I will remember even tiny things he told me
I will ask for his sns details and write him a lot!
I try to show my hospitality
Instead of just nodding I will focus on him
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What signs do girls have to let a boy know she likes him
I will show him my hospitality differently to other people around him
I will always greet him and try to strike a conversation online too
Foreigners are known to approach love interests more straight right?
So if they come to Japan they might not understand the subtle signs of girls
How do you show that you like someone or that you want to spend more time together?
What signs do you girls have for someone you like?
- Ah difficult - I will ask "are you dating anyone?"
- But not just that right - You won't? - I think I will just ask that in general
Depends on the person I guess
But you want to find out right
If he asks me the same question and we are both single... oh laala
I think that would be my approach
"Oh you don'T what a shame" - Yeah like "whaaat no girlfriend?"
I might do it differently
So if I asked him what he likes and he says he likes Manga right?
If I got the Manga and later on told him how I liked it, that would be a sign I like him too.
Oh
So instead of just asking and nodding, you would buy the manga, read it and talk about with him
Instead of just saying you will look it up, do not let it end there. Read it and tell him about it
That's a sign she likes you
Putting in the effort
Girls will try and like the things he likes to get closer to you
On social media apps he might end the conversation with a stamp...
a Japanese girl might try and pick up the conversation again - do not let it end there!
In a situation that would end with him sending that stamp...
She would try to add "did you see that tv show?" - yes
If the conversation is kinda over, but she tries to continue it
you might be in luck with her
We do not want it to end there. We want to talk more.
In school, how did you notice that classmates had crushes?
It's in their eyes!
Instead of nodding as answer, looking at him intensively
Girls will try to look into his eyes
And the voice is one tone higher - That's one
Or a little more energetic. - Show me how "good morning" would look
Try act it out, its not scary if its 3
First imagine I am a normal senior
Gmoorning
Now I am the guy you like
Good morning!!!
Wow that made me instantly happy
Thanks for acting
Many Foreigners are not used to Japanese people being so shy
How do girls show boys here that they like them?
Trying to remember the things he said in detail
Things he likes, or hates or just common stuff he says
If she remembers all of that, that means she is trying to keep all those memories in
She still remembers the cafe that he talked about last week? - Like that
Listening to him properly and being able to recall it
I think that makes everyone happy too
If she goes through the effort to remember what you said, it's a sign that you matter to her.
Other things?
Greetings are important, like how she says hello every day
If she says it full of energy, she would get happy too
You say "good morning" full of energy to the boy you like
So in your heart you are like "I love you" but your lips say "goood morning!!!"
It's easier to start a conversation, and everyone feels happier
Everything starts from the hello - right
If you see a girl that every morning greets a boy with full energy she might like him?
Yes maybe
How can you tell a girl likes a boy here?
Are there some things only girls will notice?
If her eyes are sparkling
If a girl talks to a boy and her eyes go sparkly you know
She must like him a lot
That might be hard to see for you but try your best
If a girl likes a boy, what kind of signs does she show him?
Asking him "what do you like" and answering "I like that too" finding similarities
And sharing those
If it's a hobby that might work but what if he likes soccer?
Saying "I like watching soccer and sometimes play it a little"
Or try to approach it as much as you can
Or say that you watched it the other day on TV too , in order to get closer to him
Get interested in his interests nice
I would ask his social media and text him a lot there
If I could show I like him in a roundabout way that would be best
I would try not to let our conversations on social media end, and write every day
What would you talk about? - Things we like
and also "how was your day" and simple things like that
Why did you pick texting over talking to him in person?
I am too shy to talk to him in person
But I might be brave enough to communicate if its in text form
If he said he liked you, that should be directly right?
I hope until then we will have talked so much
.. that I might be... brave enough... to talk with him in person
You want the boy to tell you he likes you right
Do you want him to say it directly or text it?
I want him to say it directly
I could try and phrase my messages so it is easier for him to tell me his feelings
Do you think you could tell him your feelings yourself? - I do not think so
He has got to say it first - I hope I can make it easier for him to say it though
You think Japanese people are quite shy too? - I want him to say it first too
How do girls appeal to boys that they like them?
Have you noticed it before? Is it hard?
If we both tell each other that our hairstyle today looks good
You might feel like you got a little closer that way
You would both say "Your hair looks great?"
If she praises me, I will return a praise
But I will notice that the praised me and maybe little by little we can get closer
It's important to make a reason to talk with each other
Compared to abroad it is a lot more subtle though
You lived abroad, when you came back did you think it's harder to pick up on peoples signs here?
Abroad people get intimate much faster than in Japan
If Japanese people get as friendly with each other like foreigners, they are already a long way down the road
Abroad they would still think they might just be friends
This might make it easier to understand
How do you notice if a girl likes you?
In highschool some girls would visit the neighboring class during lunch
They would pretend they came to talk to a friend, but actually they just want to talk a little with their crush
Hi my friends, but actually HI SENPAI! - That's it
They will try little by little to get closer
So they could get closer. Have you thought of something else?
Trying to get each other's contact details
You won't spend a lot of time talking with people you do not want to be close to
especially compared to abroad. You gotta judge the situation properly
And then people around them might notice that they seem to get along well
A lot of girls are waiting for senpai to notice them and are not pro-actively approaching him
or pro-actively telling him that they like him so you need to pick up on those subtle signs
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