Hey everyone! Have you been single for a very long time? There is absolutely nothing wrong
with being single for a very long time. It's all a matter of preference. Until and
unless there is an underlying fear that is keeping you from getting into relationships.
Yes, many of us face this strange amount of nervousness, anxiety and fear when it comes
to relationships. Your zodiac sign plays an important role in this fear and in this video,
we are going to talk about that and more.
Let's start…
#1 Aries
On the surface you look almost indestructible, but that is far from the truth and you know
it well. Isn't that why you have created your surface Aries? You want to stay safe and don't
want the world to walk all over you. Hence that surface to keep all the naysayers away.
Unfortunately, that often keeps you from approaching a potential relationship.
Yes, you are afraid of falling in love is because you are scared of being vulnerable.
Don't worry Aries, being vulnerable doesn't mean that you are weak. It simply means that you have
the courage to open up to others. So, don't shy away from being courageous Aries. You never know,
you might just end up finding your soul mate. Speaking of being very guarded,
the next zodiac sign should be given an award for it.
#2 Taurus
Just like Aries, Taurus also likes to stay guarded albeit for different reasons. If you
are born under this zodiac sign, your greatest fear in a relationship is being betrayed.
This is why you are scared of falling in love. You are wary of who you trust,
sometimes you even turn a little uptight just so that you could
save your fragile heart. This doesn't mean that you are perfect though.
Taurus are known to have double-standards, while they hate being betrayed, they usually assume the
worst about other people. This often leads them to stray in a relationship and they end up being the
cheating partner. That's not the worst though, you see Taurus turn more and more inwards when they
are hurt or feel they might get hurt. This means they would they will cut off themselves from the
rest of the world and live in their own bubble. Sounds complicated? Then try the next zodiac sign…
#3 Gemini
Gemini isn't like Aries who hates being vulnerable, nor is it like Taurus who hates
being betrayed. Gemini simply hates being bored. Out of all the reasons that one person could have
thought of to hate being in a relationship, Gemini hates the stability part of the relationship.
Being in a relationship may not be for Gemini, they want constant excitement and
that is why they would rather prefer not being in a relationship at all.
Geminis like their own company and even if someone else seems to have their attention,
it is usually short-lived. In the long run, they would rather be in a casual
relationship than a serious one. This is why they are scared of falling in love. Although,
their cand fickle nature may also contribute to it.
Yes, this is why they are considered the child of the zodiac by many astrologers.
Moving on…
#4 Cancer
Time to get serious, after we finish talking about the two-faced Gemini,
we get to moon child of the zodiac. Cancers are caring, passionate and compassionate.
While these are basic traits of every water zodiac sign, Cancer is special because people
born under this zodiac sign are usually more sincere than Scorpios and Pisces.
Unfortunately, it is almost impossible to find another person who is as sincere as a Cancer.
As a result, in relationships they end up at the short end of the stick.
This creates a sense of insecurity in them. They start drifting away from themselves,
till the point where they have lost themselves to their surroundings. So when you meet a Cancer
for the first time, chances are they won't be themselves. You won't see the
true self of Cancers till they truly trust. By the way, it's hard to earn their trust.
Let's talk about a less serious sign…
#5 Leo
The lion doesn't like feeling used that is exactly what makes them fear falling in love.
In their lifetime, a Leo will have countless affairs with many admirers. Unfortunately,
none of those admirers will actually love them for who they are. You don't always get what
you see with a Leo, you get what they want you to see. They think of their social appearances
as a performance. For them, every moment of their life is like performing on stage.
So, you don't really see a Leo. You see an empty shell of the person a Leo is.
Why? Because they are very insecure. Leos are manipulative and they can be very dominant,
but in reality they are just cats in a lion's skin. Their insecurities make them fear the
concept of falling in love. It is ironic when you consider that out of all the zodiac signs,
Leos want to be loved the most. The next zodiac sign is a little more complicated.
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#6 Virgo
Is your hair properly groomed? Have you taken a bath today? Do you smell nice? These are
the questions you will find asking yourself when you start dating a Virgo. Virgos have
incredibly high standards and they won't give up on those standards no matter what.
As a result, they often end up being single. After all,
it is very hard to match up to the expectations of a perfectionist. Does this mean Virgo is perfect?
No and this is why they are perfectionists. Virgos are always looking for rectifying
anything and anyone. If you are born under this zodiac sign then you know that your
self-consciousness makes it impossible to date others. You are always noticing too many details,
way more details than you would like. As a result, you scare away your potential lovers and that
scares you. If only you were as balanced as the next zodiac sign.
#7 Libra
From a sign that isn't really that balanced to one that is known for being the most rational zodiac
sign, we have entered into the territory of Libra. Libra is the zodiac sign of harmony, balance and
love. Yes, as a zodiac sign Libra is ruled by Venus along with Taurus. Though, Libra has more
of Venus characteristics than Taurus. Especially, that iconic Venus charm is more evident in Libra.
So, why would Libra be afraid of falling in love? Well, this is because they are indecisive. Libra
has a humongous social circle, they are barely ever alone and get along with most people.
As such, it is hard to find Libras that may not be dating anyone. They might even be dating more
than one person at a time, it's not their fault. They can't choose and have no idea
what they are doing. This is why, they avoid the whole relationship ordeal altogether.
Now, let's move to a darker zodiac sign…
#8 Scorpio
You can't say dark and zodiac without talking about Scorpio. This zodiac sign is known for
its emotional intensity, passion and creativity. As a Scorpio, you are a go-getter. You won't back
down no matter how tough the opponent is, you will always prevail. If not, you will go down trying.
Giving up isn't your favourite phrase. So, where do you fail? Why do you hate falling in love?
This is because you are too passionate to be realistic.
As a Scorpio, when you love you love way too much. You fall hard and you stay that way,
the other person is more likely to have a more realistic expectations than you.
This is why, you refrain from falling in love. You don't want to be heartbroken with the idea
that no one will ever love you as much as you love them. Let's talk about a less intense sign.
#9 Sagittarius
People born under this zodiac sign are free-spirit, they aren't really that
romantic and can be quite philosophical. Their idea of love is different and doesn't fit into
the norm of how love is generally accepted by people. The concept that is generally
considered as love is too burdensome for them. They may find it hard to relate to it.
They may see it as an impediment and want to break from it. This is usually what leads
some Sagittarius to cheat in relationships. Others simply refrain from it altogether.
Usually, Sagittarius prefer the quiet life without much drama like Scorpios.
However, they aren't as intense. They are laid back and like to stay that way. The
next sign has more similarities with this zodiac though they may not always get along.
#10 Capricorn
The ambitious Capricorn finds itself in the place where it belongs,
number 10. As a cardinal Earth zodiac sign, Capricorns are seen as the pioneers of new
things. Although, just starting something isn't good enough for them. They want to
keep on going and is possible then see the task through to the finish line.
This might make you wonder, a person like this won't have issues with love. If only life were
that simple, Capricorns aren't the best when it comes to commitment in relationships. This zodiac
sign is more committed to its work. As such, dating a Capricorn may be harder than you think.
In order to stay focused with their careers, Capricorns can even get rid of the idea of having
their own children. The next zodiac sign deals with relationship and love better than Capricorn.
#11 Aquarius
The humanitarian of the zodiac becomes more of a social worker when it comes to love. Yes,
I mean literally. Aquarius has a hard time saying no to its admirers. As a result, people born under
this zodiac sign find themselves in relationships where they don't really want to be in. They end up
in relationships where they aren't appreciated and their personal space is threatened.
This is why, they don't really value love that much. They think of it as something childish
till they fall in love. That never happens easily for them and usually happens in the later part
of their life. So, they close up to the idea of falling in love for the most part of their life.
If you find that sad, the next one will be heartbreaking.
#12 Pisces
Pisces is called the oldest zodiac sign and it makes me wonder that it should be the first
zodiac sign and not the last. Natives of this zodiac sign are hopeless romantics and this is
why they are scared of relationships. The fear of relationships starts later for Pisces, in
the beginning, they are more likely to jump into relationships without giving it too much thought.
This often backfires and they learn it the hard way that dreams don't often become the reality.
So, while they still may dream like a hopeless romantic their real life experiences may turn
them the other way. They may become cold and detached, they can also become a little uptight.
All of this just because their dreams didn't match up to the reality of human relationships.
So, which zodiac sign are you? Why are you scared
of falling in love? Let us know in the comments we would love to hear from you.