Hey there, Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence.com and in this video right now I'm going to be
sharing with you the 10 signs that a man is going from liking you to falling head over
heels in love with you.
Now, as they say, love is a game that two can play but both can win.
But unfortunately, not everyone wins when it comes to love because love causes us to
do some things that we would never even dream of in the real world.
And that's just because, if you think about it scientifically, love produces a lot of
different chemicals that we cannot even control.
And these chemicals are really powerful.
These chemicals are things like dopamine, which is also activated by things like cocaine
and nicotine.
Man, I need a girlfriend.
And on top of dopamine, love also produces another chemical called norepinephrine or
basically adrenaline that causes us to start sweating or our heart to start racing.
Oh, man.
I wish I didn't have a girlfriend.
So these are 10 signs that you can use and you can refer to any time you're unsure of
whether or not a guy is falling in love with you.
1.
Number one.
The first one is that he believes and he expresses to you that you're really, really special.
There's actually a study done by Rutgers University that basically show that that single mindedness
that you get, that focus that you get on that one person when you're really in love is due
to that increased level of dopamine, which is the same chemical that also helps people
study and helps you stay focused when you're reading or preparing for a test.
2.
Number two.
Number two is that it's not all about sex.
When a guy is in love, sex actually becomes secondary.
And a recent study actually found that 64% of men who are in love disagreed with the
following statement: sex is the most important part of my relationship with my partner.
So, yes, sex is secondary when you're in love.
3.
Number three.
Number three is that you are constantly on his mind.
When you're in love you just can't seem to stop thinking about that person, they're just
running through your mind.
He's going to be texting you a lot, maybe even too much.
He's going to be wanting to see you more, he's going to want to be around you because
he wants to feel that rush of chemicals that occur when he's around you.
And he'll find any reason to be around you as much as possible.
4.
Number four.
Number four is that he focuses on your positive traits and he's blinded by some of those more
negative traits that you might have.
5.
Number five.
Number five is that his behavior could actually become a little bit erratic at times because,
you know what?
Love can lead to emotional and physiological instability.
He's energized by you at some times, then he's exhausted other times.
And that's what love will sometimes do to a man and that's because, once again, all
of the love chemicals in the brain are controlling his every move and is pulling him in a lot
of different directions.
6.
Number six.
Number six is that he makes you a priority.
We as humans either subconsciously or certainly consciously are going to prioritize people
by how much we love them and how much we want to spend that time with them.
7.
Number seven.
Number seven is that he's going want exclusivity with you.
When a man truly loves a woman and when he really is truly in love with her, he's not
going to want to risk that woman going out there and potentially meeting another guy.
He's going to want her all to himself and he understands that that exclusivity is the
only way to make that happen.
8.
Number eight.
Number eight is that he tells you that he's in love with you.
And I know trust can be really hard sometimes, it can be hard to trust someone especially
if in the past you've been burned or someone has really hurt you.
But if a guy... if a guy is sharing his love with you, if he's opening up in that way and
telling you that he loves you, you know what, sometimes you've just going to take that leap
of faith and just believe him when he says it.
9.
Number nine.
Number nine is that you are also in love with him.
I personally don't believe that true love, true love, can really exist without reciprocation.
If you make it clear that you're not in love with him for whatever reason but he keeps
displaying his love to you for months, even years, then that is not love.
That is infatuation.
And quite frankly, this works on the other side of the spectrum.
If you think that you're in love with a guy who's not in love with you, then it's not
really love.
It's infatuation.
Love is reciprocal and if he's not giving you that love in return, move on.
It's not worth your time.
Find someone who will reciprocate.
10.
Final one.
The last one is that he's becoming just a little bit more emotionally dependent on you.
And if you're watching this video right now and it's clear that you are ready for that
emotional connection, you're ready to find that love in your life, then I have some really,
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