Normal Things Men Do That Women Find Irresistible [0:00:00]
So, I’m over on Reddit and this is what I found, “I [Bleeping sound] love watching
my boyfriend cook.
I can stand there and watch him all day long.
He’s bustling around chopping veggies, putting dry rub on meats, stirring things around ina
pan, all confident and sure-like.
He thinks he’s just making dinner.
What he doesn’t know is by the time the meal is ready, I want to rip his clothes off
and have my way with him first, and eat dinner later.”
Another gem found on Reddit, “Mmm.
After a long day of work, the act of loosening up his necktie.
Mmm.
[Bleeping sound] me.”
Tra-la-la-la Laura, she says, “Wear nice sweaters.
The snug sweaters make me want to cuddle.
And by cuddle, I mean bang.”
And, I like how Anthos4228 says, “That’s the best type of cuddling.”
Now, the next one is interesting.
Supposedly, our sleepy voice is very attractive.
Now, this actually was found in 2013 study, and what they talked about is the aggressiveness
that’s normally in a man’s voice is actually tune down quite a bit whenever we’re sleepy,
and women just find it inviting, they find it attractive.
Next up on this list, we’ve got sweat, but not just any sweat, sweat after a workout.
So, this is based off a 2007 study coming out of the University of California Berkeley.
And, what they found is that heterosexual women when they were exposed to men’s sweat,
they were actually sexually aroused.
Now, I think there’s a lot of other factors that go into this, and I’m not telling you
just to go out there and sweat and think that this is going to smell great.
No, there are many things that go into this, but understand that if you were into the,
you know, that girl you’ve been wanting to talk to and you’ve just finished a workout
and you’re maybe in great shape and you are relatively clean before the workout, it’s
not going to be something that you really have to worry about your smell, and in fact,
it may be something that turns her on.
Next up, rolling your shirt sleeves, especially down to the elbow.
Why do women love this?
Because forearms.
There’s just something about a man’s forearms that women really like.
And, yes, they’ve looked at all different types of forearms.
Different women find different forearms attractive.
But, yes, they are drawn especially to muscular forearms, forearms that have veins on them,
forearms that have basically the right symmetry and, again, what that is they didn’t define
exactly.
But, women talk about this again and again when they see a man’s forearms, this is
like some strange fetish out there.
So, guys, when it gets warm, go ahead and roll up the sleeves even if you’re a little
bit thin, even if you’re a little bit big, it’s still going to be some women are interested
in.
All right.
So, this next five I’m going to put them together.
We’ve got stubble, we’ve got a beard, we’ve got mustaches, we have bald heads,
and we have hairy chests.
Now, what do all of these things have in common?
There are women out there that just love these and there’s women out there that don’t
like this.
And that’s I think when you hear a lot of misinformation.
They’re like, “Ah, don’t shave your head because a lot of women don’t like it.”
But here’s the thing, many women love it.
Any of you guys have shaved heads?
Let me down in the comments if you’ve ever had a woman just come up and touch your shaved
head and just tell you I absolutely love this.
Same thing with the beards, same thing with mustaches.
Stubble is actually probably the least polarizing of all of the things I just talked about,
but women love that.
And, even the hairy chest.
I know some guys like, “Oh, I got to shave, I’m just I’m like, you know, Sasquatch,
I’m Chewbacca here.”
But, the thing is there are women that love it.
And, that’s the key with this point is it’s good to – you don’t want to be in the
middle.
You don’t want to be the guy that is mediocre.
You want to go to one end or the other because, yes, it’s going to not be – a lot of women,
they’re just not into it.
But, the 10% the 20% that absolutely love it, they are going to let you know and they’re
going to be drawn to you.
And, as we’re talking about hair, let’s talk about grays.
You’re getting a little bit of gray on the sides, maybe you’re just getting a little
bit of salt and pepper on top.
Guys, that can be great.
Women love gray.
Now, a lot of guys they think, “Oh, I need to look younger.”
Not necessarily.
When you look at the pick attractiveness level for a man, where is it at?
At age 50 assuming you got everything else in order in your life.
But, women are drawn to older men.
This makes a lot of sense.
And, we see this in nature.
Let’s look at gorillas, what do we see?
The silverback gorilla, that gorilla right there because of his age, because of his status
in the group, he is at the top.
And, oftentimes women when they see the gray they see experience, they see a guy that’s
been through a few things and is very attractive to them.
Next up, geeking out.
This is what I found over at Reddit.
So, Sea Potato, she says, “Speaking passionately about pretty much anything, when my SO speak
excitedly about anything he cares about, even if it isn’t any of my interest, I find it
insanely attractive.”
So, gents, if you’re into cars, if you’re into Star Wars, if you’re into fashion,
don’t hide it.
It’s something that’s going to make you more attractive.
When she sees that you are passionate about what your – about your life, this is something
that people love the energy, they find it attractive.
Freckles, who knew?
Apparently, this makes you look a bit innocent.
The concentration face.
So, apparently whenever we are concentrating on things, a lot of women pick up on this
and they’re like, “Oh, I like that, it looks like he’s thinking.”
Something about the concentration face, so don’t be afraid to, yeah, concentrate.
Now, what about clothing?
Yeah, there were tons of things on this list that women absolutely love.
And, a lot of these you’ve heard before, so I’m going to just list them out.
Boots, women absolutely love boots.
Jeans, well-fitted jeans especially if the man is shape.
T-shirts, a well-fitted tee.
Again, the guy needs to be in shape.
If you don’t have the body type for a t-shirt, a little bit overweight, you’re super skinny,
then I would really suggest that you go with a button-down long sleeve shirt that maybe
you roll up, again, showing up the forearms.
[0:05:07] Other things like, and I thought this was
interesting, bowties.
Why bowties?
Because you’re being yourself.
And that’s actually where this popped up, it wasn’t the bowtie so much, it was having
the courage to wear the bowtie and to stand apart.
Speaking of standing apart, bright or fun socks.
So, apparently whenever women see a man take his shoes off and he’s got, you know, a
really just a simple outfit, but the socks, there’s something about those socks that
draws them to that.
They kind of like that, they’re curious about what other – what other things does
this guy hide.
Next up, we’ve got uniforms.
So, I saw this when I was in the Marine Corps, and any of you guys there firefighters, police
officers, you know a woman loves a uniform.
Even the UPS driver, yes, the women love this uniform.
I’ve heard women talk about how, “Oh, I can’t wait for the UPS driver to stop
by.”
It is something they’re checking about.
They love a uniform.
I don’t know.
Maybe it’s the monochromatic look.
There is something about a man in uniform.
So, what can you do if you’re not in the military, if you don’t have a uniform at
work?
How about you establish one.
Again, a suit, think about that.
A nice jacket matching trousers, just put it all together, it makes you look amazing.
Even if you’ve got a casual work place, find a way to bring in your uniform your look
that you know you feel great, you walk taller, you look better, and, yeah, you’ll turn
heads.
Dogs.
Yes, dogs make you more attractive.
Why?
Because they show that you can care for someone other than yourself.
It makes you look – it makes you look human, it makes you look approachable.
A guy – in fact, they’ve done these studies whenever they showed a man with a dog, a man
without a dog, who would you actually approach for help?
People always go to the guy with the dog.
Point being is a man with a dog is going to be perceived as more attractive.
Next up, being handy.
Be a guy who can fix things.
A bit of a handyman, someone that can actually look at a problem and say, “You know what?
Okay.
I can figure out what’s going on with this door.
Yeah, you get something wrong with your plumbing?
I’ll take a look at it and do a little bit of troubleshooting.”
This right here, your attractiveness level shoots up.
Another big part of this, having rough hands, having hands that maybe get a little bit dirty.
Not being afraid to use your hands.
It’s funny, I was talking with my writer, Raphael, and he actually told me a story of
how a woman stopped him and actually looked at his hands like, “Wow.
You’ve got really great-looking hands.”
So, guys, larger hands having calluses on your hands, working with your hands, women
find this very attractive.
Now, this next one is really cool and that is laughing out loud.
Women love it when they see a man basically be able to show his emotions and not be afraid
to laugh out loud, not even noticing he’s being a little bit loud here, he’s drawing
a little bit of attention to himself.
They find this for some reason insanely attractive.
Next up, from Moose with a nice rack over on Reddit, “Initiate cuddling by putting
an arm around you and pulling you close.”
So, apparently women love it whenever we take the lead and we put our arm around them.
Next up on this list, taking care of your friends.
So, a lot of women wrote that they love to see a guy that actually takes care of the
people around him especially his close friends, he goes the extra mile.
The way they figure it, if he’s doing this for them, then, yeah, he’s going to actually
take care of me.
Now, this next point is probably my favorite, and that is women are really attracted to
men who are nice to people that they don’t need to impress.
Nice to people that can never repay them.
Friendly and helpful to people that just simply there’s nothing to gain from doing this.
And to me, this is what I love to see because it’s the true mark of a gentleman.
A gentleman, he gives to others, he helps others who can never repay him.
So, oftentimes people are out there looking to do something for someone else kind of like
to gain a favor to gain something.
There’s always an angle to it.
So, I love seeing that women are attracted to guys that really have the true heart of
a gentleman.
All right, guys.
So, what video to watch next?
How about this one?
Old school etiquette rules that every man should know.
And, go check out this video, I had a lot of fun with it.
It’s got some great information.
Yeah, you want to be following these rules.
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