Today we will be taking about the reasons behind Hamza and Memphis’ breakup.
We will take a look at both sides of the story
and provide an update on Hamza.
Memphis and Hazma first appeared on 90 day fiancé on Before the 90 Days Season 5,
and they will be featured on another season of the franchise
34-year-old Memphis is a mom to three children
Before it was revealed that Memphis had a baby with Hamza
she said on the show that she had two children from her two previous relationships
On 90 day fiance Memphis revealed that she’s still friendly with her ex and he’s a great father to both of her children.
Now married for the second time with Hamza, Memphis also had a baby daughter with him last fall.
Memphis’ ex-boyfriend who originally leaked the informoation about her giving birth, claimed that her ex-husband is the love of her life
and she would stay overnight at her ex-husband's back when he and Memphis were living together [with the new BF]
Memphis had a fall out with Hamza over her ex as well,
as she slept at his house for four days due to being dеpressed after failing her exams.
According to Memphis, the sole reason behind this decision was because she needed someone to take care of the children
While Memphis and Hamza spoke to each other online for a few months,
they got married only 3 weeks after meeting each other in person.
Memphis’ friends and family raised concerns about her decision to marry Hamza so quickly, but she said she didn't care
Ultimately it looks like both Memphis and Hamza rushed into marriage and having children
as once the Tunisian man finally arrived to America, their relationship didn't stand the test of living together
It was reported in January that Memphis and her family аccused Hamza of mistreаting her.
While she didn’t officially confirm the breakup it was pretty obvious Hamza was out of her life.
Meanwhile Hamza's sister, Rawia, started to defend her brother saying that Memphis was treating him badly.
She also accused Memphis of lying
Memphis recorded an emotional video to social media in response to that
A few days ago the messages between Memphis and Hamza’s sister and between the spouses were "leaked" online.
In those messages Memphis complained to Rawia that Hamza does not appreciate her and that he wants to take their daughter.
Memphis proceeded to claim that Hamza scammed her.
Previously Memphis had already implied on social media that Hamza is a scammer
She posted that she will be discussing BEZNES on her social media
BEZNES appears to be a word originated from English “business” that refers to Tunisian locals creating activities for tourists
with the sole goal of making a profit.
When Memphis was asked to elaborate on how she’s being scammed by Hamza, the Michigan native said
that he gave her an ultimatum - if she won’t move cities, he will go himself
She added that he was angry
According to Memphis, Hamza didn’t like that her hometown of Muskegon is a small town and not a big city with lots of lights and businesses.
Those messages were dated November and December 2021
and it is presumed that Hamza arrived to the States in November as well.
In a message to Hamza Memphis claimed that he is lazy, he’s making up lies about her,
throws tantrums, fatshames her, and creates a bad environment for the children.
In another message to Hamza dated January she said he can’t live with her due to creating an unhealthy environment for the kids.
She proceeded to say she’s ready to file for a divorce.
According to Memphis, Hamza only cares for the green card he’s supposed to receive.
She also said that Hamza didn’t seem to be attracted with her and he wasn’t affectionate, spending the time on his phone.
In one of the undated messages Hamza did say that he loves Memphis and he doesn’t want to lose her.
Finally Memphis wrote to Hamza that she’s divorcing him
She said that she cares about her children more
than trying to change a man who doesn't care about anyone but himself
She also emphasized that she had done so much to bring him to America and he's willing to give it all up
because they can't move to a big city
Memphis sent a similar message to Rawia where she claimed that Hamza was telling her kid to hаte her.
Meanwhile, Rawia posted a statement to her social media to defend her brother
“My brother wanted to move because he did not want to be in the same place with her ex-husband
and he also wanted to find a job to help his wife and the kids Not for any other reason.”
She then posted her own messages with Memphis where the reason behind Hamza wanting to move was explained
- he was jealous when Memphis would go to pick up her kids from her ex’s house.
Furthermore Rawia also claimed that Memphis was the one who leaked messages.
She stated, "You are just trying to show your good side (it doesn't exist) but your reality is worse."
You want to play the [____] but you are a cheat and your mask will fall soon”
Hamza also posted a message to his social media:
“WHEN PERSON CAN NO LONGER CONTROL YOU, THEY WILL TRY TO CONTROL HOW OTHERS SEE YOU.
THESE LIES WILL FEEL UNFAIR.
BUT STAY ABOVE IT, TRUSTING THAT OTHER PEOPLE WILL EVENTUALLY SEE THE TRUTH JUST LIKE YOU DID”
Memphis also publicly responded on her social media
“I really pray that the next lady learns from this situation.”
She also said she might take legal action against Hamza and his family
If you decide to message me send screen shots of what they are saying and I will put them to appropriate use!
I do not have to defend their lies anymore!
I did not benefit from anything at all from them
The problem is they will show what they think will keep their story line going and fill their pockets!
After dealing with them NOTHING surprises me!
When it comes to Hamza, he still posts loving pictures from back when he and Memphis were still together.
Hamza had moved to Chicago, 3 hours away from Memphis.
He’s living with a friend. That friend also provided more information regarding the breakup.
According to the friend, Memphis would yell at Hamza all the time.
She said he never supported her and that he needs to get a job or do the house chores.
"She didn’t say nice things," said Hamza’s friend.
According to them, when Memphis was raising her voice it made Hamza frustrated, so he would yell back at her,
and if Memphis started to push him, he would push back.
On 90 day fiance Hamza had already confronted Memphis about her yelling
The friend also said it was Memphis who made Hamza leave with no money.
But while Memphis claims told her ex-husband that Hamza was mistrеating her,
they claim it is not true, and that he simply couldn’t stand being disrespected.
The friend also said that Memphis would ask for sеxy time all the time
and Hamza wouldn't like that he wanted him so much
Finally, Hamza told his friend that Memphis can't cook
Do you think that Memphis and Hamza’s relationship was doomed from the start?
Please let me know in the comments
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