that from fellow
influencer friends.
But I've seen so many crazy things happen in influence friend's lives and also
in friends like people who are not influencers,
people who have done certain mistakes.
I'm talking to only social media here and they have paid the price.
So I definitely decided very early on that I'm going to be extremely protective
of what it is exactly that I put out there, especially in my line of work.
I am triggering a lot of people so you trigger a lot of crazy people,
first of all. So you really need to be cautious all the time.
Like I said, be always 5 steps, 10 steps,
a hundred steps ahead.
You have to always think through everything and everything you post.
I think that you should really think about,
"What would I gain if I was showing off my partner?
How will it benefit my life?" I think the only time I can really understand if
somebody is showing off their personal life and partner,
and all that is if they're making money off it and fits kind of the narrative.
Majority of the times, there's really no purpose for it,
unless you're like a family blogger or relationship blogger. Perhaps then yes,
maybe will fit a purpose for you. In my case,
I'm happy to be by myself on camera.
You also have to think about another thing and this is what I mean with giving
people access into your life.
And this is a thing that a lot of ladies forget and then they kind of like,
Ugh, maybe I shouldn't have had keep getting those thoughts instead.
What if you change partners?
What if you go through some horrible breakup or some miserable situation?
I've seen influencer partners die, for instance,
on social media. I have seen nasty breakups on social media.
I have seen everything on social media and I've heard so many horrible stories.
So why would you want to show that to people? I don't know.
Do you really want people to know when you have changed partner?
Do you really want people to have that access into your life, knowing that,
"haha, they broke up or Oh my God, what happened",
type of thing. And like,
"why is she with this person now and wasn't she with
somebody else yesterday and
the month before she was with somebody else?" Don't let people have access to
your relationship life, to your personal life, to what you're going through.
I think relationships are so personal and for that reason,
they should be kept very private. So ladies,
some food for thought for you. I do want to know, what are your stand on this?
Do you show your partner on social media or would you show him if you were in a relationship?
Have you ever thought about things that may happen if you do show him?
And maybe some of you have actually gone through the negative effects from
having shown your partner social media and how that can actually backfire to you
many times. I want to hear from you ladies in the comments.
Share with me your stories because I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks that
this is certainly the way to go and you're just doing yourself a favor,
and being smarter than the rest by doing this.
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