You see it in TV shows all the time, the guy or girl falling for their best friend.
As you watch each episode and their love grows for another, you root for their story to bloom
until they actually become a couple.
But, what happens when you find yourself in the exact same situation?
Here are the 7 stages of falling in love with your best friend.
1. The deep conversations.
There’s a reason why they’re your best friend right? You can tell them just about
anything.
But now as you unravel your next secret, feelings and vulnerability, you’re wondering if they’d
be more than just good best friend material. After all, no one understands you as much as
they do.
2. Accidental flirting.
Whether they let you lean on their shoulder for a good cry or surprise you with your favorite
candy on your bad days, you’re wondering if they’re just being nice.
I mean, isn’t there a fine line between friendliness and flirting?
Now you’re trying to figure out if these are hints that they might be interested in
you.
3.The reminders.
Both of you hang out all the time so when people start commenting on your Facebook or
Instagram asking what’s going on between the two of you, it might start to annoy you.
But when you see something your friend will love like a movie or a book, you’ll start
to think of them more often and wish you were more than just friends.
Maybe people’s comments are not off anymore.
4. The green monster.
Do you get jealous easily when your best friend starts going on date nights or meets new faces
at the bar, you can’t help but feel possessive?
It might be hard for you to feel happy when you see them with other people.
5. The truth.
So, you finally come to terms with your feelings, there’s no way of denying how you feel about
your best friend.
How do you explain the nights you couldn’t sleep because they were on your mind or why
you always feel the sudden urge to drop all your initial plans just to hang out with them?
6. The confession.
Uh, congratulations the two of you finally managed to realize that you like each other
more than just friends.
But, now the both of you are wondering if this will jeopardize your friendship that
years or months to build, it’s awkward because you’re not sure which direction to take.
7. The what - if’s.
This is the final stage that best friends enter when they finalize their decision together.
Depending on the circumstances like timing, life goals and future relocations, some people
agree that it would be best if they just remained friends and that’s okay.
You met them for a reason and the connection you built will always be treasured.
Meanwhile, others take the exciting risk and finally ask each other out, that could be
you.
But whatever your outcome is, know that best friends are hard to come by.
Cherish all the memories you’ve made and always be honest with your feelings.
I love my best friends and I hope you love yours too, good luck.
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