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live are we live are we live are we live are we live okay hey everybody it's mike
how you all doing out there welcome to beautiful winter garden florida here in the command center
uh how we doing huh i've got herman here let's see here he is here's herman man herman t dog
herman tea dog what do you think herman you ready for mommy to come back yeah mommy's been
martha has been in uh where has she been miami filming four days to save the world
i think it was done yesterday and she gets back today so this afternoon martha will be back
hey michelle hey cindy hey lorna so hey if this is your first time here
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so martha's gonna be coming on today she still filmed videos for you even today when she was
supposed to come back because we didn't know what time she was going to be back
today so she still did a video for you which i'm going to play for you uh last night we did
something really cool in the heart centered and successful group we did the first ever visual
experience review where we took three lovely ladies and we looked at their footprint online
visually how they were showing up on social media and stuff and we looked at their strengths
and we looked at some of the opportunities that they might want to take to to grow and
that you can still see it's still available to watch in the heart centered and successful group
which if you're not in that group get in that group the link should be in the description of
this video uh what else what else herman did i miss anything he doesn't care he's
just like get out of here he's tired of me he wants mommy back he's just look at him oh well
he's sad he misses mommy alright everyone well hey it's been wonderful being here and
starting these videos for a week for you but martha's going to be back um and we should
be back to normal business on next monday okay all right everyone here comes martha
hey hey you guys i am still in miami everything is going great so like mike said make sure that you
are commenting on the video so whenever everything is done i'm able to swing back through and check
your comments and answer you and all of the things i miss you guys so stinking much so let today
let's go ahead and get into the mindset of high achievers you guys know i love to geek out on this
because it's it's different the mindset of a high achiever is much different than everybody else and
there will be people that are not high achievers that think that their mindset is just fine
usually like in hbr if somebody's like oh i can just skip the mindset stuff i'll be like
okay so i love you so much that probably means that you really need to double down on mindset
because i work on mindset every single day of my life i never ever say i'm good i'm all right
don't worry i don't i don't even need to worry about that stuff anymore
here's what's going to happen if you stop concerning yourself with your mindset we're
going to go into this because mindset's so vague in general but we'll we'll get into it in a second
but if you stop concerning yourself with your mindset what's going to happen is as you're
concerning yourself with and as you're doing the things so like in big think where i tell you do
this do that do this do that do this do that where i'm telling you precisely what to do every day so
you can just crush it where your mind completely turns into like this thing that is invincible
and does nothing but creates awesome just ask anybody in big think that's what happens but
if you do that and then you get successful which is what will happen but then you decide to stop
you're gonna slide right back down the thing is is we always need to be on top of our mind we always
need to be mitigating and managing what's going on in our minds and where we're focused because the
moment that you stop caring about that you will start losing everything and some people don't
realize it until they've already started like really gotten into a dangerous place of losing
everything and then they're like oh man and then they scrambled to get it again well now you're
in a different place of desperation right and so it's harder to get back up you need to be able to
manage your mindset control it do the things that i say to do in big think get up there and
then keep going do not stop so the mindset of a high achiever you guys is understanding that
it's simple understanding what you need to do day in and day out to be unstoppable
so a couple of things just off the top of my head a couple of things that you need to do day in and
day out to have a mindset of a high achiever is you need to set goals and this isn't like
this isn't your high school guidance counselor telling you to set smart goals i know that every
time somebody says smart goals to me i kind of throw up in my mouth a little bit i'm so sorry
it happens because i'm like oh smart goals really we're going to talk about this again
they work they work so what do we know about smart goals you have to be specific your goal needs to
be specific you can't say i want to lose weight how much how much weight do you want to lose right
be specific i'm not going to go through all of the sma rt you can look it up you can google
it if you want it's everywhere but you need to be specific another big thing is that you need
to be time-bound so you want to lose 10 pounds awesome do you want it well if let's say you
want to lose 30 pounds and say you want to lose 30 pounds in 90 days okay well that's 10 pounds
a month awesome so you want to lose 10 pounds by the end of this month what's the date put a put a
quantity and a date or maybe it's a money goal i want to earn this much by this time i teach a lot
of my students to do money goals weekly i'm i'm making this much this week this much this week
this much this week so on and so forth there's a very interesting thing that happens within
your brain it's called neuroplasticity is is the actual science of it but what our brains do is
they're on automatic um cycles they'll just cycle automatically with things that were limitations
for us before so maybe we were told something about ourselves maybe we were told that we're fat
maybe we're told that we are incapable or we were told be careful be careful don't do that don't
do that don't do that don't do that and that's just something that goes on repeat in your brain
don't do it don't do it be careful be careful and then whenever the entrepreneurial buzz hits you
then you're like oh but i need to be careful i need
to be careful i need to be careful that was ingrained in you it was conditioned
it's a conditioned response just like pavlov's dog drooling it's a conditioned response our
brain is a super computer we program it and when we're children we're not
programming it somebody else is and that somebody isn't malicious but they're programming it
they're programming it with their limitations so a lot of times people will see themselves
ending up like their parents are living out the same lives as their parents
they've been programmed they were programmed to live out those same lives
it's the only thing that they knew it's the only thing that they could understand
it's the only thing that was real to them that was modeled to them by their parents
and this isn't the part of the video where you say i knew i hated what they did
they're humans and they did the best they could
they didn't mean to mess us up and dare i say they didn't even mess us up
we all have our journeys through life we all go through things that i believe we need to go
through in order to be able to help other people go through they weren't trying to mess you up
but you do need to take ownership you do need to actually control what happens
from this day forward and that's where we choose so this thing that is on auto repeat
in our mind don't do that don't do that be careful be careful you're not good at that
i heard i don't remember who it was the other day i heard somebody saying and it was a great singer
i can't remember who it is i heard her see saying she remembers as an 11 year old girl she remembers
hearing her mom laugh at her whenever she hit a really high note in an upper register
and she was really proud of herself for hitting that note and then she heard her mom laughing
and it was a snapshot that moment in her life stood still
she remembers it as a 60-something-year-old woman and it affects her
and again our parents aren't being malicious they did the best they can with the cards that
they had i'm never ever going to come from a place where it's like let's hate people
or whatever it's not that's not what it's about it's never about the other person it's about what
we choose moving forward we take ownership and we choose things moving forward right
that said it's time to start making some choices it's time to start setting some goals and making
some choices and having some self-talk that's going to serve you rather than self-talk
that is just keeping you precisely where you are if you're happy with where you are
that's great if you're not if you're not thrilled with where you're where you're
at and the impact that you have on the world and maybe with your income and where your business is
at and whatever matters to you if you're not happy with that then you need to start doing this stuff
this is the mindset of high achievers we choose our thoughts we choose if i start feeling myself
going a little wonky if i start feeling myself getting a little negative what i do is i choose
i choose again i choose again i choose something new i choose something different
because i'm not going to wallow i'm not going to sit and wallow in mucky mc monkey muck i'll even
tell people that if they want to sit and complain and i'll even say like i can't be there with you
whenever you're ready to move and to be better let's talk i can't do this with you because i
choose not to that's not how i've gotten anywhere it doesn't mean i don't love you it means i know
what's i know that there's something better for you but you have to choose to get out of the mud
you're in the mud you've got to choose to get out of the mud and then let's go here let's go
to the top of the mountain i'll help i'll help you go to the top of the mountain it's what i do
but it can't get you out of the mud you got to get yourself out of mud
real talk mindset of a high achiever okay so that said like i said link to
big think is in the description of this video if you're not in big think yet
i mean if you're watching this right now and you've already been in big think
let's hear a heck yes let's hear a holler let's hear something because the people that are in
big think are experiencing massive growth not just in their business not just in their finances but
in their family and in their own lives and how they respond and how they show up in the world
it's very very different than anything you've ever seen before okay it comes from stuff that you've
heard of before it comes from it's derived from stuff from napoleon hill and all of like the great
granddaddies of personal development but what i'm what i make it into you've never seen before
guaranteed because it's mine i did it it's my own system remember what i teach you about courses
in creating courses you create them based on something you've done yourself that you know works
that's why my courses are so good because it's literally what i've done myself i show you how
to do what i've done myself i don't hold any cards close to the best where i'm like man i'm not gonna
tell in this part i tell you everything i love for you guys to succeed nothing makes me happier
so big think the link is in the description of the video if you were wondering about hbr
what i would uh do is i would just go ahead and send me a message at living the dream with
martha message me the words case study living the dream or live in the dream you could mess
i have actually last week i had somebody message me living the dream with martha
i was like okay i get that so uh case study rainbows and unicorns whatever you want to
message me we can have a short chat about hbr it's literally how i've gotten where i've gotten in my
creation of income streams from home we work about five to ten hours a week we make way more money
than we should or we deserve to make what we make and so do you okay we make a lot more money than
anybody sees feasible is making at home we'll say that okay and so that said what you would do is
you would message me here i show you precisely how i do it you pay once you're in it for life
you have group coaching for life you have coaching for life you have an e-commerce site that's coming
pretty soon where you can sell your stuff on my site that's for life love you guys bye-bye