What's going on? I'm here with my
friend Kayla Wild. You might know her as
@blondejew from Instagram. And if
you don't, you should check out her
Instagram. I'm going to put a link to
that in the description below. Kayla
as she already knows, I'm having her on
today to talk about gold diggers because
she's got a few friends who have you
know been a gold digger from time to time.
May have you used some guys for their
money and I don't want that for you and
I want you to be able to spot that.
Kayla, thanks for doing this. Yeah.
Well, let's start with this. Have you
ever been a gold digger? Have you ever dated a
guy just for his money? Umm, I would say no
because I typically tend to have more
money than the guys I date.
Okay so guys are dating you to go for
your money. Maybe. I mean yeah there might be like
certain little tricks that they
talk to me about. Something like they
might have the guy that they're seeing
pick them up at their house
rather than uber there, so that they can
see what kind of car they're driving. Oh my god.
Sneaky stuff like that. That makes me sick.
Okay, what else? Maybe they'll like
try to you know talk about how much
money the guy has or even like what clothes
he's wearing. If they're like designer
clothes or maybe a designer watch or
something like that. So they're like really
in tune with what the guy has, what he's
wearing, what he's driving and some of
those more superficial things.
So if a guy would go and pick
up a girl who's a gold digger and he was
driving like a shitty car she'd be
like no I'm out. I mean she might go on
that one date but you'd probably never hear
from her again. I hope there's some
gold digger women watching right now.
And if you are, you're evil. Ok another
one that is pretty obvious but still
something you should be paying attention
to is if a girl never offers to split
for a meal or a drink. Never offers to
pay for anything. I think that's rude in
general, like I don't know why a girl
wouldn't even
offer. I like it when I'm on a date
with a girl and she even offers like on
a first date you know I'm gonna pay and
I want to be the gentleman and do
something like that. But when they don't
even offer it's either rude or just a sign
that they might be a gold digger. Absolutely.
Another one I think is a girl won't give
the guy a chance or go on a date with
him unless she has some kind of like
inkling or knows that the guy has money.
So you know whether she met the guy on
one of those dating apps or it's like a
sugar daddy app where she knows a guy
probably has money or if you're just
meeting a girl in person and she's not
seeing that you're wearing nice clothes
or she doesn't meet you somewhere maybe
fancy or doesn't have an idea that
you are or come from money, then
she's probably not going on a date
with you because she's looking for
those guys where she knows or has an
idea that hey he can be a guy that can pay for her.
Have you ever had guys that has offered
to pay or buy things for you like things
that would be of not just to purchase
and something that isn't like a nice
thing to do because you guys have been dating
for six months. You ever have a situation like
that? Yeah absolutely. I think guys tend to
do that pretty frequently, especially
guys that are trying to show off their
money. They'll offer to buy you some
extravagant handbag or like some jewelry
and I always say no because I mean I'm
not dating a guy for his money but I
think a telltale sign that a girl is
is if she accepts those gifts readily.
If she's really eager to get that
handbag by your offering or she's asking
you to buy her jewellery and you just
met her or you know she's mad that
you're not buying her some super lavish
expensive gift for her birthday that's
just over the top that's a pretty good
sign that she's in it for the money.
Well let's not test that out. I don't
want guys to be like "I'll offer her
a Shenal handbag." She might take it. Be careful.
She might take it even though she's not a gold digger.
She's like okay I'll that $5,000 purse.
No problem right? Alright Kayla
what's another one? Maybe like if a girl
is really eager to go over to your
place and she really wants to see where
you live and check out your spot
but she's like not interested in
sleeping with you and she doesn't really
want to have sex with you there.
She's like eager, she's like oh let's see
your place and you're thinking, I'm about to
get lucky but then she
comes over and she sees your place and
maybe it's not as nice as she wanted to
be and then she doesn't sleep with you.
It's like showing that eagerness
but then all of a sudden
she takes a step back. I can
understand that actually happening if
you take a girl and you don't know if she's a
gold digger yet and you have her come
over to your place and your
place is a shithole then I can
understand why she wouldn't sleep with you.
But if you're getting these signs that maybe
she's a gold digger, maybe she's with you
for your money or something like that
and she doesn't sleep with you but she's eager to
come to your place. She wants to see where you
live. She wants to see your spot.
She wants to see your lifestyle. I think another one
is that you're spending time with the
girl and you guys are hanging out,
going on dates, you're getting
know nice dinners things like that but
she never really is trying to get to
know you. Like you don't ever feel like there's
this connection. You almost feel like
there's some sort of like wall between
you and the girl. Like she never asks you
about you. Right exactly.
It's just very one-sided so I think that
would be a sign also. What are some
signs of a girl who is high maintenance?
Because I would imagine that any kind of
gold digger is going to be high
maintenance. What do you think?
Gold diggers will probably be like a
little bit flashy. They like to dress
to the nines, they like to have their big
heels on and everything's perfect and
they tend to
show off their money,
show off their gifts and be a
little bit flashy. Spend like one
and a half hours getting ready. Well I do
that and I'm not a gold digger.
For most girls, what the average getting ready time?
Probably between an
hour to two hours. I hope I'm not
the only one. Without shower time by the
way. That's just completely...I shower at night. Cool.
That was awesome great information.
I'm sorry to hear some of your friends are gold
diggers. I'm glad that you're not. That's a
good thing. If you guys want to check out
more of Kayla, you can check her out
at blonde jew. I'm going to put that in the
description below and you can check her
out. Thanks Kayla. Thank you for having me.