As an INFJ, the search for romantic companionship can sometimes feel like a never-ending journey.
It’s in an INFJs nature to want a soul-deep connection with someone
who is invested "all in" in a relationship.
INFJs can therefore spend so much of their lives in search
of that perfect person. But how do they know when they’ve found them.
Well lets explore, What happens when INFJs find ‘The One’
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They will feel in alignment with their inner selves
Finding the right person to share your life with can be a tricky endeavor,
especially if you identify as an INFJ. INFJs are particularly in
tune with their inner thoughts and feelings and so they seek out meaningful connections
where they can express their true selves without fear of judgement.
When they have found a one who they connect deeply with, they will feel like pieces of a
puzzle have finally been put together, allowing them to fully align with their inner self.
This is a precious moment for an INFJ who has been searching for a like-minded soul to share life’s
journey with and so they can finally close off any other paths that don't satisfy this longing.
They’ll be more comfortable showing their vulnerable side
For the INFJ, finding 'The One' is a sacred experience -- they crave
deep and meaningful connections that fill their souls and make them feel
safe enough to let down their walls and show their true vulnerabilities.
Once an INFJ is confident in the strength of their bond and knows that the relationship will bring
them stability, security, and nourishment, they will gradually open up more; each layer
peeled away bringing greater understanding and a deeper connection between themselves and another.
As INFJs give away pieces of themselves, it is can be a truly beautiful transformation -- one
which reveals the bright light within and connects two hearts as one.
They will find as much solace in a persons company as they do in solitude
For an INFJ finding the one is not just about getting along, it's about finding comfort in
a persons presence in a way they do not feel when others are around. That person becomes their haven
of solace, the one they turn to when everything else around them is chaotic and confusing.
An INFJ can go days without seeing anyone else and yet
still find happiness within a single shared moment with that individual.
They still understand the need for moments solely focused on themselves, but equally understand the
beauty of companionship and balancing these two life situations as one INFJ journey.
They will feel empowered to reach their full potential
Finding the one can be a journey of deep introspection for an INFJ. It
can seem almost like a quest for the missing piece in their lives;
a fellow sojourner who can help them realize and open themselves up to all that is possible.
When INFJs find this person, they will feel safe enough to
allow themselves to reach their fullest potential.
The comfort found with such an individual will free them from
the fear of being totally vulnerable and honest about their feelings, dreams and
desires. They will be empowered to express their true selves without
hesitation or reservation, knowing that it will be celebrated rather than judged.
It can be a moment of profound joy and relief. After spending much of
their lives blocked from expressing their true selves, they finally feel like they’ve
found a partner they feel safe enough with to peel away all the layers of protection.
This relationship can be a great blessing and through it,
INFJs are given the courage to break out of their shells and soar.
They will feel a shared desire for personal growth
‘The one’ for an INFJs is someone who understands their need for personal growth.
INFJs understand the importance of having a partner to journey through life with,
somebody who is equally connected to their goals
and ambitions and shines a light of positivity onto all the dark places.
When an INFJ does find that in a partner, there can be nothing more fulfilling. Their future
suddenly has purpose, a desire that was missing before blooms within them, and that promise
of a greater tomorrow can drive them forward with more confidence and hope for the future.
They will feel the greatest need to care and protect
For an INFJ finding the one can be characterized by a greater need to
protect and nurture. This is because the INFJ personality type abhors conflict and
looks for relationships built on mutual understanding, support and compassion.
Findings the one can therefore lead them to an
increased desire to protect and care for their beloved.
Although they may struggle to show affection outwardly, behind closed doors they’ll make
extraordinary efforts to ensure their partner is cared for in every way imaginable. This could
include anything from cooking their favourite dish, to just being a shoulder to lean on.
INFJs will want the person they most love to feel cherished,
respected and safe. To them, there is no greater joy than being able to
provide comfort and security in a world they know too well is cruel and unjust.
They will finally feel understood
Often, INFJs feel misunderstood by most people they encounter,
since many find their complexity difficult to comprehend.
However, when they have found the one person who not only understands them but also hears them on a
deeper level, it can feel as if a burden has been lifted; suddenly life has opened up and there’s so
much more to be explored and experienced now that the INFJ is surrounded by love and acceptance.
Finding “the one” can instantly fill in a void within an INFJ that nothing else can
fully quench — there is no greater joy for them that finally being understood.
They will look forward to the future
When an INFJ finds their one true partner, they become engulfed in the anticipation
of what life will bring them in the future. With someone who resonates with them on a deep level,
there is a whole new world of possibilities to explore and
it can often fill them with so much hopefulness and enthusiasm.
A shared commitment to another allows them to feel safe enough to take risks and build towards a
shared vision. While it may be daunting at times, the hope found within this relationship can light
their spirit with the belief that anything is achievable with their partner by their side.
They will want to be the best they can be
‘The one’ can inspire an INFJ to pour their heart and soul into ensuring that their relationship is
successful. It can be like a spark that fuels them to become the best possible version of themselves.
They can suddenly want to strive for success in all areas of their life,
not just for themselves but for their partner.
They will feel more motivated to keep commitments, maintain positive communication,
understand their partners values and circumstances, and make time for them
for meaningful activities. learning how best to offer support - all these actions and more can
become the building blocks for a relationship with an INFJ when they have found ‘the one’
As the relationship progresses, so too does their willingness to dedicate time,
energy and love into being the very best partner possible.
They start to reevaluate what happiness means to them
For INFJs, finding the one means so much more than
merely being happy. It is a chance to reassess the value of the things that
have always mattered and an opportunity to redefine what true joy looks like.
There's a certain warmth that can only be found in understanding what it's like for
someone else when they’ve built trust and are able to see who someone is at the deepest level.
With this kind of connection, INFJs will be able to experience a greater appreciation
of life as they rediscover their potential through the love they receive in return.
Once INFJs find someone with whom they can share their innermost thoughts and feelings,
it often becomes a lifelong bond of mutual understanding and support.
However, finding that true connection can be difficult – many INFJs spend years searching for
the one. For those that are lucky enough to find their person, the wait will certainly be worth it.
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