In a while,
When trying
to coordinate a female
that a daily penguin offers a single pebble to win the heart of the girl he likes.If the female
accepts, the two penguins will proceed to mate
and spend the rest of their lives together if only
it was that easy for humans.
Since humans are much more complex creatures, the way that
we act when we like someone is much different.But
just as we've decoded the courtship process for that daily penguins.
We've made huge progress towards figuring out
what makes girls attracted to guys and vice versa.
What you're about to learn is a fundamental truth
that can help you to understand how to make beautiful girls attracted to you.
I remember growing up, there was a girl that i had a crush on.
And then later, another, and another.The problem
was that these girls didn't seemed interested in me.
But they always seemed the most interested in the guys who showed
zero interest in them. At the time, i had a handful of girls
who chased me and made it really obvious that they liked me.
But like the girls i had a crush on,
i was never really interested in them the same way that they were interested in me.
I only wanted the girls to didn't seemed to want me.
Now the reason why i could never seem to win these girls over,
was because i simply didn't understand
girls and what makes them attracted to a guy.
Many of my guy friends had better luck but it really was just luck.
Because they didn't really know what they were doing either.
It was only once i understood this fundamental truth.
That things started to change dramatically for me.
It all started with this girl that i met in a gym one day.
When i first started working out, in going to the gym.
It was the one place that i could go to
feel throughly confident.All of the confidence that i have to
today in other areas to my life can be traced directly back to the gym and that confidence that i gained
while improving myself in that place.When i was in the gym,
I could just be myself, relaxed and feel
comfortable around anyone.After a year or so i
met this beautiful girl there and without even trying too hard,
i could make her laugh and feel good,
most of the time that i was around her.Now even though she was good-
looking i wasn't interested in her because i
already had a girlfriend at that time.But what i found was that
overtime she started to really chase me, so
as you can imagine, it was time to switch gyms and go undercover.
I changed my phone number, my address and i even
stopped wearing my favourite pair of red sneakers actually i'm just kidding.
I really just switched to a different gym after taking some time to
think about why this girl started to chase me, i realised
that it was because of how i made her feel. Today
we have studies that actually prove that women
are naturally more emotional creatures than men.
And when u think about it, they kinda have to be, because they bring babies into
this world.
And without a special radar to detect emotions,
they would have trouble caring for their own children.
Think about this, when a feminine girl sits down to watch TV. She turns on things like team mom or the bachelor, some older women watch sole proprietor.Girls
watch these TV shows because they stimulate emotions.
When a guy turns on the TV he watches things like sports,
cars or if he's a little
nerdy he might even watch The Discovery Channel. Girls want
and crave emotional stimulation. But most importantly
they just want to feel good emotions.
Studies even show that the more emotional a situation is,
The more likely a girl is remembered.
This is why i recommended in the earlier videos that, if you
want a girl to remember her experience with you do something
scary and exciting with her. Some of the most charming guys,
the ones who do exceptionally well around any
girl and almost any situation are the guys who know
how to make girls feel good emotionally. Unfortunately,
it isn't always easy to do this, in fact most
girls are extremely sensitive in something as simple as the
wrong combination of words,
can set off a storm of emotions and whenever possible,
you do not want to be on the receiving end on that storm if you don't have to be.
Now, the easiest way to stimulate a
girl's emotions the right way, is to
simply be positive and to make her laugh, to do this affectively though,
you need to be comfortable around them so if you still have trouble with
this, work on that first. It is always
best to play to your strengths and find someone who you feel most
comfortable when talking to girls.So the fundamental truth
that i learned about attraction while at the gym,
is that girls respond most to how you make them feel.
And the more positive emotions you can make them feel
while around you, the more they will associate those positive
feelings with you.And the more attracted
to you they will become, in a perfect world, it'll be great
if attracting a beautiful girl was as simple and straightforward
as offering her a pebble, like the penguin.But for humans,
it just doesn't work like that, and with that said, till next time.
Thanks for watching!