Hey there, Adam Lodolce from sexyconfidence.com where I help the 21st-century woman create
a love life that she absolutely freaking loves and in this video right now I'm going to be
talking about the three signs that a man wants to marry you someday.
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Now it's a common problem for you women, you invest your time and your energy into a guy
only to find out that he was never really interested in anything serious in the first
place.
"Would you like to stay for breakfast this morning?"
"Naw, sorry, I don't do breakfast."
"So would you mind if I left a toothbrush here?"
"Nope, no room for toothbrushes here, nope."
"So I was thinking maybe we could do a weekend together sometime."
Now I know that this can be so annoying and it causes you to avoid pushing a guy too quickly
to talk about anything that's serious, but if you're a serious dater right now and you
ultimately want to get married and find long lasting love and have a family and all that
good stuff, then you want to have all the information about a guy before investing way
too much time in a guy who has no serious intentions whatsoever.
We all know that any relationship is a risk in some way, shape or form but the more information
you have, the smarter you can be about how big that risk really is.
You want to be taking a calculated risk when you invest your heart fully in someone.
Here are a few signs that a guy is a little bit more serious focused.
Sign number one is that he says that he wants to have a family in the near future.
After you've been dating a guy for about three months or more and you're in a committed relationship,
then you can casually ask him a question that kind of sounds like this.
I want you to imagine that you have your perfect life, everything you'd ever want.
In five years, what would that life look like?
The reason why I like the wording in this question so much and the reason why it works
so well is because it turns kind of a serious question into more of a fun hypothetical question.
Instead of point blank asking him, "So do you plan on getting married in five years
or what?"
"Well not to you."
Instead of doing that, by using the question I gave you, you're being a little more subtle
about your information gathering.
This way you can get a feel about whether he sees himself having a family or if he just
sees himself partying every night with his single buddies.
By the way, just know that after you ask him that question, he's going to ask you the same
question back so be prepared with an answer that sounds something like this.
Well by then I'd love to have a family of my own and ...
Then just go ahead and continue on describing your future aspirations and your dreams.
Sign number two, he's committed to you and only you.
Now I know this seems like and obvious one but it happens too often where a woman will
make too many assumptions about a guy who she's just seeing casually and it hasn't been
explicitly made that you're in a committed relationship and they start assuming things
about the future.
It's really important to be in that committed relationship before you even start thinking
about any type of the serious marriage type stuff.
By this point now you already know that he wants to have a family at some point, you
also know that he's committed to you only and only you.
The third sign is that there's future progression in the relationship.
There's an ongoing progression in the relationship.
Now sometimes this might be a little bit slower than you'd want but there's always some type
of progression.
There's always some type of moving forward, whether it's he starts out by sleeping over
once a week, then it goes to twice a week, then you go on a vacation together, then you
maybe move in together.
This is the type of progression you want to be looking for and if a relationship stalls
for way too long, let's say a year or longer, then it's important to start having that type
of a conversation as to what's going on?
So long as you have these three signs, then you know what?
You should be in pretty good shape.
Just remember though, in relationships and in life, it's always a gamble.
Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't but no matter what, you just got to remember
this, it's not necessarily a reflection on you if the relationship doesn't work out,
just keep that head up and keep pushing forward and it'll all come together I promise.
There you have it.
There are three signs that a guy wants to get married some day.
I want to hear from you, have you ever seen any of these signs in a guy?
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