Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com with the Talk To Girls 101 series.
On today's episode we'll be talking about how to get a girl to chase you
or as I like to call it, playing hard to get. Why is this something you
you want to do in conversation? Because it flips the script a little bit and
gets her trying to chase you which then well obviously makes it easier for
you and helps build attraction. I'm gonna give you some examples of what
you can say in conversation cause that's we're talking about. Talking to girls;
what you can say, what can come out of your mouth. I'm going to give you some
examples of what you can do and say to get her to start chasing you or at least
validating herself a little bit so she's trying to prove to you that she's
interested. Let's get into it. You need to be paying attention in
conversation. Active listening is a big key to this because you're going to be
listening and when she says something that you don't like or something that
you disagree with or even if it's something that has nothing to do with
anything and you just want to say this anyways, this works. This is the line,
you are going to say "We are so done." You're going to do this playfully. This is like
teasing but it's also kind of hard to get. Let's say you're talking to her
about music, you're asking what her favorite music is and she's like oh I'm
really into the shins, whatever you can say "You like the shins? Okay
you know what, we are so done. We're so done." And then she's gonna be like wait
What? Wow do you not like them? That's crazy.
No no, not into them. You should be listening to...whatever.
You might be thinking Tripp how can I do that? That doesn't make any sense.
You're going to start to say stuff that you don't like that she likes. Don't you
have to match and align on the things that you guys are interested in for her
to like you? First of all, no you don't. That's not what creates
attraction or creates a powerful relationship. It's more the chemistry
between you two but no in this situation it gets you to appear more confident
because you're not just agreeing with everything she says. If you say oh I like
the shins - oh I like that - oh I like that - this is boring. You need to spice
it up a bit. There needs to be a little bit of tension. When
you create that tension it creates a little bit of mystery and gets her more like
whoa this is different. Usually guys are saying that they like everything that I
like and it's a whole different type of interaction and gets her to
chase you. Again you're going to say no don't like that. You and I
are so done. Of course you're doing it in a very playful way.
Another one is a body language takeaway. Let's say you guys are talking and
you guys are in a conversation and you're using all the tips from the Talk
To Girls 101 series and it's working out, I want you to have your body
language faced away from her. Not the whole time.
You guys can be facing each other, shoulder to shoulder, a good deep connection, good eye
contact but then in the middle of it, you're going to just turn
and you're going to have almost one foot out
and I want you to look away and not to be rude like you're
not paying attention to her, but just suddenly once in a while,
look away for a second but listen to her and your body language is going be like.
This is very powerful. Subconsciously she's going to feel like
you're leaving or you're not excited. You're not interested anymore and this
is going to get her to chase you. Now there's no guarantee. It doesn't
happen every single time. It's something you can use and put in
your toolbox when they're talking to a girl. The body language is
of facing off to the side showing her that you "might" leave the conversation.
Here's another one related to the first one I said. You said in
the first one oh we're so done. Another version of that is you and I could never
date. You know why because...something like oh we can never get along.
Or because you'd be listening to the shins all day and I'd be
listening to my music and it would never work out. Or we would never work
out, you and I could never day because you are just such a sweetheart and I'm
just kind of like a jerk sometimes and I'm going to offend you a lot and you're
gonna be mad at me. You're basically taking yourself away from her
and that gets her to validate and chase you and want you. It's all
subconscious stuff so this are fun, playful teasing lines that you can say
that are saying hey I'm not so easy, I'm not trying to get you, I'm not all about
you and then that gets her to try to fix that. Another one is just disagreeing
with her just saying nope nope that's not true no nope that's not true. It doesn't
matter even what the context is. She can say something like I'm a nurse from
whatever hospital or I do this for a living, you say no you're not, there's no way,
no you're not. I know that sounds weird like why would I say that?
That's a weird thing to disagree with. But when you're in the moment, when
you're in that conversation with her and you're saying that, she's going to be like what?
Yes I am, of course I am. It's going to be playful, she's going to play along with it.
Say no you're not, there's no way or she says she's from Florida, you say Florida?
No you're not from Florida. I don't believe you nope uh-uh.
No you're not. You say this nope nope no you're not, disagreeing with her.
Use all this wisely. Don't just do this the entire time of the conversation
because now you're pushing yourself too far off but you use it sporadically
throughout the conversation to kind of get her to chase you a little bit.
Another one is more of a tease and I do a whole video on the Talking To Girls
101 series on teasing but I like this one; saying you are a troublemaker or you
are a troublemaker, this is never going to work out. Now you're combining
a couple of them. You're a troublemaker. This is never going to work
out. You're dangerous. I have to stay away from you.
Again, you're pulling yourself away from her. That's the whole concept
here of what I'm trying to get to getting her to chase you. Pulling yourself away,
getting yourself out but only in this playful way. Here's the homework.
Try this out. That's the homework for this one. Try this out, see what happens and
write in the comments down below what happens when you do this. Is it
going to work for you? Let us know. Do it. Don't forget to get the Hooked program.
If you don't know about that, that is my program that goes way deeper into how to
build attraction and how to get girls interested in you and hooked on you.
go check that out in the description and I'll see you in the comments.