I know sometimes it can be really awkward when you first kiss a girl, even if you've kissed
a lot of women in your life. That first kiss when you're kissing a girl for the very first time.
You and her, it can be weird. It can be awkward. This is the first time you guys are breaking the
sexual touch barrier. You and her. What are you supposed to do with your hands? I know that sounds
like a funny thing. Don't you just put them around her? Well, maybe you do. But if you don't know,
this video is going to teach you exactly what to do so you're going to know exactly what to
do every single time when you kiss a girl, and especially for the first time. And then
once you've learned this and you know what to do, you can repeat it every time, you can
prevent awkwardness and when it's not awkward and she sees that you are super comfortable with her,
that you're super comfortable with women, there is going to be a massive attraction boost here. Women
want to know that you are comfortable with other women and especially with her. What you want to
do is you want to make sure that you're putting your hands and your arms where it makes sense
in the progression. What I've come up with here is basically this 3 level progression, knowing
exactly where to put your hands every single time that you kiss a girl. Whether you're kissing her
for the first time or you're escalating further. Let me explain. Where do you put your hands when
you are first kissing her? Meaning, this is the first time you guys have ever kissed,
where is the safest place to put your hands? When you go for the kiss, you guys are going
to be close to each other, obviously. You're not going to be bending over too much. You're going to
be pretty close to each other. Your bodies will be close to each other or maybe you're sitting down.
But your bodies will be close to each other, the best place to put your hands are on her hips. I'm
gonna be very specific here. Not her butt because that could be inappropriate. But on her hips. This
is the perfect place to put them. It makes sense. It's going to make her feel comfortable. It's
going to be better than doing nothing with your hands. And it's going to be not as intense if you
put them somewhere else, which I'll explain in a second. But the first thing you're going to do,
when you first kiss a girl is you're going to put your hands on her hips. Be careful here. Don't
grab her hips really hard. You're basically going to be just resting your hands. You're
going to be resting your hands on her hips as if, instead of letting your hands fall,
her hips are catching your fall with your hands. You're sort of resting them on her hips. This is
a great place when you are again kissing for the very first time. That's level 2. But what if it's
getting a little bit more hot and heavy? Or maybe you guys have already kissed before? Well at this
point, I wouldn't put your hands on her hips. I would put your hands more around her. This
is for a second kiss and beyond. Maybe again, it's getting more passion inside of the kiss.
What you want to do is you're going to put your hands a little bit more around her, but you're
going to be holding her lower back. Again, not her butt and not around the middle or top of her back.
That's going to be strange. You want to put your hands around her lower back. It's almost as if
you're now hugging her. Your hands go low and her hands go high. I don't know how it came this
way. But the more masculine sort of dominant way of holding a woman is where her hands go
over yours. Her hands will go probably around your neck and above your shoulders and yours
are going to go lower and they're going to be around her back. Level 3, this is when it gets
not more advanced. But it gets where you guys are way more into each other. Where you guys
are way more comfortable with each other. Where the passion is growing. This could be before you
guys are going to the bedroom. This could be where you guys have been making out for quite a while.
But basically the place where you can put your hands and I'm going to be very careful when I
say this because I don't want you to do this for too long. But I they can be on her face or in the
back of her head. Again, very careful here. You're not going to be necessarily holding the back of
her head or holding her face like this. But in the moment when you guys are getting a little
bit more hot and heavy. You guys been kissing for a while, you can tell she's into it because she's
becoming more closer to you. She's speeding up the kissing a little bit. What you can do is you
can gently take your hand and just put it where you're cupping her ear and your thumb right here
is on her cheek. You're holding her head and you're going for the kiss. It's just a way more
intimate and sensual hold. And then that can be also where you're grabbing the back of her head.
When I say grab, I don't mean pressure grab like you're grabbing the back of her head. You're just
softly gently putting your hand on the back of her head and you only do it for a little
bit. You're only going to put your hand on her face for a little bit. Then after that level 3,
you can go back to level 2 when your arms are around her lower back. Again to rephrase here,
level 1 for the first kiss when you guys are just starting, just focus on your hands
on her hips and that's it. Level 2, it's getting a little more passionate, those hands could lock
and go around her back on the lower back. And then if you guys are getting even more intimate,
more sensual, you can even do the touching her face a little bit, hand on her face,
hand on the back of her head as you guys are kissing. Here's how you could practice
this and implement this. The next time you're kissing a girl, just practice the waist part.
The other stuff is easy, but I just want to make it less awkward, more comfortable,
more appropriate when you guys were kissing for the first time. The next time you kiss a girl,
just be very aware of where you're going to be putting your hands which will be her waist.
That's the one I want you to practice because that is the one that's gonna be most important.
That's the biggest jump from I don't know where to put my hands at all. I'm not sure what to do
with these things. Where do they go? How do I hang them down low, etc. Just practice on resting them
on her waist while you guys are kissing. I want you to check out my Tripp's Tension
Technique. It's a free video that you can check out that's a complete demo of me and another girl
doing exactly this. Which means I'm going to be showing you what you need to do right before
you go for the kiss. How do you build tension before the kiss? How do you get her interested
in kissing you? How do you go for the kiss so it's not awkward? I'm gonna be teaching this in a demo.
Click on the link down below and you'll get that video. I'll email it to you. It to comes to your
email inbox right away and you'll learn Tripp's Tension Technique that you can use
with every single girl so you can initiate that kiss and then again, you'll know exactly what to
do with your hands. Check that out. There's a link down below and I'll see you on the next video.