David: I thought you were absolutely gorgeous so why don't you introduce myself at
least and I'm David what's your name Bree great okay I like your sunglasses
there it looked like a bee oh yeah what's your um oh can you guess
Russia no training nope but actually it's pretty close but the accent is
French cuz I'm Swiss yeah you are you're
definitely not from here either right no I'm not like Sacramento Sacramento okay
actually live close to San Francisco yeah you're Sacramento which one because
they are two succumbing goes right the one close to San Francisco yeah okay so
I just moved there like recently oh yeah my lips is gonna be here too so all
right like totally we'll catch up on our yeah sure yeah what about let's put your
phone number here and we should hang out later yeah ray ray yep I see in like
downtown hey guys this is David for the attractive man and we are here with my
wingman in San Diego approaching girls at Pacific Beach today I wanted to talk
about the concept of warming up so you all know that in order to get in this
state when you care when you can be very social you need to say something to
anyone just start talking and be in this social mood now I still do it and I
think all of our coaches do it because it has two very important aspects to it
the first one is it gets you in the mood to convey you know if you're I don't
know if you used to walk on your conne your computer and not talk to many
people when you're walking in your office but when you start to talk to
people it's kind of like as if you go to the gym and you want to start lifting
heavy like very early you can hurt yourself it's not very efficient you
don't really like workout your muscles because there need to be full of blood
you want to just talk to people because it puts you in this mood to convey why
because your social muscle start to warm up but like what many guys
do is just that they start to talk to people because they hope these people
will get them good reaction and put them in this mood and this is not a good way
to think about it because it means that if the people you are talking to are
nuts themselves in the social mood which
actually happens very often you cannot work get warm up and it doesn't help you
live here forever okay where are your plans tonight
okay let's exchange numbers and maybe we can catch up French thanks to something
what I would do is to practice saying something saying hello giving a
compliment noticing something wishing a good day
but from this other point of view of giving value that is you want to just
try to be genuinely curious being January generally nice with people and
they will probably respond much better but don't do it as a manipulation tactic
just do it because if you actually start releasing those tension by just saying
hello and being nice you'll be naturally and very quickly in the social mood
because you'll be here just giving giving giving so the only thing is that
you should not say anything in general to get a reaction so this is what we're
gonna do hey man how's it going hey man lover man love your hair bro
I love your hair hey I love you too hi love you hey you know what your dog
reminds me my cat hey excuse me is this a good book yeah I'm looking for the
next one to read I'll check it love in the time cólera
Oh awesome
Gabriel Garcia Marquez also wrote 100 years
oh this one is famous okay thank you very much
I wish you a great day bye love your tattoo bro I don't know if
you're in San Diego but dunno you have not tried to buy an ice cream here good
okay you have a French accent maash have a great day
so you see sometimes you just speak to people from this giving value mode and
they are not receptive and that's fine because you're just giving so there is
no like it cannot hurt me if someone doesn't answer to me because I'm just
actually having a good time genuinely so if I want to talk about a
book I will talk about a book I want to give a compliment I will give it if I
want to answer where to get an ice cream because it's sunny
and I want to have an ice cream I will just do it just be hey real quick this
is a bit random but I was walking and I saw you sitting here and I thought you
were absolutely adorable wanted to come over and do this myself
I'm David what's your name marina there are different enough from here you have
an accent
they're from here so where can I get a very good ice cream
you have no idea whether you are from San Diego don't eat ice creams
but where'd you come from Oh from Russia okay I didn't get your answer I'm
actually so my parents are from Czech Republic so if you yeah yep
Nippon you're my ruskie yeah but I understand a little bit because this
summer I was traveling in Armenia yes and people in Armenia they don't speak
English they just speak Armenian which I don't understand or Russian so I had to
like speak like understand Russian a little bit so why is it important to be
persistent because you never know first so during the day girls are pretty
defensive they are pretty like cold so if you keep talking and give them value
make them feel safe and good eventually they might open up and be more receptive
so when you're stuck in a conversation and you're just gaming a wall keep
talking keep talking and don't be too hard on yourself because you don't get
response just try to talk about something and if you're bored and you
don't find anything to say just leave and end it on a high note tell me tell
me something in in Russia nice to meet you too
but can you tell me something about you something you what makes you special
what it's personal like because I like to meet people like me for example I
love to travel and when I travel I usually go to old dancing clubs because
I like one of my passion is Samba Samba dancing you're a Russian so you dance
obviously what kind of dancing
salsa Spanish dance yeah yeah yeah okay I tried this I'm not good at this so you
like to meet people okay so why were you so shy when I said hello okay for me
it's like I live in Switzerland normally and that's very common like we when I
think a girl is cute I will say hi for sure but I have to catch up my friend
because I have a meeting with him in 10 minutes but you seems cool are you here
with friends okay so I'm here the entire weekend we'll probably go to downtown
and in the evening bring your cat bring your dogs bring your friends and like do
you have Instagram or something we are
cool so I'll send you maybe something like
there if you want to hang out with your friends have a great day bye bye oh the
best way to approach on the beach so I'm not a specialist you should ask mark
artisan for that but on the beach basically the situation is that girls
don't really do anything so first you want to put yourself at the same level
as them so maybe like go on the ground like band and approach Hey and stop them
and then it's important to to to give it like a good time constraint because they
are probably afraid that you're gonna stay super long because they're lying
that you don't know what to do right so at any time of the interaction it would
be good to like introduce some time constraints like I gotta go in five
minutes to meet my friends or real quick or hey I gotta go real fast whatever
those time constraints are very important on the beach because they they
basically it's just a way to buy time and make them feel comfortable and make
you feel comfortable asking those questions without seeing them being like
defensive I was just walking by absolutely beautiful thank you I'm sure
my name is Missy Missy yes awesome I'm David well are you like what do you
sell I work for a steel company we design engineer and supply prefabricated
materials for custom residential network it's complicated it is a bit but yeah I
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