What are those 10 things that tell a person lacks class? Is it the money they have? Is it their
status? Is it where they're from? Oh no ladies, it's deeper than that and we're gonna go through
the true 10 reasons that show a person likes any form of class. My dear elegant ladies, welcome
back to a new video. Now let's dive straight into point number one. People with no class air their
dirty laundry in public. And what is actually funny is that right now we have this massive old
money obsession online, where old money is really being put on a pedestal, and people are almost
looking at them some form of ideal, some form of gods. However when we scrape under the surface, we
can see that old money is just like you and me and nothing special, nothing better. And here I think
we have such a good example that happened quite recently. Look at Prince Harry, you can't get more
old money than that ladies. And look what lack of class that person carries himself with. His
recent shenanigans, if we can call it that, was spilling the tea and more about his own family but
also sharing details that are quite inappropriate to share to the public in general. My penis was
oscillating between extremely sensitive and borderline traumatised. Everything from his
genitalia to other Royal members and sometimes he passes quite degrading comments. I don't really
want to go deep on the subject with Prince Harry all I want to say is that there is a difference
between speaking your truth being vulnerable sharing your story versus this massive affair,
this gossip thing that now everybody worldwide are talking about you see the difference. And
what I think Prince Harry has done in this case is to really just vomit out a bunch of things
about people that he knows he knows they're not going to go in there and defend themselves, so he
has all access to just say whatever he wants to say without any form of fight back. Don't forget
there's always two sides of the story. Number two. People who lack class are truly obsessed
with looking or appearing rich. Now believe it or not there are actually people out there who
want to level up in life and how can I do so in a way where I don't stick out like a sore thumb?
I don't come from money but I do want to to level up my life and I do want to improve and I do want
to understand that whole social culture and that dynamic. So now ladies on this channel we are not
here to pretend that we are rich we're not here to make people believe that we're something we're
not but I believe everybody should have the right to certain tools that only certain people in our
society have access to and that's ladies what I do on this channel. If you want to learn more about
that by the way I have created a free workshop for you it's called The Fabulous Future Formula
where I spill the secrets on how you can level up regardless of your background or financial status
and achieve your dream life. Now if you go to fabulousfutureformula.com you can register free
of charge for this workshop, but make sure you do that soon because this workshop is only here
temporarily and soon going to disappear. People who lack class are people who are really faking to
be rich. People who are just imposters pretending. Think Anna Delvey as an example. You're faking it
on social media, you're buying let's say fake bags, why do people go to these great lengths?
But I truly believe this class is when you are so confident in yourself that you don't really
care to impress anyone because in your own self you know that I am good enough just the way I am.
Number three, name dropping. Status bragging and any form of showing off. I understand you want to
be liked by people but you're not going to be liked by people by trying too hard to impress
them. Actually my advice would be try not to impress them at all. Now true confidence is
knowing that regardless if let's say you are classy or you had a not so classy background,
that you have what it takes to be loved, to be appreciated and to be desired by the people you
meet. You don't have to make all that effort to be liked. You also don't have to rely on these
external validation tactics to become likeable because actually you and your imperfections will
be appreciated if you just stay true to yourself. Let's say you have this really strong sense that
you want your co-worker that you hate at work to to see you on Instagram, on this beautiful
picture, on a beach in Maldives. Why do you think that is important for you? Showing off is always
tied to people's insecurities. You lack class if you are a fake friend. We are more connected
than ever to each other. We have all these apps and access to meet new people and socialize yet
I think many of you can agree that we probably have never felt more lonely than ever before and
let me be honest with you I must say I think it's really difficult to meet genuine people these days
it is normal that whatever relationship we have us as human beings we have to feel like there's
something in it for us. But the problem is when people are in it for the wrong reasons let's
say they're not interested in your company or they're not even interested in you as a person,
they're only interested in whatever way they can benefit of you or whatever you can do
for them. It's not so much the kind of genuine spiritual, connection type of thing, it's really
more transactional. But women with true class they don't behave in such way because they are honest
they are genuine because they have more moral than that. People with class do respect other
people's boundaries and I really need to reinforce this and I also need to remind you ladies who are
working on your personal boundaries that, let's say you don't want to speak on the subject. You
don't have to. If another person is pushing it by saying oh come on tell me I want to know, you have
the right to just leave it. You know when someone buys a new piece of clothing it's overstepping
boundaries is starting to ask immediately how much that item cost where is it from etc. There
is no need for you to start investigating there's actually no need to be nosy and try to understand.
It's not really any of your business unless the person really wants to share that with you people
with true class support people's embarrassments embarrassing situations have happen all the time
and they happen to all of us. However people with true class they really have real empathy toward
these situations and those kind of actions really do speak louder than words. There is actually this
urban legend of Queen Victoria. As the story goes, Queen Victoria was hosting a guest from a foreign
country at the end of the meal finger. Bowls of water were passed around so that everyone could
clean their hands. The guest of honour had never seen such a thing so he lifted it to his mouth
and drank it. Stunned silence passed through the room until the queen raised her finger bowl to her
mouth and drank, and then all the guests followed suit. Now ladies this is my kind of people. People
who have empathy and understanding for other people and of course understanding for innocent
wrong doings. Now imagine if everyone out there could be like Queen Victoria. Instead we have
a lot of people out there with big egos who are very excited of boosting themselves up and calling
out people left right and centre and also just stepping on other people just so that they can
elevate themselves and look better in the eye of others. Now Queen Victoria didn't have that kind
of ego, and shows true class. People with lack of class treat service people like servants. I
have a problem with the fact that there's no air in here and I'm gonna die. Open the door now. We
all know that you should say thank you to service staff that you should never let's say whistle at
a restaurant to ask the waiter to come to your table. This is incredibly taboo and I think most
people at this point know about this, however there are still a lot of dismissive type of
treatment around, as if the service person is some form of slave or I don't know low-level servant to
them, maybe it's about cleaning, maybe it's about serving food, or being a butler, or beach boy,
or driver assistant, secretary, nanny ,dog walker, etc. It doesn't matter. What matters is that
you treat everybody with respect. You don't treat like someone is beneath you. Let's say
if you are an employer, you need to set certain boundaries. If you have staff around you and so
on. Setting boundaries can be done firmly and with kindness and always with appreciation and never
dismissing or like someone is worth less than you let's say. That shows lack of class. That
also shows lack of education tell you the truth. People who lack class, lack compassion. To have
class you're always considerate of other people. It doesn't mean that you now have to overstep
your boundaries, you have to ignore yourself and ignore your needs and always put everyone first.
Compassion is everything and if you have a lot of compassion you have a lot of class. People who
lack class are people who are really stingy even if they have the funds. When a person has funds,
but they're not generous, I personally think that it's not about how much you have,
what you have but it's really about that you're open to share what you have with other people.
Of course you need to be realistic and keep some for yourself but let me know in the comments what
you think. There are people like that. Now I know I said no bragging but can I please just brag a
little bit with my new addition to the family, and actually point number 10 is that people with class
are always kind to animals. So here's Teddy and he is my little love, so I hope all of you enjoyed
today's video. Teddy would love if you could subscribe to this channel before you head off
but you know what the next video called 10 Things I tell you got class you're actually gonna learn
more on this subject on how you can be a lady with your class I will see you in that video.