- Now feeling ignored has always sucked
for all of human history.
Now back tens of thousands of years ago
when all of humanity were just living in tribes
of about 80 to 100 people,
if a guy was ignoring you
maybe he would just go off for a little hunt
and then fast forward maybe 50 years ago
if a guy's trying to ignore you
he might just not pick up the phone when you call
and then you can justify to yourself
well, maybe he's just busy.
But now, when a guy ignores you
you know for a fact that he's reading
every, single one of your
12 text messages that you've sent him
and he's just not fucking responding.
Here's exactly what a guy is thinking when he's doing that.
Keep watching.
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Hey there, Adam Lodolce from SexyConfidence.com
where I help the 21st century woman create a love life
that she absolutely freaking loves.
In this video we are going to be talking about
why it is that a man does ignore a woman
and what is actually going on in that crazy head of his
when he does that.
Number one, he's just trying to play the game.
Now I remember those days back when I was single
it was all about playing the waiting game.
You want to basically ignore someone just so much
so that their wondering "is he ignoring me?"
And it's a sad reality that there is truly no more
effective way to make a woman want you than to ignore her
just a little bit.
And unfortunately for you ladies,
guys have kinda picked up on this
and some guys end up taking this just a little too far.
And rather then just trying to play hard to get
they end up ignoring you a little bit more than they should.
And if you think that that's what the guy is doing
and that's why the guy is ignoring you then don't give in.
Don't chase him because when you chase him,
he ends up winning.
Number two, is that he's actually trying to slow things down
a little bit in the relationship.
Sometimes when you just click with someone,
when you meet someone and you just jive
it feels like your souls like truly connect
it's really easy to get just completely swept away
in the emotion of the new relationship.
Within two weeks of meeting the guy, you start talking about
what type of pet you're going to have
when you move in together.
Or worse, what your children's names are going to be.
And you get so excited because
you see that he is really pushing forward.
He's moving fast, you're moving fast.
But then before you know it he just puts on the brakes.
And he realizes that things are
starting to move a little bit faster than he's comfortable.
So he starts to ignore you a little bit.
Now if you think that when a guy does this
it means that he's lacking any type of emotional maturity
I would love to hear from you in the comments
right there below.
Because I personally do think that it is due
to a lack of emotional maturity.
He's not able to have a real conversation with you
about what's going on,
some of his fears about how fast things are moving
so he starts to kinda do the fade out.
And if this happens to you just realize that there's no rush
Of course if he is completely ignoring you,
not talking to you at all
then its time to try to have a conversation with him
but if you can't, there's nothing you can do.
The best thing that you can do
is give him that time to get his head straight
and see if whether or not this is what he wants.
And more importantly, just remember this for the next time
that you meet a guy or you start dating someone,
remember it's better to move slower
and have that person want to push forward more
than it is for you to be the person who is
kinda pushing things along quickly.
And if you want a little help doing this
and finding a great relationship
then I recommend you click on that link in the description.
I have a free training that's going to
walk you through how to find your soul mate.
Number three, you hurt his feelings.
Did you get into a big fight
the last time you saw each other?
Or maybe you said something off the cuff
and you really ended up bruising his ego.
Chances are if you think back,
you'll know what you did to cause this issue.
If you think that this is the reason why he is ignoring you
I recommend using one of the most powerful words
in relationships, which is "sorry".
Don't be afraid to apologize.
I think so many relationships could have
so much less friction going on in the relationship
if both people were willing to just say
I'm sorry more often.
And finally, number four is that it's over
and he's being a coward by
not letting you know that it's over.
Sadly, I do think that one of the worst components
of modern dating is that people are
just not as upfront about how they are feeling.
Or as upfront about breaking up with someone
as they used to be.
And by the way, women are guilty of this too
which is not actually being straight forward with someone
when they don't want to see them again.
And if this is happening to you then just look at it as
a blessing in disguise
because if he's not willing to muster up he courage to
break up with you and end things in a real way
and be able to face you
then imagine how horrific that person would've been
in a real relationship anyways.
And the same concept goes for you women out there.
Being a sexy, confident woman means that
if you start dating a guy
and you find that there's really no click,
don't ghost on him, don't ignore him.
Be straight forward and let him know that look,
you don't see it being a fit
so that he can move on
and find another relationship with a great person.
And I truly believe in dating karma,
that what goes around comes around,
so make sure that you are doing that the same with the
relationships that you're ending as well.
So I'd love to hear from you in the comments
right there below.
Have you ever had a guy just completely ignore you
and how did you react the that situation?
I'd love to hear from you in the comments right there below.
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and again, thank you so much for watching.
It's been amazing sharing this information with you
and I will speak to you next Sunday, you sexy lady.
Speak to you then, bye-bye.