Good day! Today, you were talking about how to keep his interest during quarantine. How
do you really keep the guy coming towards you, keep him chasing you during this quarantine
time? And in fact, this stuff applies even if you're watching this after the COVID saga
has subsided. I got something special for you at the end of the video as well, so hit
the subscribe button with a little bell. Make sure you stick around for the whole thing,
and I'll see you right after this.
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Okay. In today's video, I'm going to be sharing with you exactly what men are craving right
now. What men want more of what men need more of what we need from you as women to draw
us towards you. But before I get into that, I want to make a point about how you use the
advice, and this applies to any dating and attraction advice. Inevitably, there's always
two types of ways to use this advice. And I want you to think about which you're going
to be, right? There's two camps. Are you going to be in the Change For Him Camp? Right? The
Change For Him Camp is women or men who come to dating and attraction advice, and they're
really wanting to change, so that they can get a specific person, to get someone, to
get that guy. Now, this sounds good in theory, and to be totally honest with you, this is
what brought me to dating and attraction advice.
But the problem with this style is what if the person you're going after isn't so great,
if that person's a little narcissistic, or if that person's a little emotionally unavailable,
or if that person's a little controlling? Obviously, you're going to have to do some
kind of unhealthy things to draw that person towards you. Unhealthy people tend to be attracted
to unhealthy things themselves. So there's the Change For Him Camp. And the other issue
with this camp is, as you can imagine, if you're doing stuff for one person, you can
end up bending and second-guessing yourself a lot because you think, "Well, what do I
need to do to get this guy? Do I need to do this? Do I need to move this way? What do
I need to do?" And it can leave you actually doubting yourself more, right? And then there's
the Change For You Camp.
Now, the Change For You Camp are the women, men, people who come to dating advice and
they decide, "I want to be more attractive. I want to build more connections, but I want
to do it by changing for me." Now, notice there's changing yourself in both camps, right?
You're changing in both, but the difference with the Change For You Camp is you're getting
rid of your fears, you're taking stuff off, and you're becoming more of your authentic
self, more of who you are. And by doing that, you'll draw in the men who are in your lane.
You're not bending to get a particular guy. You're just becoming more and more of what
you are. And as such, you're drawing in the people that are healthy and resonate with
that. Now, I'll be honest for you. If you're in this camp, you're not going to like this
video, right?
There's other channels for that. I can maybe put M.A 2.0's channel right here. But if you're
in the change for you camp, then in this video is for you. And I want to give you a little
bit of a different perspective on this question as to what you need to do to draw a man in
during quarantine. This perspective is going to draw the best men in. It's going to draw
the best relationships to your life. And it's going to give you that connection with the
healthy guy that you want and deserve, that can be a partner for you. So in this camp,
we don't do things for people. So straightaway, I want you to think instead of "What can I
do to make him chase me in quarantine, what do I need to do next?" I want you to think
about, "What can I be more of?
What can I exude more of just by embodying that brings men to me without having to do
anything?" So the whole premise of doing is based on "what I am right now is not enough,
so I need to do, I need to work. I need to change" versus the premise of being is "I
can embody more, and that will naturally draw the best men to me." So if you're here with
me, and you want to be what men want right now and have them come in towards you, think
about what it is that men adore, attract to, want from women, right? The whole world is
slowed down. We've all slowed down. We're all in quarantine right now. There's less
energy. There's less movement going around. And what is it that women typically express
better than men?
Their emotions, right? The world's energy is going down, and men, when they come to
you, what men really want is they want the emotional experience. Men are attracted to
you because of what they feel in their bodies, in their souls when they're around you. And
they want to feel more of that in quarantine, just like they did before quarantine. So your
goal, if you want to be the best woman, that's going to draw the best men to you in quarantine,
you want to be more of that energy. Remember emotion is energy in motion. So the more energy
you can embody, the more emotion men feel when they come to you. The more naturally
nature takes care of the rest, the more naturally guys are going to flow into your life and
want to be with you. We, men, we are coming to you. I go to my partner because of the
emotional experience of being around her.
So how can you embody more of that energy and bring those men to you? Well, I talk a
lot about, this channel, I talk a lot on this channel about building a high quality, exciting
life. And what that really does is it changes the energy you bring across, right? The energy
of play, the energy of fun and excitement, the energy of learning and growth, and even
the energy of safety, connection, emotional intimacy. These are the energies that men
can't resist from you. So rather than thinking you have to get on the phone and do something,
or get on the video call and do something. I want you think about what can you do in
the rest of your life that's going to have you embodying more of these amazing energies
when they're talking to you. If you want to embody more of the energy of play, then maybe
you spend some time doing a creative pursuit.
Maybe you spend some time with your pet, your cat or your dog having fun. Maybe you call
some friends. You do something that you find fun. If you want to build up your own excitement,
you learn something new, or you go for a walk, or you find excitement in the little things
like reading a book or a cool new movie. It can literally be anything at all, right? But
you're bringing these energies in. You're embodying them. It could be the energy of
emotional safety and intimacy and connection. So you might do some personal development
work, or you might do up a budget. Maybe you talk to some friends, and you remind yourself
and them that everything's going to be fine. That you're sweet. You're going to get through
this. And then when you're on the phone with men, you share that energy. I don't want you
to think you have to do anything.
Do anything is changed-for-him thinking. I have to do this thing with this guy to bring
him in because it presumes that what you are right now is not enough. Instead be in the
Change For You Camp, be in the energies and embody more of them throughout your day. Men
are craving this right now, I'm telling you. Men are craving the emotional experience of
women. We always are, but we're especially craving it now we're in quarantine. So embody
more of these energies throughout your life with the things that you do, and then, give
men the gift of sharing them. And I promise you, the right men are going to love it. They're
going to chase you for it, and are going to find it irresistible. If you want to work
with me personally, there is a form you can fill out in the description below to embody
more of this, to get your life where you'd want it to be, to break your patterns. It's
all there. There's also a free chapter of my book that you can get from the description
below. So make sure you download that if you like free stuff. And there's also a texting
guide called Messaging Magic now available where you can embody these energies and start
to do that even through texts. Hit the subscribe button with the little bell. Leave a comment
with your thoughts below, and I'll see you in the next video very soon.