A lot of guys think that they are unattractive. A lot of guys think that
they're ugly. I hear this in the comments all the time and it's quite sad. It
really it saddens me for a couple of reasons. The first one being that you
think so poorly of yourself and that's just terrible that you feel that way. But
I get it and the second reason why this is sad is because you are under the
belief (this is not your fault) but you're under the belief that physical
attraction is the way to go when it comes to getting women. My first
lesson to you is to understand that attraction for women doesn't happen
necessarily or entirely on a physical level instead it happens on the
behavioral level. The way that you act when you're with a woman, the way that
you hold yourself, the way that you display your personality. That is where
attraction is the strongest however, on this video I still want to help you out
because it does help a little bit and we want to maximize all areas of our life
so why not maximize our looks to the best of our capabilities? I'm gonna be
giving you some really cool hacks. Easy things to implement. Maybe you heard them
before, maybe a haven't. Either way you implement all these and you're going to
up your physical attraction game to the next level.
Let's go ahead and talk about your hair. Listen, if you want to be the most
attractive that you can be, a little hack is going to a stylist. Not just a regular
place that gives haircuts but an actual barbershop. A stylist and let them know
that you want the best haircut for the shape of your head and for the type of
hair that you have. We all have different types of hair. I have curly hair, very thick
hair and so that is gonna cut very differently than someone with very
straight hair. For example, I need to go to a barber and they need to thin it
out to make it so it's manageable. Someone else who might have maybe
thinner hair or no hair at all, there's something you can do there too. I've always
heard and think myself that when you have no hair or you're bald just to shave
it off or keep you really tight to your head because that looks better.
Everyone is in a different situation so go there and find out what you can do to
make it look the very best and suitable for your face shape. Next is speaking
with confidence. Really making your voice stand out, make yourself be heard because
when that happens it actually makes you more attractive. More physically
attractive because your voice is coming from you, from your body. I'm gonna put a
link in the description below for a video where I teach you how to do that to
speak from confidence and speak from your diaphragm so that people can hear
you because when they can hear you, they can see you, they can feel your presence.
You want to be speaking with authority. Fitted clothes; I wonder if you ever
heard that one before. Fitted clothes is massive. I don't know. I can't explain it.
I don't know why guys look better when they're wearing clothes that are fitted.
No I'm not talking about skin tight but something actually fits you like this
fits me. This fits my body type and yes even if you're really
skinny, even if you're a little bit bigger, it doesn't matter. Just clothes
that fit your body. Even the guy who thinks he's the ugliest in the world
still looks better when he's in clothes that fit him and look very nice. I think
it's evolutionary. I think the fact that we can see the shape of
one's body it makes it more attractive. Even if you go back to like pictures
from the 40's or 50's those actors they were all wearing fitted clothes. Every
guy from every generation back to medieval times always
look better wearing fitted clothes. Smile and posture; two quick things to fix that
make such a big difference in the way that you appear. Let's just imagine
right now we're putting things together, we have fitted clothes on, we got a nice
haircut, we're smiling, we have good posture. Walking around speaking with
confidence.That person is going to appear more attractive and it's gonna
create really powerful first impressions. So do not forget to fix your posture,
roll your shoulders back, imagine that there is a string connected to your back
and that you're pulling it up. It's going to pull you up into a nice posture here
and put a big smile on your face. Do these things when you're going and
approaching a girl that you want to talk to that you like. The last few
nights I've been here in Ella which is in Sri Lanka and I've been filming on top
of the roof which is completely pitch black here. That's why I'm ending the
night here always in this pitch black scary video. We're talking about being
more handsome, the last tip I have for you in terms of being more handsome is
wearing cologne and a good cologne at that. In fact I have a video all about
that. I'll put that in the description as well because when you wear a really good
cologne that smells good, that's gonna psychologically
make a woman think that you look good. You ever have a girl walk by you,
maybe she's not as attractive but she smells amazing. Something in there
attracts you a little bit more. Same thing with girls for guys. There you
go. This is a checklist that I want you to be thinking about because if you were
to implement all of these which you could do within pretty much 24 hours and
then go out and work on your conversation skills and the way you
display your personality. All the great stuff that I talked about in this
channel and more importantly in my course called Hooked which I'll also put
in the description below but if you go out and use that stuff and then work on
your personality, work under conversation skills, you are gonna go very far.
Here's the thing; when it comes to your looks, like I said, this is about 25%
of the factor. I know that guys always put in the comments below and always
disagree with me and say no you need money, you need looks. That's fine you can
play that game and that is a really terrible game to play because that's a
loser's game. That means you have to go off and you have to try to fix your face
that you think is ugly and go get a job that you don't have to make a lot of
money. Well good luck. I'd rather play the other game which is working on your
personality which is the thing that actually goes even further than your
looks because a girl is attracted, like I said earlier, like I say all the time, to
the behavioral qualities of a man. That's what makes her attracted. All that
stuff is all talked about in my course called Hooked which you should get if
you don't already have. Press like if you agree with what I'm saying here and also
look at this like I said as a checklist. Before you go out, check this
off your list all the things I said to maximize your outer appearance and then
you can work on the rest of it. There you go.
Like I said press like if you agree and write down in the comments below what
you think because I'm always in there and I want to hear from you. That's it
for now. Tomorrow I head to a city that is very difficult for me to pronounce.
Udawalawe. Udawalawe. My editor is
gonna put this on the screen because once again I'm messing up a city here in
Sri Lanka. I'm very tired. I'm going to bed. See you tomorrow bye.