Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on
17 things women only do with the men they
love. In all honesty there's a big difference between knowing if a girl
likes you and knowing if a girl loves you. And the
truth is knowing if she loves you is pretty
critical, right? Can you imagine how heartbreaking it would be to think she
loves you when she doesn't or to think that she doesn't love you
when she really does? The truth is if that happens she's just
going to move on because she's heartbroken.
So whether you have someone special in mind or you just want to be prepared for
the future being able to tell if she loves you
is going to help you avoid heartbreak no matter how you look at it. So if you want
to make sure you avoid that heartbreak make sure you watch to
the end. Now before we dive in if this is your first time watching,
welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. I teach
you how to stop wasting your time and your money
on dead-end relationships by learning the skills you need to just
get the girl. So be sure to subscribe, ring that notification bell,
give me a big thumbs up, and let's get started. Now before I dive in
and start giving you the specific list
of things women do when they love you we need to set up some guidelines, okay?
I'm going to assume as I start this that you already know what toxic women
are. The truth is toxic women will actually do these things
to use you, to be perfectly honest with you. So it's very very important
you know how to identify toxic women, you know what they are.
So if you haven't yet seen this video and this video
be sure to check out the link in the description below. Give them a watch, they
will save you so much heartache. Because again toxic
women will do these things just to use you.
So I'm going to assume going into this you already know what toxic women are,
you already know she's not toxic. Sound good? And the last thing I want to
mention is there is a huge difference between
knowing if a girl likes you and knowing if a girl loves
you. Liking you is obviously the first step
and that's very very important to know where loving you is obviously much much
deeper. So if you're wondering how to know if she
likes you be sure to check out this video and this
video and I'll put some links to some others in the description below
as well. And with that let's dive in. So the first thing we're going to talk
about that women only do when they love you
is that she wants you to meet her family and spend a lot of time with them.
Our families, usually, are really
important to us and that's like our safe place. And so if
she wants you involved with her family it's because
the people who mean the most to her, she wants them to know you,
because you mean so much to her, and she wants you to know them because
they mean so much to her. So
if she wants the most important people in her life to meet each other
that's because you're one of the most important people in her life. Now one
thing I want to mention about this and everything else that is to come is
you need to make sure as we're going through this list you
are looking for 80 to 90 percent of the things I'm going to be sharing with you.
Each woman is a little bit different. Some women are a little more open about
certain things than others which is why you can't just count on one
sign. For instance some guys will say "yes! I met her mom, she's in love with me" even
if she has nothing else on the list of things I'm going to be
sharing with you. So just make sure you're looking for as many signs as
possible that she loves you otherwise you're
going to end up rejected and heartbroken. So yes, one of
the main things she will do is she will want you to meet her family.
Just be careful you don't just see that and automatically assume that she loves
you. Sound good? Number two is that she keeps
dating you for a long time. One of the best ways to know that
she loves you is that she wants to date you long term.
So many people the reason they end up being heartbroken is because they just
rush in and they just "oh hey, this is fabulous.
We've been on like three dates and she loves me." No,
she doesn't love you, she doesn't know you well enough. She probably
likes you but you have to actually know someone to a certain level before you
can actually be in love with them. And so if
she dates you for a long time, no I'm not
talking years and years, but if she actually dates you
for a long time well yeah she's definitely interested
and definitely wants you to be a part of her life
and loves you. So if you want to feel confident that she loves you
make sure you are dating her for a long period of time. Number three is that she
confides in you. She tells you things that are kind of
vulnerable and that she wouldn't just share with
anyone. That shows us a huge level of trust. And
when we are in love with someone that's
something we want from them, is being able to confide in them.
So if you notice that she tends to confide in you about a lot of things
that's a huge sign because that is something women do with the man
they love. Real fast before we keep going I want to hear from you in the comments.
Should I make more videos on how to get a woman to fall in love with you
and signs that she is in love with you? If I should be sure to comment "YES!" and
let me know. Sign number four is that she rather
be with you than with her friends. Now obviously she needs to be able to
spend some time with her friends, that's just normal and healthy.
But if you notice that sometimes she'll put off things she could be doing with
other people to spend time with you, whoa, that speaks
volumes for how she feels about you. Number five
is that she feels safe enough with you to not always
be super done up. So if you notice that sometimes
she's comfortable not having her hair done perfectly, maybe wearing
sweatpants or working the yard type clothes or not
having makeup on all the time that can be a huge sign that it's because she
trusts you and she feels safe with you. Now obviously you don't want to take
this to the extreme. If she loves you she also wants to look pretty for you.
So if you notice that she like never looks nice for you
that's actually a sign of a toxic woman.
But we're all human, right? We don't always look our best
and so if she feels safe with you to sometimes look like a hot mess
that is a really good sign that she loves you, she feels safe with you. Now
real fast before we get to number six I wanted to stop and answer a question I
know you are going to have. Okay, so how do you get a woman to fall
in love with you? And how do you keep her in love
with you and keep that going? This is a fabulous
question because as I mentioned just because she likes you doesn't mean
she loves you but that's the first step and you want it to move into that.
I actually just created a free masterclass
that teaches you exactly how to get women to fall in love with you and it
gives you a solid game plan. Here's the reality: if you do
not have a good game plan you're never going to get a woman to
fall in love with you. You just aren't, that's not how it works. But when you
have a game plan, a really good game plan, then getting her
to fall in love with you is simple and easy and very very natural. You're
incredibly irresistible to her. So especially if you feel like
relationships are a lot of hard work then you need a good
game plan. So check out the link in the description below. I will also pin it in
the comments. I teach you the same five
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girlfriends. And obviously girlfriend is the first step
and that's how you get her to fall in love with you.
So check out that link right now. Again it's a totally free masterclass.
The sixth thing women do only with the men they love
is that they stop dating other men. If you start noticing she's
only dating you well that's because she cares about you. If
she's keeping her options open, if she's still looking for other
men, if she still has other people she's flirting with,
she's not in love with you. But if you are exclusive with her,
again especially if you've been dating her for a while, well then yeah
she's in love with you. A lot of men will assume "oh she totally loves me even
though there's other men in her life." No. If there are other men in her life
then she doesn't love you. She may be interested but she
doesn't love you. So if you notice that she's exclusive
with you and you alone and she doesn't have eyes for everybody else
well then yeah it's because she loves you. Number seven is that she plans her
future with you in it. Do you ever notice that
when she talks to you it just kind of sounds like
you're always going to be a part of her life? If she's planning her future with
you in it it's because she wants you in it. Number eight is that she actually
wants to meet your family and wants to spend time with your family.
Just like she wants the most important people in her life to know you
she also wants to know the most important people in your life.
Number nine is she wants to tell you everything. I already mentioned that
she'll confide in you and tell you some things
that are kind of vulnerable or really personal, things like that.
But in addition to that when a woman's in love with a guy
she thinks about you all the time and she just always wants to talk
to you. She wants to tell you everything. Big
things, small things, she just wants to spend time
with you and really connect with you. Number ten
is that she actually wants to know your thoughts and your opinions on things. If
you notice she asks for your advice and for your input that's because
she really respects you and really cares about your feelings and
how you think about things because she cares about you. Number 11 is that
she's very aware of your faults and your
weaknesses. Because we all have them, right? She's
very aware of them and she's okay with it. She
understands that you are not perfect and it doesn't bother her and she's not
trying to change you. She just cares about you and likes you
for you because ultimately she loves you for you.
Honestly this is one of the best signs of a really
really good relationship. Someone who just totally gets that you're human
and they absolutely adore you for it anyways.
This is actually the power of knowing how to get a girlfriend the right way.
When you set your relationship up right because you have the right game plan
then you have a crazy happy relationship. Number 12
is that she knows the things that are important to you
and she remembers them and makes an extra effort
in that area. If she is taking the time to remember
things that are important to you, that's huge, that's because you
really matter to her. Number 13 is that she lets people know you are a couple.
I can't tell you how many men have told me "yeah I'm really in love with her and
I really think she cares about me too but she doesn't tell people we're a
couple." If she needs to hide that you're a couple it's because she does not love
you at all. She is sadly using you.
If instead she can't wait to tell people you're a couple and she's excited to
share that with people it's because she's crazy about you.
14 is that she can compromise with you and she is willing to compromise with
you. Relationships in general just require a
certain amount of compromising. And so if she feels like this
relationship is worth compromising in it's because she sincerely cares about
you. 15 is that she makes you a priority. If you
don't feel like you're a priority in her life well then it's probably because
she's not in love with you. But if she sets things aside and
rearranges her schedule and makes sure you are always a priority
then yes she definitely cares about you. Sign
number 16 is that she involves you in like family
traditions and things that are really important to her. Let's face it, if you
think there's a possibility you're going to
break up with someone you really don't want them around
for a special event or occasion or tradition because
that's going to leave kind of some awkward memories in the future.
But if instead she wants you to be a part of that and wants you to be a part
of things that are really important and special to
her well yeah it's because she sees you in her future and she truly
cares about you. Sign number 17 is that she tells you.
This sounds obvious but it's not obvious to everyone. If she tells you she loves
you that's a huge sign that she does in fact
care about you because that's not something you just
throw around for the most part. Again I'm not talking about toxic women
like I mentioned at the start. But if she actually goes out of her way
to tell you things about how she cares about you
then that's huge. So if she tells you she loves you,
believe her. Do not ignore that. And there you have it,
17 things women only do with the men they love. As I mentioned before if
you're interested in getting a woman to fall in love with
you and really just making sure your relationship starts out on the right
foot, no matter what stage of the relationship
you're at right now, make sure you watch that free
masterclass. You will know what mistakes to totally avoid
and you will have a solid game plan to be able to get your ideal
girlfriend, be able to get her to fall in love with
you and stay crazy in love with you. There's a link in the description below
and a link in the pinned comment. Thank you so much for watching
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