Hi. I' m Bruce Muzik and I'm a relationship coach.
If you're watching this video I assume you're facing some kind of
challenge in your relationship that you're not sure how to solve
or you're looking to take your relationship to the next level
and you feel that getting some coaching from a relationship expert
might be useful to you. Over the next couple of minutes
I'm going to answer all of your questions about relationship coaching so that you're
empowered and informed
to make a choice about relationship coaching that is right for you.
Every now and then we all face challenges and problems in
our relationship that are more than just
bumps in the road on our relationship journey.
They are more like roadblocks that bring our relationship screeching to a halt.
This is when relationship coaching can be really useful.
When you need someone to work one-on-one with you, someone who can
see the blind spots that you can't see
and help you work through them to resolution so that you can get back on
the road and on your journey of loving and living life together.
You may be wondering who relationship coaching is for?
and the kind of people that come to relationship coaching.
Usually when my clients come to me for relationship coaching
they're experiencing any of the following symptoms in their relationship:
They're very often experiencing power struggle issues
Issues associated with that stage of relationship that comes after the
romance has worn off.
After the feeling of being head-over-heels in love fades away,
we enter into a stage of relationship known as the "power struggle" stage...
where you end up fighting for your independence and autonomy in the relationship.
If you think of falling in love as a process of merging together and coming together
as one, the power struggle stage is the stage
where you reclaim your independence and autonomy again.
Often couples in the stage complain of things like
fuzzy communication, or feeling of constant anxiety and tension between the two of you,
or constant fighting or arguing, or perhaps having trouble in setting boundaries,
or feeling like you've just lost your sense of who you are.
You've lost yourself inside your relationship.
Very often couple would come to me with intimacy issues,
and issues of not feeling connected, or not getting their needs met,
or perhaps you feel like your partner just doesn't see you;
just doesn't meet you face to face - soul to soul - head on - and you want to figure that out.
Other times people come to me with issues of broken trust or betrayal;
for example: infidelity.
And then other times people come to me when they're preparing for marriage.
And they want to make sure that they're prepared for what lies ahead
or they're thinking of getting married and they want to make sure that
this is the right relationship for them.
Whatever your situation is
I can assure you it's not unique and you're not alone.
There's a path that has been proven for any of the relationship issues
that you're currently dealing with in your relationship
and that's what I'm here to help you find.
Now you may be wondering how relationship coaching actually works?
The way I work is over the telephone.
And this is a couple of hidden benefits for you. Firstly, you don't have to jump into an airplane
and come visit me here in the Dominican Republic.
You can be on your relationship coaching call with me from the privacy of your own homes.
You can choose a space that is comfortable for you to be in,
where you know you're not going to be disturbed.
You don't have to drive anywhere, it saves you time.
And if you and your partner are in different sides of the planet;
perhaps one of you travels for work.
The two of you can still dial into a coaching call even if you're on the opposite side
of the world. In case you're wondering phone coaching is just as effective as
face to face coaching. I noticed absolutely no difference since I shifted
from coaching face to face to coaching over the phone.
The service I use for our private relationship coaching calls
is a US base conference call company. Your going to get a US number to dial into.
If you're outside the USA you can dial in for free using Skype
or if you use your Skype-ing credit you can dial in for around 1 cent a minute.
It's really affordable to dial into this line. It's completely confidential and private.
If you choose to, we can also record your calls if you like to, so that you can
listen to them later and keep them for future reference.
Relationship coaching
is completely customized to where the two of you are as a couple and what you need.
During our initial call, what we're going to do is look at: Where you are right now?
What are the challenges you're facing? Where you want to go?
And what are the obstacles in the way of you getting to where you wanna go?
Then it's MY job to make sure that you get to where you want to go.
And it's YOUR job to make sure that you show up to every call with an open mind
and with a willingness to grow. You may be wondering "Bruce,
how many coaching sessions will we need?" It's really hard to say until I've
actually spoken with you... Some couples
stay for two or three coaching sessions. Others stay for two or three years,
because they enjoy the structure of continually growing and evolving their relationship.
And growing closer and closer together.
In our initial session though I'll give you a recommendation,
based on my experience on what I think would be a good number of sessions to
get you through whatever you're dealing with.
A question I get asked a lot in my practice is "Bruce, what's the difference between
relationship therapy and the thing that you do called relationship coaching?"
Relationship therapy is focused on the past.
And it works purely on a psychological level; whereas relationship coaching
is focused on what's going on in your relationship in the present
and where you want to go in the future.
It works so effectively because rather than trying to fix the past (which we can't change anyway)
You get practical strategies that you can apply in your relationship
right away
To get your emotional needs met; to navigate through conflict through to the other side
and to get to wherever it is you tell me you want to go.
If you haven't been exposed to any of my work before
I wouldn't be surprised if you're wondering
"Bruce, what kind of qualifications do you have to be a relationship coach?"
So let me put your mind at rest. I'm a qualified relationship coach
from RCI (Relationship Coaching Institute), which is the largest
relationship coach training company in the world.
I've been passionately coaching people for well over 10 years
and work with thousands of people in my private coaching practice
and in my seminars all around the world.
But when it comes down to it, what has my coaching clients keep coming back
is that they're actually getting the results that they want.
So that you can get to know me a little bit more, I think it might be apt to let you in
on some of the beliefs and principles that I hold dear in my relationship
coaching practice. The first one I like to share with you is that
I believe that relationships are the greatest
training ground for personal growth. They're like the greatest personal
development seminar ever created if you consciously choose to use them that way.
They can also be one of the most painful experiences you ever move through,
if you're unconscious, and you're unconsciously creating your relationship.
One of the first things we'll do together in our sessions is begin
to look at your relationship from the perspective
of an emotional and psychological training ground for you.
The second principle that I hold dear in my coaching practice is that fighting in relationships
or conflict in relationships is completely normal.
And that when you learn how to fight fair and fight FOR your relationship
(rather than fighting each other),
you can use conflict as a vehicle for your own personal growth and move through it that much faster.
The third principle that I really hold dear is
"Anything that isn't love is a misunderstanding".
And what that means; is that behind every action you or your partner make
is a positive intention.
When you can discover and expose that positive intention, conflict just dissolves.
I firmly believe that they're no bad people in a relationship.
They're just people with outdated strategies for getting their needs met.
And that's what we do in relationship coaching.
We help you create positive strategies
that produce the results you want to get your needs met, to move through conflict
and to create a lifetime of love together.
By now I'm hoping that you have most of your questions answered.
If you don't. I'd be happy to answer any more on our first call together.
You're probably wondering;
"Bruce, how much does relationship coaching actually cost?"
I have three different relationship coaching packages:
silver, gold and platinum (you will be able to see them now appearing below this video).
All you need do is choose a package that works for you.
Obviously the longer time you commit to, the less you pay per hour.
Then click on the 'Buy Now' button beneath that package
and we'll schedule a time to get on our first call together.
Unlike some less scrupulous relationship coaches,
I don't want to work with you, unless you're committed to being a success story.
I only want success stories. That way I get to keep a high reputation as a top relationship coach.
We get have more fun together and you get to have the results you want.
My relationship coaching practice is by application only.
Here's how you apply for a relationship coaching step-by-step:
Once you have chosen one of the three packages below that works for you best,
click on the 'Buy Now' button below that package and you'll be taken to a payment page.
You enter your payment details and then I'll send you an email
where we'll get to schedule our initial consultation.
During that consultation, it's less of an interview and more of an assessment
of where you're at in your relationship? what you're committed to? and where you're going?
Whether or not I feel I can help you
and you feel like I'm and match.
Whether or not we end up choosing to work together
I'm committed that you get tons of value out of our first call.
You really have nothing to lose.
If we choose to work together, great! We'll schedule our first coaching call right there and then.
If we decide not to work together I'll refund all your money immediately,
no hard feelings, no questions asked. And you'll have still gotten value from the call.
You really have nothing to lose.
By now I'm hoping I've answered all of your most important questions.
And you have a good sense of what relationship coaching is.
How it works and how it can benefit you.
If you still have any questions please feel free to bring them to our initial call
and I'll answer them all.
All there is to do next is to choose a package that works best for you,
click on the 'Buy Now' button below that package and I'll send you an email,
we'll schedule our initial call and I'll talk to you then.
I'm Bruce Muzik.
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch this video and for giving me your attention.
I'm really looking forward to working with you,
getting to know you and helping you create a relationship
that's filled with all the love you ever dreamed of.
So go and apply now.
And I look forward to talking to you soon. Bye.