This video is about "The Signs of a Loser Revealed!" Stick around to the end as I shall
reveal key signs that a person is a real loser in life. Welcome to The SCG Show! This video is
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The term "loser" has been banded about so much nowadays. People in conversation will describe
themselves as losers saying = "I binge watched the entire show on Netflix in one night what
a loser! I queued up to get these new pair of sneakers, what a loser! I stayed up all
night reading my favorite book like a loser!" Anyone can become feel and act like a loser
it does not discriminate and yes this can be applied to both men and women synonymously
and many times in my life I felt like a loser. The worst moments were the following = if you're
new to my content you may be unaware that I was a gambling addict for many years. I felt
like a complete loser the final time I gambled, it was the heaviest loss, the longest period of
gambling for me and I locked myself in my room for an entire weekend drained, miserable and hopeless
Another time was when I was in a toxic relationship with a narcissist. I was unhappy,
the arguments were bad, things were pathetic, immature and so on. I felt like a loser because
I was sat opposite an attractive woman and yet I felt hopeless, miserable and not myself
The last time I felt like a loser that severely was when I lost the business I built from scratch
I literally was flying high one moment and then things spiraled out of control... there was no saving
it. I am sure there are many other examples that I've left out but hopefully you can get
the point I'm trying to make here. But you do not have to feel act and behave like a loser forever
You can make the necessary changes like I did to climb out of a very ugly hole... always speak to a
Trained Medical Professional too if your mental health is suffering and you feel entirely hopeless
Here are the signs of a loser in my opinion revealed! If you're enjoying this video please
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Losers are full of excuses for why their life choices circumstances are the way they are. It's
a shame because some excuses are valid. For example I was not in the right frame of mind to date for a
period of time, do you want to know the reason why? I lost my dad tragically in a lockdown, I couldn't
even say goodbye to him that was a good excuse and a valid one to not date and that's why I didn't do
so. Yet some excuses are pathetic or a lazy reason to not do anything or accomplish anything. Jack for
example was a loser riddled with excuses, when a woman wanted to date him he turned her down "oh
I'm not over my ex" he would say, but him and his ex haven't been together for seven years and it
was only a fling to begin with! When he had an opportunity to invest money he would turn it
down "oh investing is too risky. It's not worth my money!" That's why he never went on in life and
never made any more money... and any opportunities to expand his knowledge by reading, attending
seminars he would say "No I don't have the time." Jack had the time, he chose not to make the time
All Jack wanted to do was clock into work and out come home, eat, sleep and repeat... maybe he'd see the
odd friend... go on the odd vacation... nothing more or less. His standard was mediocre, any time he
had the chance to improve himself he'd be riddled with an army of excuses... some seemed convincing but
ultimately that's what they were, excuses! Excuses don't make you rich, excuses won't make you happy
excuses don't let you go to that next level, don't let you surprise yourself, don't let
you prove your doubters and haters wrong. Excuses are easy and they create complacency
which manifests into an unfulfilling, boring, dull loser life. The life of a loser is full of excuses!
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Typically losers are full of negativity about every aspect of their life... they struggle to see
the positive... the good in anything... This is what frustrates me about people sometimes
I wandered into a pet store once just randomly and saw a little bunny rabbit there
As one of the workers was holding the rabbit I felt compelled to go up and stroke the little
thing... it was so nice lovely and sweet "Ah" I said "this has made my day!" Right next to me was this
obnoxious woman who happened to be a customer and she scoffed "made your day?! How sad of a life
do you live?!" I never responded, that very week was my late Dad's anniversary, he died a few years back
work was tough, I went through a lot mentally and just petting a cute bunny really did make me happy
But to that rude random negative woman there was no good in that
there was no positive... she just wanted to be negative as does the loser.... no matter what
They just want to focus on the negative = if the sun is shining, they'll focus on the bad weather before
If they get a breakthrough at work they'll assume "it's too good to be true" They manage somehow to
get a relationship they fear they'll eventually get dumped, brokenhearted, cheated on and so on
It's all negative, it's never good enough it's all too good to be true... they will always fixate on the
negative... they'll always say it will never last and frankly the more you surround yourself with
such people you find yourself drained and it's so unnecessary. Look I'm not saying be delusional and
just think positive all the time, that's unhealthy and that's extreme, but being a Debbie Downer
constantly about everyone everything no matter what....in my opinion that is a loser for sure!
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Losers give up easily! Now that's never been in my DNA especially when the chips
are down and the odds are stacked against me I don't give up, until I've given it my all
Look I know there's a time and a place to give up in life in certain things and with certain people
For example for me personally I knew it was time to give up on a toxic relationship it
wasn't ever going to get better, I had to walk away. The same goes for my business
but I didn't go down without a fight... yes theoretically I gave up but it wasn't easy
The loser will give up even before starting in fact on anything worthwhile
Gary was your typical guy he gave up on everything the moment things were hard or he wasn't getting
what he wanted, he'd wave the white flag and surrender, especially when it came to dating
Gary was tall good looking had a decent job but dating was tough for him, because he assumed dating
should be easy and women would fall on his lap... he made no effort and he didn't progress and
when he rarely did go into dating head first he'd attract the wrong woman and the wrong situations
and as a result he got upset from the rejections and say "dating is hard!" Dating can be challenging
time-consuming, expensive and so on but it can be rewarding with the right attitude... however if you
are a loser and think and feel you cannot handle anything life throws at you you're gonna get
bad results and find like-minded losers who will reinforce your negative mindset. I'm not saying you
need to be a billionaire or you need to be famous or well accomplished or have good looks or so on
but worthwhile things in life take time, sacrifice, patience, perseverance, self-belief and a positive
attitude. The alternative to all of those things is giving up easy and ultimately becoming a loser
The losers in life have little to no self-respect
I felt this shame and embarrassment right during my gambling addiction... I'd lie about
my whereabouts as I'd really be at the casino or in a betting shop, wasting time and money
I'd stay up all hours doing the same with online gambling... I'd take hard earned money and blow it
I'd convince myself I was doing the right thing... I had no self-respect. A self-respecting person
has the self-awareness to recognize the harm and abuse they're putting themselves through
be it through gambling or any other vice, a job with no progression, a dynamic that's
toxic and abusive, a relationship that's the same and also unhealthy... unsatisfactory
The loser has low self-esteem and therefore armed with the scarcity mindset they genuinely assume
and believe they're doing what's best which is hardly anywhere near their potential or what
is right for them overall. Change the narrative, change the thinking too... losers think they must
settle for less, be appreciative of the minimum of whatever they can obtain is enough... well it's
not. There's so much more... I'm living proof after eradicating that loser mentality to realize I can
do so much more and be more than I ever thought I could imagine. The same can be applied to you
have some much needed self-respect if you resonate with the signs of a loser