There's a picture of Chicago who is in your closet that--
All the time.
OK.
So she is a little you.
My Chi Chi.
She is my girliest girl that loves pink and purple
and make up.
All my kids are so different.
North is like goth.
She's into Hot Topics, and she dresses
with-- like she puts fake tattoos on her face,
and she listens to Black Sabbath.
And she's just like a full goth girl.
Saint is like video game tech whiz amazing.
And Psalm is really into Paw Patrol and Cars.
Like every kid is so different, but Chi Chi
is my little princess.
Anything princess, anything girly girl, that's her.
They really are completely different.
And that North is into Black Sabbath,
how did she even learn about Black Sabbath?
I have no idea.
I think Tik Tok.
I don't know.
Wow.
And Psalm is the one that was wearing the giant chain
around his neck.
Is that Psalm?
Yes, yes.
Oh my god.
He wears this fake, giant chain.
Wait, did you just say fake?
It's fake.
It's not.
Oh my god.
It's huge.
I know, but it's--
How can he keep his head up?
It's like-- it looks like a wrestler's belt or something.
It's not fake?
That's fun.
No, it's not.
Oh my god.
No.
I just assumed because it was so huge.
That's hilarious.
Yeah.
No.
Oh god.
[LAUGHTER]
Yeah, no.
All right.
And so they're there--
but they're really well behaved though.
They're really good kids.
They really are.
Like I got really lucky.
They definitely give me a hard time.
They really do.
And North, you know, I thought she
was going to grow out of this like, I
want to be an only child phase.
She hasn't.
She-- it's a struggle, even to go to school.
There'll be times where she's like, I'm not riding
in the car with my brother.
And she'll be so--
so morning drop off has to be like a fun thing.
And luckily, so many of our friends and cousins,
they all live in the same neighborhood,
so I'm like the carpool mom.
So I go to like three homes every morning to pick up kids.
And I have to make it a thing, where we just-- sometimes, we
do have to take two cars because I've agreed to pick up so many.
And I have to separate the kids, because she
wants her own music.
She wants her own vibe.
She wants to sing with her friends.
So I have to trade off.
It's always the thing, bribes.
We're back with Inoke Tonga.
And so you live in Denver.
And I just said during the break,
you're going to be guided.
He still hasn't heard back from the school.
It's been three weeks now.
They still have not obviously hired you back.
But you're going to be led.
And you're being guided to the exact right place
that you're going to be.
And somebody watching is going to offer you a job.
Thank you so much.
It will.
Because the thing is-- these are whoever that is at the school.
But all of the students and the parents, everyone
is supportive.
Everyone has reached out in support
of you saying, bring him back.
Yeah.
I actually was scared to even post about it or even speak up.
Because they had told me, the parents
pay too much money for their kids
to be mentored by someone who identifies as gay.
So in my thought process before even posting, I'm like,
I can't tell my girls.
I can't tell my boys, because I don't want their parents
to take them away from me.
Because these are my kids.
Anyone I coach, they're my kids.
But I've also taught my kids to advocate for yourself.
Advocate for other people when they can't.
And it hit me-- one of my really good friends
was like, well, what message are you sending your kids
if you don't speak up?
Yeah.
So I did.
And the parents--
I actually showed up to my girls' opening
game, the first game.
I entered the lion's den.
Yeah.
It was--
And how were they?
It was nerve wracking, but after the game one of the parents
came up to me.
And he was just like, you got your nerves out.
Next time, you better come sit with us.
Yeah.
They're-- I was trying to sneak off.
I wasn't trying to cause a scene.
It was about the girls' game.
And the kids ran up and they were just like,
you tried to leave without saying bye.
And we had talked.
And still to this day, the girls, the kids in the school
have been put under a microscope right now.
These past few weeks, my girls, they've
been under a lot of emotional stress.
And for them to go out and perform the way they did.
Win or lose, it was a proud moment to me.
And I had told them, I'm fine with putting myself
in uncomfortable situations so long
that you guys are comfortable.
And it's been overwhelming with so much support.
Well, I'm glad you're seeing that support.
And I hope people continue to support you.
And like I said, you're going to be led to the exactly--
the place where people appreciate you
for exactly who you are and what you do.
I know you and your fiance, Charlie.
Is that his name?
Yeah.
You're planning on getting married.
You want to go on a honeymoon.
So we want to give you round trip airfare from Discover
to Puerto Rico and a 7-night stay at the iconic Caribe
Hilton featuring a secluded beach, world class amenities,
sweeping ocean views.
Thank you so much.
You're welcome.
We'll be back.