Hello, my wonderful friend! Today's video is on 9 reasons why introverts are attractive.
If you're an introvert who is looking for a loving,
real relationship, you might have that question in the back of your mind. Are introverts attractive?
Sometimes it can feel like extroverts get all the attention.
So if you're someone who's an introvert, and/or maybe a little bit shy, then you
might be wondering if an introvert is as attractive as an extrovert.
Have you ever wondered that?
The power of introverts may seem hidden.
But the truth is many women are incredibly attracted to introverts.
There are many reasons why introverts make great partners in relationships.
So do you want to know what your introvert super powers are,
and how you can use them to attract that loving, lasting, amazing relationship?
If you do, stay with me until the end of this video.
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Make sure you watch this video on 11 things men do to just melt women's hearts,
give her butterflies, and totally melt her heart. There's a link in the description below.
And this video on crazy things girls do when they're thinking about you all the time.
It's going to surprise you a little bit. I'll put a link to that one in the description as well.
Okay, let's talk about the reasons why introverts are so attractive.
Just in case you're an extrovert watching this, I just want to start off by saying,
when it comes to introverts and extroverts, there's not a right or a wrong, okay?
So just, whew, sigh of relief. One is not more attractive than another. So
whether you're an introvert or an extrovert, hey,
I'm an extrovert too. It's totally good. One is not more attractive than the other.
This is something though I get a lot of questions about,
so I wanted to make a video for those of you who are introverts and/or a little bit shy.
If you're wondering if you're attractive, yeah, this is going to thrill you; keep watching.
Different people are attracted to different things.
That's the beauty of life. And many women are very attracted to introverts.
So with that, let's get started with the first reason why introverts are attractive.
The first reason is that many introverts notice things that other people don't.
The little things really are the big things. And they matter so much to women.
This is something that's going to make her feel really special.
So if you're the one who notices what her favorite music or candy bar or flower is,
or you notice if she's looking a little down or if she's really excited about something or
looks like she doesn't feel good, if you're the one who pays attention to those little things,
holy cow, you totally stand out.
You make her feel special. You make her feel like
she matters and like she's important to you. And everyone wants to feel that way.
That's definitely a good trait a woman looks for in a partner.
The second reason why introverts are attractive is many introverts are incredibly loyal.
Loyalty is one of the most important things you can find in a relationship.
If you're looking for a woman who wants a forever kind of love, where she gets
to wake up by your side every morning and you get to come home to her every night, if that's
the relationship you're looking for, she's looking for loyalty, just as much as you are.
She wants to know that your eyes aren't wandering. She wants to know
that she's the only one on your mind.
She wants to make sure her heart is safe with you and that you'll come home to her every night.
And because many introverts are fiercely loyal,
this can melt her heart fast and be incredibly attractive to her.
The next reason a why introverts are so attractive
is that many introverts are willing to be vulnerable with others. To open up.
If you want a real, loving, close relationship,
being vulnerable with each other is critical. It has to happen.
And if you're a man who's willing to open up to her,
to show your vulnerable side, that right there is insanely attractive. That shows real strength.
A classy woman, a genuine woman, a sincere woman, she wants to know the real you.
Who are you on the inside? How do you feel about things? What are your thoughts about things?
What makes you happy or sad? What matters to you?
Those are the things she really wants to know.
And the fact that you're willing to be vulnerable and open up like that
helps build that trust very quickly.
Are you starting to see why you're actually really attractive?
It's cool, right? And we're just getting started.
At this point, you might be thinking, "Wow, this is really cool!
So why is it so hard for me to find a relationship?"
Right? Like, "Okay, that's awesome that I'm so attractive. Why am I struggling
to find the kind of woman I want? Why am I struggling to have that forever kind of love?"
Is that what you're wondering?
You want a stunning woman to walk through life with.
A gentle woman who knows the real you and adores the real you.
So why can you be so attractive and still not have any success finding love?
If you're asking these questions right now,
let me guide you to the love and happiness that you deserve.
I created my Academy to answer these questions for you,
and make that relationship that feels so desperately out of reach become your reality.
And the most beautiful part is you can turn it around so fast.
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Okay, our next reason why introverts are so attractive
is that introverts can often appear more mature.
Something I teach in my Academy when I'm guiding you through how to completely
captivate the right woman for you is that mature men are high quality men.
Any classy woman who's looking to marry the love of her life wants a mature man.
Your maturity makes her feel safe with you. She sees you as strong and capable and protective.
No one wants to make a bad bet with their heart. And when she sees that you're mature,
she sees that a relationship with you is a safe bet. Her heart is safe with you forever.
Our next reason why introverts are so attractive
is that many introverts are more relaxing and more chill to be around.
Because introverts can be so relaxing, can be so chill, it helps her just relax. It helps her
kind of take some of the stress and the worry off.
And in a world that's incredibly fast paced, that's like a breath of fresh air.
When she feels more safe and comfortable and relaxed with you,
it helps build that trust and that connection that she really needs in a partner.
The next reason why introverts are so attractive is that introverts can be
incredibly interesting people to talk to.
Interesting people are just fun to be around. Period. End of discussion.
We really are intrigued and captivated by people who are interesting.
A lot of people put a ton of focus and a ton of pressure
on being mysterious and being mysterious to her.
Just skip all that. None of that matters. It's just a big mind game.
Instead, just be interesting. That is sustainable, that is long lasting, and far more effective.
When you're interesting, it's stimulating and exciting to her. It makes you fun to be around.
And because that's just the kind of person you are,
that's the kind of person who's fun to be in a relationship with because it's long lasting.
Many introverts really dislike small talk. And the truth is, yeah, many extroverts do too.
However, one of the reasons why introverts really dislike that
small talk is they want to go into the deep conversations, the meaningful conversations.
And those types of people are really fun to have a conversation with.
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Okay, our next reason why introverts are so attractive is that many introverts are
really good listeners. Like really good listeners.
There's nothing quite like knowing somebody is listening to you and like really listening to you.
It makes you feel important. It makes you feel
like you matter. It makes you feel like you're cared about.
Women bond by talking. And there's nothing worse than talking to a guy and having it
go in one ear and out the other. You just feel like you don't matter to him at all.
But when you're paying attention and you're listening to her, whoa,
that right there is enough to just melt her heart.
Honestly, being a good listener is one of the best skills
anyone can learn to have that happy, loving relationship.
Our next reason why introverts are so attractive
is that introverts can come across as more confident.
If you've been following me for any length of time,
you've heard me say it before. Confidence is one of the most attractive traits a man can have.
She feels safe with you. She feels
drawn to you. You're completely captivating. You seem strong and masculine and capable.
This is why confidence and how to build and turbocharge your confidence is one
of my favorite things to teach you how to do in my Academy. Confidence is shockingly powerful.
Because of the chill and relaxed vibe many women get around introverts,
it can make her see you as much more confident, instead of needy or overly aggressive.
And our next reason why introverts are so attractive
is that you often pay attention to other people's needs. You're more sensitive.
All of that listening and paying attention to the little things that I've already mentioned
really comes into play here.
Because you're noticing those things,
it helps you be more sensitive to others. It helps you see other's needs and know how to help.
Every single, good, genuine, loyal woman who's looking for a lifelong partner,
wants a man who's sensitive, who's kind, who's gentle.
That's the kind of man who she knows she'll always be safe with,
her children will always be safe with. That's the kind of man who just gives her butterflies all
day long. She wants to see that soft side of you.
So are you starting to see how attractive you are?
There's a lot to celebrate here, right?
That's a good feeling. I want you to pat yourself on the back. You,
my friend, are an attractive man.
If you're asking yourself right now why you can be so incredibly attractive and have
no one to come home to, let me guide you through it.
Let me guide you to the success in love that you deserve.
Let me make it incredibly easy for you.
There are clearly some pieces to this puzzle that are missing.
If they weren't, you would be holding the love of your life close right now.
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