- We was living together and I was handling
everything because you was not working
and you pretty much used me.
- You didn't do (beep) for me.
- Oh you wasn't living with me?
- Bro you didn't do (beep) for me.
- Momma will attest to that.
Your friends attest to that.
So yeah okay.
(loud upbeat music)
You ain't (beep).
- [Narrator] On this episode of "How Far Is Tattoo Far?",
exes Vanessa and Kenny are hoping to sort some things out.
Vanessa claims the two were in a relationship.
- So how did you guys meet?
- First of all we met at my job.
We kicked it.
Two weeks in he started spending the night,
not going back home to his mom's house.
And then we were living together for a year.
- So you were in a relationship?
- If that's what you want to call it.
I call it a situation.
- So we weren't boyfriend and girlfriend?
- We weren't on the same page like...
- So was he paying rent at all?
- No.
He wasn't working when we were together.
And as your girlfriend I'm gonna hold you down
until you can get back up.
- So you held him down,
he got his money up, and then peaced out.
- And peaced out.
- [Narrator] While Kenny is adamant
that it was just a fling...
- Let's hear your side of the story.
- She cool I kicked the (beep) with you.
I might leave some (beep) on accident.
- I still got your stuff at my house.
- Yeah, I leave (beep) everywhere.
- [Male Interviewer] You leave (beep) everywhere?
- [Kenny] I leave (beep) everywhere.
- Where else you leaving (beep)?
- Like wherever I slide, like if I slide, I'll leave it.
(chuckles)
- So you're living in her house,
having sex whatever you're doing.
It seems like you were in a relationship.
(suspenseful music)
- No.
- [Narrator] So what's the goal with these tattoos then?
- Kenny, what's your intention with this tattoo?
- I just want her to get the picture like what it was.
To me it was just a regular link up.
But she trying to make it seem like it's something
more than it is.
I'm basically here just to get these tattoos
and she can move the (beep) on.
I want her to get whatever she got on her chest,
get that (beep) off.
- This is the closure.
- Yeah.
- Vanessa?
- I just want him to understand what he really is.
I thought coming here today would expose him
and let him know never to take advantage of
a woman and her feelings again.
- [Narrator] Okay, for whatever reason,
they're down to get tattoos.
So let's get them started.
(upbeat music)
- More nervousness with what it is.
What did I get myself into at this point?
- We are done.
- God.
- [Narrator] Now, it's time for these sort of maybe exes
to see the permanent damage.
- All right Kenny, what were you hoping
to get from coming here?
- Let her get whatever she got on her chest
get that (beep) out.
So she can move the (beep) on.
(chuckles) (dramatic music)
- Without giving this tattoo away,
will you please give us the intention?
- Just basically to remind him
who I am and what he did to me,
and to never take advantage of anybody again.
- Bitch, please.
I'm ready to taking my mother (beep) shades off.
(sighs) (dramatic music)
Bro what the (beep) bro.
(dramatic music)
- [Vanessa] It's a leech.
(dramatic music)
- Vanessa, you want to explain to him what it means?
- We was living together,
and I was handling everything because you was not working
and you pretty much used me.
- You didn't do (beep) for me.
- Oh you wasn't living with me?
- Bro you didn't do (beep) for me.
- Momma will attest to that.
Your friends attest to that.
So...
(loud clank) - Yeah okay.
(dramatic music)
You ain't (beep), and you know you ain't (beep).
That's why you ain't got nothing to say.
- [Kenny] You a slut.
You're gonna forever be a slut.
- [Vanessa] I'm such a slut but bitch
you ain't never went nowhere,
so I don't give a (beep).
None of that.
- Do you wanna just at least let her take her tattoo out,
that way as soon as she takes it off you can just...
- Yeah.
(dramatic music)
- Be right here.
- Did you expect him to get this mad?
- Yeah!
I did.
- I just think after today,
I don't think you're going to be on his trail.
- Was never on his trail he never got off my trail.
- Bitch take the shades off so I can slide,
like you talking too much.
- (beep) you Bitch.
(dramatic music)
What does it say?
- Dickmatized.
(dramatic music)
- Bitch, is you serious?
- You brought me on this (beep) bro.
- Bitch, but you gonna put dicks on me though?
- You the dick.
- What is this a chandelier of dicks?
(chuckles)
- [Female Interviewer] It's a pendulum
like not to be confused with hypnotized.
- [Both Interviewers] Dickmatized.
(dramatic music)
- Really?
You think your (beep) that good
that I'm just so sprung up and (beep) about you?
- That's what that (beep) was based on.
Sex.
- Oh our relationship was just based on sex?
- Yeah.
- Really?
- I'm a leech?
- Bitch I held you the (beep) down and you know that.
I gave you a place to live.
- You didn't give me a place to live.
- How I didn't give you a place
to- you brought your (beep)
over there. (mumbles)
Did we talk about moving in together?
- What I owe you?
- I didn't say you owe me a mother(beep) thing.
Don't act like I didn't hold you down.
Don't act like I was not there for you because I was.
- What did you do? - Boy you was crying
on my shoulder.
(beep) (mumbles)
- If it wasn't for me you would
have been still at your momma house.
Still ain't got nowhere to live either.
- [Male Interviewer] Bye Kenny.
- [Vanessa] Get the (beep) out of here.
- So are you done done?
- Done done (beep).
(beep) him he can kiss my (beep) ass.
(dramatic music)
- [Narrator] So, how did these two former love birds
feel about their ink now?
- I haven't spoken to Kenny.
He's in his feelings I'm in my feelings
and it's probably better off this way anyways.
People who do see my tattoo they be like,
"What is that Dickmatized?"
and then they'll be like,
"ooh baby you might wanna do something about them dicks."
(laughs) Kenny definitely
did not have me Dickmatized.
I just fell in love with somebody who had a different
plan and a different plot.
Unfortunately for me.
But his loss though clearly.
(electronic music)