Hi it’s Nadine Piat here from HYHL and today I’m here to help you work out How to get
his love or how to find love again with what I call a radical mindset…
And let me tell you I’ve done dating!
I’m a well seasoned dater.
I know what it’s like to date and meet men I like and then have them go cold or disappear,
I know what it’s like to find true love and then find out that perhaps it’s wasn’t
love after all.
I know what it’s like to really love someone and then realize that your lives are going
in very different directions.
I’ve also met men that were pretty perfect for me though the timing is off or they lived
in different countries.
I know what it’s like to turn away great men and choose the wrong man for men…
I know what it’s like to internet date and app date…
I know what it’s like to have men really like me and I don’t like them.
I’ve pretty much been in every dating situation you can imagine… so I can assure you I know
what it feels like to be out there in the dating world.
I know that feeling of a heavy heart, of rejection, of excitement, of butterflies and also of
loss….I know the path to finding true love is not always so simple…
Though I’ve got to tell you even with the ups and downs that dating can bring… dating
has never been so easy, truly, the opportunities are endless, which means the single people
of the world are so blessed to be in this incredible and endless position of opportunity.
Sure, there are downsides to so much choice, yet still, you are blessed and there really
are no longer any excuses as to why you cannot find true love again…
You see, I get emails every day from women asking me how to get his love… they’ve
met a man they really like and for whatever reason he’s not making the effort.
In fact, the man often feeds her crumbs, yet, she’s hanging in there, for dear life, like
he’s the only man that will ever make her feel so good, so alive, and so… darn miserable.
I say this with a laugh though this is what I hear from women EVERYDAY…And it is this
mindset that is impacting a woman’s love success.
A scarcity mindset places you in one of the weakest positions for dating…
This is not a mindset of abundance and flow… when acting from scarcity you believe that
what’s in front of you is your only chance for happiness, for love, it’s fear driven
and TIGHT and is not driven by your values, it’s driven by NEED.
And this is where my radical mindset shift comes in.
As of today…
I suggest you FORGET ABOUT SEEKING LOVE and simply FOCUS on adding joy and love into your
day in some way… and lot’s of it.
That is all you need to do.
If you want to know how to get his love then this is the radical shift you’ve been looking
for!
Focus on YOUR JOY!
In my program Unlock His Heart – I have a love tip called the Apple Pie Technique
and I teach women a really easy to way active joy into your life in a way that men love!
So check out the link below.
I know not all relationships are a walk in the park, though they don’t have to be arduous
and when you’re with great man for you… you’ll feel light and joyful, you’ll feel
cared for and loved by a man…
If you want to know how to find love again and how to get his love… then stop thinking
about it… starting feeling into your life more…Ladies it’s time to step up and reclaim
your joy… and to do that you need to stop focusing on getting a man…
Which leads to the next part of my radical mindset…
Why are you so driven to find a man?
Yes, humans thrive through connection, they thrive through touch and affection, though
we don’t do so well when we’re in a relationship that’s not healthy… when a relationship
is unkind, neglectful, one-sided, lacking partnership, devoid of empathy and heart…
then you will not thrive... it will run you ragged and rob joy from your heart.
So I’ll ask again..
What drives you to seek a man, to find love again?
Who told you you need a relationship to experience a valuable and meaningful existence?
I’m a huge believer in love!
I know how fulfilling and even healing a truly compatible and united relationship can be
like – it’s a wonderful experience, so yes, be open to that…
Though be sure to ask yourself the WHY ….Love, in my opinion needs to be received through
the value of love, not a need for love…When you are needy for romantic love you act from
fear, insecurity and desperation…
When you value romantic love you act from clarity, openness, confidence, and love…
you act from a place of trust…
You trust your heart, you listen to what you feel and what’s right for you… you don’t
stay with people who don’t want you back, you don’t try to make men like you and you
don’t hate on men…
So today I want you to know that you don’t need a man to be significant, you don’t
need to get married or to be in relationship to prove that you’re loveable.
Don’t buy into social conditioning that says that you’re life will be better with
a man, that you’re more socially acceptable if you’ve got a partner.
It’s all bullshit!
You don’t need to prove anything to anyone.
It’s no ones business as to why you are or are not married or why you haven’t settled
down with someone.So if you’re watching this and you’re single…
KNOW with every cell of your body that you’re not a failure.
Single or attached…
You’re amazing and worthy.
So when you’re home alone on a Friday night and feeling a little alone, be kind to yourself
and know that it’s 100% okay to be home alone.
It’s 100% okay to go to a dinner party and be the only single person.
This is okay.
Almost 50% of the population is single so it’s not a big deal.
You’re doing just fine the way you are.
And this is how to find love again!
This mindset will set you free from the “need” for love and support you on your path to romantic
love… to what you “value”.
This starts by you choosing to be joyful in your day… celebrate and live your beautiful
life and date from a place of abundance not lack.
And this is how you get his love and how he gets your love…You start making peace with
your life and create a new way of looking at your single life… when you’re at peace
with it you change the way you relate with men…
And who said marriage was normal anyway.
Who said monogamy is the ultimate life experience and a measure of success.
Not me.
So don’t let social conditioning bring you down…
You’re gorgeous and valuable no matter your relationship status so start living your life
to the fullest and be okay with you.
So there you have it… my radical mindset… let go of finding love and focus on joy…
what will come will come without force.
That’s it for today…I’d love to read your thoughts about this topic so please comment
by telling me your personal experience.
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