Three phrases that make a man fall in love with you.
Three powerful words or word sequences that are going to connect your partner,
your man even more deeply to you. That's what I'm gonna be sharing in this video.
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Three phrases that connect your partner deeply to you, that bond him deeply to you.
Number one, if you want to be connected to your partner, you need to get resentment
out of your relationship, right? Resentment is the kryptonite of relationships and the
opposite of resentment is appreciation. So the "I'm grateful" game or exercise, if
you want to call it. That is one that I have couples sit down and do and simply say to
each other, "I'm grateful that you _____", "I'm grateful that you _____", if you want
a man to bond deeply to you, it might sound trivial, but the more gratitude you can inject
into your relationship, which is anti- resentment, it's like the antidote for it,
creates a huge bond, creates huge connection, creates huge appreciation
between the two of you and bonds him more deeply to you.
Mark: I'm grateful that you're in my life.
Jermia: I'm grateful that you're really supportive.
Mark: I'm grateful that I get to come home from work and spend some time with you.
Jermia: I'm grateful that you always take the time out for me.
Mark: I'm grateful that I feel really comfortable around you when I'm naked.
Schedule this gratitude time in once a week or once every two weeks, even once a month,
and I promise you that the connection you have with your partner, the connection he
feels with you and the bond, the loving bond he shares with you will be out of this world.
Number two is the, "I'm scared of" exercise. So relationships are ultimately about
vulnerability and when you have a great connection, it's because you can be more
vulnerable with each other then you can with the rest of the world.
So the "I'm scared of" exercise allows you to share your fears and it allows you to
create that vulnerable bond.
"I'm scared that you will _____."
"I'm scared of _____."
When you're sharing your fears, your doubts, your insecurities with your partner,
he sees you and your vulnerability in your feminine, and you see that softer side of
him. How can that not bond the two of you even more deeply?
Mark: I'm scared of things being not as good as they are now with us.
Jermia: I'm scared of my looks fading and you're not finding me attractive anymore.
Mark: I'm scared of my looks fading and you're not finding me attractive anymore.
Jermia: I'm scared of the future.
Mark: I'm scared of this changing if we have kids and also not having time for
each other.
Jermia: I'm scared of losing someone that I love.
Again, in this exercise, just like in the last video where we talked about candid
conversation time, it's important that honesty is always rewarded, that a safe
space is created here, and that whatever is said in this time, there is no right or
wrong answers. It's a judgment free zone. If you can create that, I guarantee that your
man is going to feel more connected and bonded to you.
And number three is the 36 questions that lead to love. This is a really powerful exercise,
and when I did this, it was, I'm not going to lie, it was intense and it was pretty scary
to do, but understanding her and knowing her and hearing her answers made me feel so
much more deeply connected to her and it completely, you know, the connection I had
with her goes so much deeper than other connections I've had or anything I could
want with another woman. So it's a really powerful exercise.
Go through the 36 questions. I'll put a link to them in the description below. Go through
these questions. It's everything from what's your greatest accomplishment to how do
you feel about your relationship with your mother, to quite deep questions. You know,
which family member would it scare you the most if they were to die tomorrow or
not wake up tomorrow? There's some really deep get-to-know you questions in there,
which allow you to share, which allow you to understand those deeper sides of your
partner and ultimately have him bond more deeply to you. So those are three powerful
connection exercises. Three powerful phrases or for the last one series of
phrases that will bond your partner more deeply to you and have him fall
even more deeply in love, so you guys can build an amazing relationship.
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anything you want below, I want to hear them. What other things have you said
to a guy that's connected him to you? What are the things that he said to you?
How have you created those bonds through words? I'd love to hear them leave a
comment in the description below. Thanks again for watching and I'll
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