all right now Paul when she gets out here yeah I don't want you to be embarrassed if you have
anything you'd like to say by all means say it I can't be embarrassed about anything don't be
embarrassed about it there's nothing you can say no because she knows knows everything and
she just don't care okay great yeah our next guest is considered Canada's most recognized
sex expert she hosts a popular television program on the oxygen the network entitled Talk Sex with
Sue Johansen here she is ladies and gentlemen Sue Johansen pleasure to meet you nice to talk to you
nice to talk to you and if things go well I can get you a sweater uh I just hope she doesn't drop
a stitch let me tell you you tell me a little bit about yourself and how this all began and
and why you're here tonight you know that's the most common question I get what is a nice lady
like you doing in this business right you know you'd think I was out peddling something on the
Main Street no but I think it's invaluable and I think that it's good that it is someone like you
um yes you know that this is one time age gives you a real bonus because you
have credibility I'm not seen as cute and uh Bodacious 28a won't make it dear
whoa um but you you started out in um in in nursing you were a healthcare worker I'm a nurse
yeah and how did you get to this specific area by having kids and realizing that you know I knew my
kids were born 10 months apart does that give you a clue oh my gosh Long Cold Winters in Canada in
canara yes yes there were and nothing else to do so uh but I realized I knew diddly squat
whole thing oh but now now tell me on on your radio your Sunday night radio talk show in in
Canada yes uh you get calls from all across North America probably yes and what are people talking
about what do they want to know what are they worried about what are they concerned about
are there any really new questions about sex oh yeah there are quite a few new ones
um there's a pre but the old preoccupation with penis size you know bigger is better and if
you're going to be a good lover you're going to have a 12 inch easy easy hahaha oh my God
that's uh let's go back to the Al Jazeera Network and see if we got anybody that's
uh okay all right fine that's nobody there yet I'm all there uh well what about that what do uh
an album when when that question comes up what do you how do you reply but you see
what people don't realize is that penis size does not matter because the top
two-thirds of the vagina has no nerve endings there's nobody home up there
the bottom one serve that's where the action is
don't be embarrassable
now um I I was I was thinking about this today and and uh not not bad not that exactly
but in in terms of safe sex and I I felt very ignorant what definitively what can people do
safely and what can't people do safely just tell us what we can what we can't do well there's no
such thing as safe sex the only safe sex is no sex abstinence total but that doesn't work but the
problem is people really do want to have sex well yes and sex is fun it's pleasurable it's enjoyable
it enhances a relationship and as long as you've got good protection why not if you know what
you're doing and you're able to think ahead right and plan ahead then and it's a decision that's
where I run into troubles is because we don't give good sex education then they don't you can't make
a decision in a vacuum now let me ask you a question and I'll be as specific as generally
specific as I can be uh vaguely persistent yeah okay we can go there say two people are prepared
to have safe sex a man and woman are going to have safe sex and they got all the stuff they
need for safe sex yeah it's inside table yeah it's all don't leave it there where do you put it
stares in the cellar oh no no no no you take a condom
and you flirt with it I see and you say hi big guy
no no wait a minute okay so so we're gonna we're gonna have safe sex now save for sex
yep but you say there is nothing safe except for abstinence what what mistake can can people with
safe sex in their heads make what can they do wrong and suddenly oh that was a mistake the
only basic problem would be not using a condom not knowing who your partner is all right well
we're not knowing approximately where your partner has been and what they've done have
they ever done heavy duty drugs been shooting up that's risky behavior and then um always
practicing safer sex right right but other other activities other than intercourse for example
all right well I'll stop it if you ever on your radio show do you ever get the
silly calls or unusual calls or sometimes people joke with you do you think when
you are they all serious oh I'm sure that there are put what they call put on calls
um you can usually tell but I treat them as a definite uh concern or question because
although it may be a put on call somebody out there has that question might be thinking
about it and they really believe that if you swallow ejaculate you can get pregnant laughs
don't get embarrassed Paul he's from Canada what's the uh do you have any memorable uh questions uh
that you can relate to us now silly calls that you've gotten uh that uh interesting unusual
well of course there are a lot of fun calls that come in and um but you know I don't like to
um equate it as a silly call right because I take it seriously and so
um I'm much more impressed with the scary calls that I get about sexual abuse or something like
that those are the ones that I remember those are the ones that I take home with
me what was the deal with the kid who called up about the uh the jar of the peanut butter
oh yes well you had to ask didn't you you couldn't resist that one you want to go there
this guy was I phoned in and asked if it was okay if he could masturbate into a jar of peanut butter
let me get you thrown out of the supermarket
well you know I have an ifb in my ear you know an ifb connect me to
the control room and uh my uh director is saying ask if it's crunchy or smooth
well sure it makes all the difference absolutely
my key word is gently but now I've never eaten peanut butter since
is is Canada more Progressive regarding sexual education than the United States
at this point in time yes and why is that that it doesn't make any sense does it well I think
it's political and I think that they there's some people who really believe that if you talk to kids
about sex and teach them about sex they're going to go right out and do it now is there any proof
to substantially no it's the opposite really that if you teach kids about sex then they know what's
going to happen they know whether what they're into petting and French kissing and fondling and
then they think well wait a minute I know where this is going right I don't want to go there I'm
not ready I don't like my body I don't want your body liking my body forget it yeah uh but what
about the notion you hear these horror stories of of kids in in schools having sexual activities at
younger and younger and younger ages and it's just alarming I mean I was well into my 30s
wow but I mean is that true are kids having actual sex at a much younger age they're reaching puberty
earlier than they usually they are reaching puberty about six months earlier with every
generation now why does that happen nutrition really absolutely where they're much better fed to
balanced diet and also the exposure to the media and what they see on television and also other
kids are talking it up we didn't talk it up we didn't you know nobody talked to me about nothing
no well I didn't know enough and um that's why I got into this business but uh nowadays every TV
show yeah and so that they think they're missing something and they don't know what they're missing
but try it you'll like it well listen it was uh it was a great pleasure meeting you I'm glad
you could come down here and I hope you come back thank you very much everybody we'll be right back
thank you