you're young but your career is is
integrated with the rest of your life it
looks like and like some people they go
to work they come home mm-hmm attitude
and work ethic you can teach it has to
be present with the person has to have
it what's happening back at the gym okay
what's happening back at the gym it's
been like three weeks or something
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like there's so many of us was just
gonna become weird right here
Barbie parties
Barbie
love your outfit
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so cute get a picture can you make
sponsor a picture
oh you do it myself
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ladies and gentlemen
Tessa virtue
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say that without a shadow of a doubt
she's never been more proud of me than
she is in this very room she's an only
child of an only child and I can't
overstate how impactful and formative
Barbie was in making her the woman she
is today
so mom please
dulls your already impressive
collections
and remember you can be anything so
today is my office day and we have a few
fun things today actually I forgot about
it but I've booked for myself and Gary
Terrace card reading so that's happening
today and I'm not like a big believer in
it but my mom is obsessed with all these
things and she used to take me since I
was like a young girl to all these
different healers and readers and stuff
so I wanted to kind of try it out
I don't really know want to know
anything I just want to freak Gary up a
bit just like wifey thing today we're
going doing tarot card reading so carrot
card reading it's a terran it's I don't
want to say you know you know how my mom
loves all these
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how are you I'm good thank you we have
an appointment for a parrot card waiting
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good how are you
to get some critical
Wow crystal
there's power
I love this
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it feels like a spa this is fall it's
not just the music it's very small
what are you talking about right now
talking
all your massages so it is this part
yeah we offer Thai massage and lymphatic
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sure sure yeah we can walk around calm
let's walk around you I'll tell you
friends Shh
why you should be quiet you literally
like you're ruining my vibe right now if
you
while you everybody
evolution of the goddess just says
evolution of God is not fog artists look
a modern girls guide to activating your
feminine superpowers
would you rate this book like these
would look like marshmallows ice she's
ready okay come don't need anything come
now or any of these crystals No
you're young but your career is is
integrated with the rest of your life it
looks like and like some people they go
to work they come home mm-hmm
Church state but for you it looks like
it's more intertwined and so you can
have fun while you're working you can
grow as you're working and I mean grow
as a human being as you're working and
it's really just a matter of keeping
moving forward you you know wherever you
are
mm-hmm you haven't seen anything yet and
I I i almost think i don't want to
criticize you but i don't want you to be
hesitant about taking on the world i
don't want you to be hesitant about i
don't want you to be hesitant about
fulfilling your potential
don't get scared i'm crying but it's not
why is it sensitive I just told you go
for it and that you have it all that's a
compliment it's also responsibility it's
also responsibility and but here's the
thing you wouldn't be getting these
cards if you weren't responsible if you
were some greedy horrible
self-absorbed person you wouldn't be
getting these cards because the universe
wouldn't trust you with this
responsibility you just need to step out
of any limiting beliefs and anything
from the past that that held you back
and specifically any any pattern that
you've had in the past of attracting
certain kinds of people into your life
of people that in that people that have
been in your life that may have taken
more than they give
mm-hmm and you need to stay balanced and
that's you know what that's everybody's
journey staying balanced as you go
through life believe me if it doesn't
get any easier as you get older because
you have a natural affinity to give and
honestly that's not necessarily always
good for you I'm sorry if actually I
would consider a weakness in you is that
you are too giving and I think you need
to make sure and make sure that you step
out and the thing that I want you to
think about right now is when you're
giving more the other person isn't
learning how to give and you're not
learning how to receive and I think
learning how to receive might be one of
the
you have the power you just have to
unleash it last chance do you have any
questions if you don't have any
questions and you can't contain yourself
I see I can see I want you to ask
question I'm thinking about what do you
think I think my biggest struggle right
now is I can tell you what I think
because right now I'm at a point in my
life where career he's really the
majority of what's going on in my life
today and I think that for me my
struggle comes from letting it take over
because I'm scared that it's gonna like
I have children and I'm just scared that
it's gonna come on the expense of there
will be you know I've been meeting
courage for decades and I've listened to
a lot of people I want to say something
to you
mothers that worry about that aren't the
bad mother they just aren't there more
aware than most parents just the fact
that you're asking that says to me
because you won't let it be an issue now
having said that being balanced is
difficult this is what you're going to
delegate we just had this conversation
this mind the okay man you said she's
perfect and now she's not because she's
not delegating so we have we found
something here my point is is yeah if
you have to let go of something and
he'll find something to let go of you
know what I mean mm-hmm or or in your
particular case looking at your card
it's not just delegating it's also
setting up a structure where it can be
self-serving like it could be it can
make money with without you present all
the time and I'm trying to be sensitive
to you but I want to say I don't want it
to be sent to me there's so much more to
you and you if you're tied down with
this and it's fabulous and it's
wonderful and you're helping people and
all those wonderful things whatever it
is it's good following your passion I
get that but here's at some point you
need passive income you need to set it
up in a way that it's a score udemy
course or or something where other
people can step in and do certain things
because your real power is coming from
the next step you're gonna build
something much bigger and this is going
to be lovely and you're gonna keep it
but there's something bigger coming yeah
I think that for me I'm I can see that
I'm thinking too micro yes I'm trying to
have my hand on everything and to
control everything in my life
mm-hmm but I I know that it's my own
struggle right now and I realized that
this is what really stops me from
getting to the next phase in my life
okay the fact that you know that is the
biggest hurdle humanly remember we saw
the Avis towards here where she's stuck
she's stuck in her thinking but you have
that awareness which many people don't
which means that's where they stay I do
not believe it you destiny to stay where
you are not just my point is this set it
up so that it hums without you or with
you having it part time so that you can
is there something else you want to
build it's just another aspect to this
that you want to turn into something
bigger yes okay that there's more to you
and I want you to understand it's not
just more to you it's more to offer the
world mm-hmm just II won't do it for
yourself today
I was literally took the day to catch up
on errands find my passport because
tomorrow we're flying out to New York
for a little work trip but yeah I was
supposed to shoot a video didn't get to
it now I'm gonna lie but we do have we
do have a panel today at the Rotman
School of Business which is a pretty big
deal in Toronto and in general it's a
very respectful business school so we
I'm sitting on a panel for I guess kind
of fashion discussion so there's
different people from the fashion
industry they're going to be part of it
and they asked me kindly to be part of
it and I'm super excited
and I mean obvious it's an amazing
opportunity but also I'm really you know
because I'm trying to really work on
this whole public speaking just being
part of these type of things it's kind
of really my goal for this year to get
more comfortable with it I'm taking
these opportunities and I enjoy to share
my information and knowledge with
younger people and also you know train
myself to just be more comfortable
because as many as I do these the better
I guess I'll feel and more comfortable
so I'm really excited to be part of it
so I'm just gonna get start getting
ready
makeup and stuff I have no idea what I'm
wearing didn't get the chance to think
about it too much this is going to be my
tripod you know professional
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work ethic you can teach it has to be
present with the person has to have it
everything else you can teach and other
people can learn so just remember that
when you present yourself
attitude and work ethic everything but
if you reach out and you're like okay
you know it I know that you're working
on this right now I can offer this to
you and then say if you would be
interested maybe we can know me for
coffee so I'm always I'm a big believer
in first coming and being this is what I
can do for you baby
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