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Now back to the video, do you describe yourself
as an introvert or an extrovert?
In 1921, Carl Jung coined the two terms
to describe people who were open and outgoing,
and those who are shy and reserved.
As the stereotype goes
extroverts are the ones leading the conga line
while introverts are those
who have their nose in a good book.
But what if you don't feel
like you fit in either category?
Well, people who identify
with both personality types are called ambiverts,
and they're more common than you might think.
Making up about 68% of the world.
There are plenty of great traits
that can be found in extroverts and introverts.
So being a mix of the two gives ambiverts
benefits from both ends of the spectrum.
While no ambivert is exactly like one another
here are nine things that make ambiverts attractive.
Number one, you have great leadership skills.
Do others always compliment you
on your leadership skills?
And this is a skill
that comes almost naturally to ambiverts.
In group settings, you are able to take charge
and channel both of your extroverted
and introverted sides to guide
and meet the needs of each of your teammates.
This may mean utilizing
each of your peers individual's strengths
and being open to all the ideas brought to the table.
With a creative mind full of ideas
you know how to bring everyone success.
Number two, you're in tune with your intuition.
Whether you realize it or not
as an ambivert you're spot-on intuition
is one of your most important and attractive qualities
because you have strong beliefs and you're outgoing.
You know how and when to stand your ground.
You aren't afraid to act when something feels wrong.
Compared to others, you tend to be more observant
than you let on, since you have a habit
of picking up external cues
and changes as you go about your day.
Number three, you're picky but in a good way.
Because of your social and bold qualities,
it's easy to assume that all ambiverts
are eager to make friends.
Well this may not be the case for most
instead, determining your most valued friendships
is like using a claw machine.
It requires selectivity, effort, and time.
Although you're more open
and sociable compared to introverts,
it does take awhile to get on your best friend list
and become someone you turn to
for a good laugh, comfort, and support.
Number four, your ability to sympathize
and empathize with others doesn't go unnoticed.
Are you always the one that your friends go to
when they need support?
Showing sympathy and empathy
is your way of acknowledging, understanding,
and validating someone's emotions.
And ways expressing sympathy and empathy
can range from lending a shoulder to lean on,
sharing a good laugh with someone,
providing words of reassurance,
or even simply letting a friend vent to you
about their hard day at work.
With the ability to show compassion and consideration,
who better than an ambivert to rely on?
Number five, you're a great communicator and listener.
Are you able to keep conversations going
as well as listen to what others have to say?
According to Psychologist, Paulette Kouffman Sherman
taking on the qualities of both introverts
and extroverts allows you to have enough time
to think before you speak,
and to also be able to share your ideas
and to speak your mind freely.
From small talk with co-workers,
to talk of politics at the dinner table.
You have your fair share of input
but also an openness,
to hear what other people have to say.
Number six, you know how to adapt
to different social settings.
Can you always make yourself fit
into any social situation?
Another attractive quality of ambiverts
is their ability to bring out
their extroverted and introvert sides,
wherever it fits best.
While you may make the perfect plus one at parties
you also fit right in at a book club, museum trips,
and the other more relaxing types of social settings.
Because of your skill,
you're able to make connections with others.
No matter how different their personality may be.
Number seven, you aren't attention hoggers.
Have you notice that ambiverts don't always
want to be the center of attention in social settings?
While you're more than capable
of being a lively entertainer,
you also enjoy standing off to the side sometimes.
To let others take the spotlight.
This is because like introverts,
ambiverts also need time to recharge.
Number eight, you can also be unpredictable.
Are you always the one who comes up
with exciting plans for your friends and loved ones?
Ambiverts have the unique ability
to keep the spark alive
in almost any of their relationships,
through their spontaneity.
The ideas you have in mind for a hangout or a date
can range from walks through a park to rock climbing.
You're spontaneous like nature
makes you not only fun to hang around
but also someone to make memorable moments with.
And number nine, you aren't afraid
to show your interest in others.
How do you show someone,
that you're attracted to them?
Some people may show it
through stolen glances across a room,
finding excuses to have a conversation,
or even through gentle but subtle touches.
But because of your confidence as an ambivert
you're more direct when it comes to showing your interest.
While you might not directly
tell your crush how you feel.
You're not as likely to shy away
from any prime opportunity to approach
and interact with someone you like.
So do you think you're an ambivert?
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