hi everyone I'm Adrienne Everheart i am a feminine energy dating and relationship therapist i help
women get in touch with their natural feminine energy so that they can have a better relationship
with the man in their life and also a better life for themselves just getting in touch with your
feelings and your body understanding that this is actually what a man wants to hear from us instead
of thinking doing directions and things like this so i am making this video to share with you
my top five questions that i have answered time and time again i could answer them in my sleep
that i have gotten in the year 2020 now it may be the year 2027 and you're watching this video and
it's still gonna be relative because relationships really haven't changed very much over our
lifetimes uh if women have more freedom there are other boundaries in place but also men have gotten
kind of you know withdrawn and more in their feminine energy and they kind of pull away from
women more they don't want to commit and things like this this has kind of always been going on
you can go back and read a jane austen novel and you will see a very similar thing happening just
as in today's day and time now we have some new things that are causing problems such as
viruses and all sorts of other things but mostly women have found a place of power again
so for hundreds of thousands of years women had to for their survival they had to be nice to a man
and i want you to really you know let that sink in there's right here i want you to really let
that sink in what it meant for a woman to survive it meant being nice to a man kind of going along
with something and not really you know causing a big problem and you know being a scene not heard
so many terrible things women in the past have had to endure
we still have a lot of those things we are not going to lose this quickly just because it is you
know we are in modern times your grandmother maybe had the choice for birth control she maybe didn't
so you see we really haven't evolved that much so fast but what happened is we made a huge leap from
being really passive and having to be nice to a man in order to survive to being a ball buster
to being very much in charge of ourselves and thinking action doing and the problem
is is that this creates a problem with the masculine masculine feminine polarity this
natural exchange of energy that men and women have this is never going to go away
because you are uniquely feminine and he is uniquely masculine and you like masculine things
you like what he can do for you you like how he can protect you and you like what he can
do to you specifically in the bedroom you don't really want a feminine energy guy in the bedroom
you don't want a feminine energy guy answering the doorbell if someone knocks on your door at 3am
you want your you want your guy and so we like a masculine energy man but for a lot of us
masculine energy kind of scares us i know it did me it was like actually a really big turn
off i was scared of masculine energy guys i was kind of drawn to more um these kind
of soft-hearted soft-spoken gentle guys and i want to tell you my husband pictured right there
my husband is really a gentle guy but he is also very much strong and masculine so he's a really
nice mixture so i'm going to get right to it now that you understand feminine energy you know what
i'm here doing for you i give you a way to tap into your feminine energy so that you can begin to
express yourself differently in the relationship and begin to evolve with your guy so we're so
focused masculine energy is focused on he needs a change he needs to do this and what i really
get you to do is we work on you we work on your energy and you're not doing this to like change
for the man you're doing this for you you're going to do this for you because you're going to feel
better and if your relationship feels better and your relationship gets better and you're happier
then everybody's winning and that's where i really want to get you to be
so i'm going to talk about my top five all-time questions but especially this year i've had a
lot of these questions and i'm just going to go through them okay girls you ready
it's going to be speed q a and i'm a talker all right here it goes the first question
that i get all the time is he hasn't called he hasn't called what should i do
it's my birthday and he hasn't called her it's his birthday and we broke up and he hasn't called it's
been two weeks and he hasn't called i really want to let him know how great he is and how
much i like him and that i miss him and i had a really great time and maybe i did something wrong
bottom line is whatever your story is the story doesn't matter okay your story your long story of
how you met and what he did and his mom was there and you met his grandma and it doesn't matter
and you know what i'm talking about the story doesn't matter all that matters
is he is either moving towards you or he's moving away from you there's no in between
moving towards you moving away from you if he is moving away from you because he's not
contacting you this is where you have to let that man show you what he can or cannot do
it's that simple in dating in marriage what he can or cannot do now if you guys are committed and
you've been together a good long while and you've had like a little bit of a fight or whatever
don't use this rule because you guys are already past dating and you're into the world of
we are each other's responsibility we look out for each other to which you would then just check
in with the man and say you know hi i i miss you i miss connecting with you it would feel really good
to talk what do you think we put the ball back in his court to make the decision to be the man
if you're dating and he has not called in my ebook 500 ways to talk to a man i talk about
sending the little dot dot dot question mark and that's if you've had a couple of dates and
things have gone really good and then the guy just disappeared all right but i want
to tell you this is this is going fishing and i don't really believe in going fishing with a man
but if you must if you must and you're ready to to have him say hey sorry i've been really busy
super busy so great to get together with you but can't if you're ready for that sort of answer
do it but you got to do this with no outcome all right so that was question number
one question number two how do i use law of attraction to get a guy it's this easy
you have to find what feels good you have to find what feels good write about it talk about it focus
on it it's that easy so if let's say you want to have a great dinner with your partner and they're
coming over tonight and you're going to celebrate or whatever it is it feels so good to have a warm
loving person in my life it feels so good to have be surrounded by love and comfort and company
oh it feels so wonderful to just be at home and be surrounded by so much love
and have this wonderful relationship unfolding and blossoming and if that doesn't work you can always
or if it doesn't feel right to you rather you can always use something along the lines of
wouldn't it feel great if or what if what if i open my inbox and there are 10 new messages from
some great guys what if i had so many guys to date that i actually didn't know which one to date when
all right so use what if or wouldn't it be great if or i feel and it feels so good and you gotta
tap into that feeling good mojo i talk about this in the abc's to get him program how i used to have
a conversation with my not yet husband i would be in the shower kind of short on time and i would
have this pretend conversation with him about things we were doing with our day and it's amazing
it's really remarkable how much life imitates this law of attraction stuff on so many levels
especially manifesting my wedding and the exact location of my wedding all right so that's how you
use law of attraction i have a program called new man manifesto if you want to go deeper into that
next question and by the way ladies who are married with husbands i got one for you at the
end here specifically although even with dating you know you can apply this even if you're married
you can apply it so um what is the first thing i should do after a breakup or distance what is the
first thing i should do my first thing i want you to do is put him in front of you as he is as he's
showing up put him in front of you so i'm going to talk about the artist the artist is the guy
that came over one day out of the blue and just said i don't want to be in a relationship anymore
i've thought about it i've thought a lot about it i don't want to be in a relationship anymore
and he walked out the door never talked to him again just left me rock bottom all right
again read about it in the abcs to get him back you can learn more about it in that video program
but the first thing if i could go back in time the first thing that you want to do
is put him in front of you and again married or single married or dating
dating a relationship apply yourself into these scenarios put him in front of you as he is
walking out the door being apathetic arms crossed not looking happy
take a good look at him as he is now and ask yourself is this really my dream relationship
the way he's showing up right now is this really my dream relationship a part of you is going to go
yes i love him he's the one i want Adrienne i want you to just set that aside i'm not here to talk
you out of this guy but as he is now not calling you arguing with you dumping you ghosting you
not caring about you not calling you on your birthday whatever it may be
as he is put him in front of you girls see him standing there jobless whatever it is
everybody loses their job but that's not a reason to walk out on your partner put them in front
of you is this your dream relationship is this what you have waited your entire life for this
this guy get an answer get really clear if that's it so your answer is likely going to be no
this is not what i have waited my entire life for good god i look back on the artist this dumpy
broke skinny not all that talented nice but moody af guy what did i why this was not my
dream relationship it is so clear but at the same time when they turn their back on you and
they walk away from you they activate you they activate you to pursue like a little hunting dog
and most of us have been abandoned at some point in time like in childhood or
even early on in dating and it makes us want to pursue so that's what's happening and i get
you to clear your energy is this really my dream relationship all right that's all you have to do
even if your husband's misbehaving look at him put him in front of you is this really my dream guy
no it's not so it gets your energy off of him so we can start working on you because this is
where the magic's at the magic's inside of you the magic isn't like what is he doing how did he feel
what did he say what can i say to him that's not where the magic happens the magic happens on you
so when you disconnect from him you unplug from him you begin to change you become more radiant
it starts instantly starts with your energy question number four he wants you he loves you
maybe he wants to date you he's coming around all the time blowing up your phone he wants to see you
whatever it may be but he doesn't want a relationship i don't want a relationship
i don't want to be married but i want to date you i like you we can hang out
all right i had that with jeff pictured here
he's gonna i hope he's okay with it but i had that with jeff i remember you know i would we
would see each other every i think tuesday and thursday spend the night thursday friday
or something like that see each other two days a week and i lived my life for those two days
and i hated it i felt like i was in a real on a relationship diet all right
so when this is happening you got to get grounded in what you feel this feels bad this feels awful
i want to be in a relationship i love dating you too this feels so amazing your warm arms
it feels so good on me and your kisses and we make love and it's the best feeling okay so
talk to him about what feels really good oh it feels so good don't say like when you do this
when you are this way you are so great you are so wonderful there was a girl on i heart love
academy she wanted to send her a guy a message and it was all like you are such a great guy you
have influenced me so much in my life you have been such a great friend and i wish you and your
family the best and she said how are my feeling statements and i said what feeling statement
there's no feeling statement it's all about the guy so you got to tell him how this feels oh baby
feels so good to be all wrapped up in your arms it feels so good to visit and everything but i want
to be a wife one day i've been a girlfriend before and i know how that goes and i want to be a wife
someday i don't want to put any pressure on you or the relationship and he goes what should i ask you
to marry me right now and you can say well is that a proposal a joke about it and say well you know
yeah i want to be a wife someday and if he says no i don't want you to be like fine that's it
it's over walking out i mean you can if you want to but i would much rather you say okay okay
i accept or no i'm gonna keep my options open i'm going to keep my options open which means
i'm going to start dating other guys because i want to be a wife and he's going to go uh-uh
not with me you're not going to do that with me and you go oh my god i'll miss you so much
and about two weeks later he's gonna go crazy and come back and claim you or not but you find out
you find out all right girls on my blog i have a brand new um
uh sorry on my website i have a brand new blog about walking away go check it out all right last
question my husband shows no affection for me my husband has stopped showing affection for me
what can i do he's not interested in me he sleeps on the couch he's on his phone all the
time i think there's somebody else from work he's talking to or texting with i went on his computer
and i found that he had been on this other site i hear about it all the time it's devastating to be
in love and be committed and someone you know kind of be pulling away from you so my answer to you is
this you have got to change your routine change how you're doing everything change your hair
change how you drive home change which hand you brush your teeth with change the furniture in your
house change up your life get out of your routine number two no focus on him for two weeks for two
full weeks zero focus on him no criticizing him no telling him what to do nothing like this all right
you gotta do that for two weeks you gotta peel your energy off all right girls that's my top five
i love you all happy new year and i look forward to seeing you next year mwah i want to hear from
you in the comments smash the like button if this has helped you i'll talk to you soon bye bye