What's up, gentlemen.
Welcome to another episode of Mantelligence.
In today's episode, we're teaching you how to get a girl to chase you
and make her crazy for you.
In a good way, of course.
Today's episode is inspired by Teachingmenfashion's video,
where he shared some tips for men to get the ideal body that drives women crazy.
But we know you're more than just your physical appearance,
so we're adding on to the list.
By the end of this video, we're also sharing first-date tips all men
should do because first impression matters.
If you want to know how to get a girl to like you, keep watching.
5.
Self Verification Theory Every character in every romantic movie almost
always falls in love with the person who makes letting their guard down feel easy.
And isn’t that true in real life too?
Want to know a trick to get a girl to chase you?
Here's one of the most effective ways to make her crazy for you:
The self-verification theory is a social psychological theory based on
the premise that people have a powerful desire to confirm and thus
stabilize their firmly held self-views.
To put it simply, people want others to see them as they see themselves.
In dating, self-verification theory suggests that we
seek relationship partners who view us as we view ourselves.
Another social psychological theory called the self-enhancement theory suggests
that we seek partners who view us as favorably as possible.
In one experiment, researchers tested the effects of these types
of feedback from potential romantic partners on attraction.
They found that both self-verifying and self-enhancing feedback
affect romantic attraction.
So if you're wondering how to make a girl want you and get her addicted to you,
the key is to validate her self-view.
If a woman views herself as strong and independent, make it known that you see her in that light
too.
This confirmation will assert her self-worth.
She'll also be able to be herself around you, she will feel more positive towards you, and
she will be comfortable in your company.
And aren't we naturally inclined to hang out more with people we're comfortable with?
Want to know more tricks to get a girl to chase you?
Check out this video.
4.
Build up the Tension Ever heard of the phrase "hunger is the best
sauce"?
Well, if you want to make a girl crazy for you and get her addicted to you,
you have to learn how to tease her and make her crave you.
Licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist Kate Balestrieri
defines sexual tension as a normal and often electric feeling that can arise between people
who want to be physically intimate with each other but can't act on it at the moment,
either due to relational or environmental context.
In dating, gradually building up sexual tension with a girl you like is an
effective flirting strategy and one of the best
ways to make her crazy for you.
Of course, this doesn’t mean being aggressive and bulldozing your way into getting a girl
to like you.
It has to be mutual.
Assuming that it already is, how exactly do you build sexual tension with
a woman and make her crazy for you?
Dating consultant Nick Notas advises practicing confident restraint.
That means you shouldn't hesitate to flirt with a woman you're interested in.
But you should also try to be conscious of her comfort.
Sex expert Marla Stewart also recommends delaying any form of physical intimacy
but instead flirt and seduce them.
She also suggests building anticipation by teasing your
partner for one week with actions that appeal to them before giving in to full-blown l
lovemaking.
You can also try sending each other steamy texts.
That works too.
Want to learn more tricks to make a girl crazy for you?
Check out this video.
3.
I See You Everybody wants to feel seen, heard, and valued.
Unless, of course, you're a fugitive or hermit..
If you want to know how to attract a girl, one of the best ways to make her crazy and
fall in love with you is to indulge her through her love language.
Marriage counselor Gary Chapman, developed the concept of love
languages in his book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That
Lasts.
The five love languages are words of affirmation, quality time, acts of
service, gift-giving, and physical touch.
People with "words of affirmation" as a love language appreciate compliments
and words of affection and encouragement.
People with "quality time" as their love language feels most loved
when you make time for them.
People with "acts of service" as a love language loves it when their partners
do things for them, such as cooking for them, driving them to
work, or helping them out with errands.
People with gift-giving as a love language love receiving sentimental gifts.
Lastly, people with physical touch as a love language
loves being kissed, hugged, and touched.
Do you want to know why speaking someone's love language works?
Because it's a great way to spark romance and get to know each other all over again.
Speaking a woman's love language is the most genuine way to show your love
and the easiest way to get her addicted to you.
Want to learn how to get a girlfriend and make her fall in love with you?
Watch this video.
We have two more items on this list of ways to make her crazy for you.
But before we continue, I want to remind you that by the end of this video,
we're sharing first-date tips all men should do because first impression matters.
If you're new to dating and wondering how to boost your A-game, this one's for you.
2. Make Yourself the Price You know how girls would test guys during?
What if I tell you that two can play at that game.
If you want to get her addicted to you, you got to make yourself the price.
I mean, you're valuable too.
You got to let her know that.
A team of researchers from the University of Rochester and the Israeli-based
Interdisciplinary Center Herzliya examined the
effects of playing hard to get, a mating strategy that is likely to instill a certain degree
of uncertainty.
A new study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships
shows that making the chase harder increases a potential mate’s desirability.
They discovered that immediately reciprocating another person's
interest may not be the smartest strategy for attracting mates.
According to Birnbaum, people who are too easy to attract
may be perceived as more desperate.
And that makes them seem less valuable and appealing than those who do not make their
romantic interest apparent right away.
So if you want to get girls to chase you, create situations where she has to do
the chasing instead.
Even if you are, don't be too eager to please her.
One thing you can do is ask her qualifying questions.
Asking her things like, "what's something about you I'd never know
just by looking?"
or "what kind of person are you in a relationship
with?" will make her want to answer those questions in a way that will make you see
her in a positive light.
1.
Bomb Lip Action Last but not least, if you want to make her
crazy for you, you got to give her the best kiss of her life-
the hot and passionate kind.
In a survey of 695 adults, researchers asked each participant to describe
the different types of kisses that they have had, starting with their first kiss.
They found that the best kisses are remembered to have taken place
with one's current partner (47%) for many, or else an earlier partner (34%)
or a crush (19%).
And what made it best was passion (35%), feeling in love (23%),
anticipation or surprise (33%), or the thrill of who it was (16%)
rather than the technicalities of a good kiss (12%), such as amazing lip action or
perfect pressure and coordination.
I don't know about you, but I love a good kiss.
If you're wondering how to make her chase you, you better start practicing your kisses.
Now that you know all the ways to make her crazy for you,
it's time you learn some do's and don'ts during a first date.
First of all, chill.
According to psychologist Tracy Thomas, giddiness often comes across as anxiety,
and you send a message that you're uncomfortable.
And energy is contagious, so you probably know what will happen next.
Second, don't shy away from compliments but do it with finesse.
Stick to more neutral compliments, like "you look nice tonight."
You can make it more specific with comments like, "I like that necklace you have on."
It's sweet, and it shows you're attentive.
Third, ask good questions and listen to your date's answers.
According to licensed sex therapist Moushumi Ghose,
what will impress your date more is seeing that you're genuinely interested
in hearing about them.
Active listening goes a long way.
Fourth, read the signals to decide if you should kiss
or hug at the end of your date.
A date who lingers outside in a parking lot or on a driveway is likely waiting to be kissed.
Lastly, follow up after the date.
You don't have to wait three days.
Do you know more ways to make her crazy for you?
Share your answers on the comment section below.
We hope you enjoyed this list of ways to make her crazy for you.
Want to know more tricks to get a girl to chase you?
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