hey everyone and welcome to top thing today we're going to learn about ten signs that you
are an ambivert now let's begin number one balanced conversations introverts are great
listeners they pay close attention to people's thoughts emotions and concerns they're fine-tuned
observational skills pick up on all kinds of small subtle signals when talking to an introvert people
feel heard but rarely get the chance to listen extroverts on the other hand are outspoken and
expressive they're excellent communicators who effortlessly channel their emotions into their
speech and behavior while extroverts are charming and energetic they rarely spend time out of the
spotlight ambivert sident off' i with both styles of communication they wield the careful listening
skills of an introvert while freely expressing their emotions like an extrovert more often than
not the best conversationalist you know our ambivert s' why well because extroverts asked
for too much attention and introverts asked for too little as an ambivert you fall right there in
the middle getting the best of both worlds you'll lend your careful ear to a friend in need or hold
a playful conversation with a stranger neither situation feels uncomfortable for you because
you're the perfect balance between introvert and extrovert number two limited solitude do you like
spending time alone do you crave solitude after a few hours of social activity introverts are
best known for social isolation many introverts retreat into their private lives entertaining
themselves with independent passions and hobbies introverts may spend all of their time alone
yet they still crave the peace and quiet of an i10 while ambivert sarff are more social
than introverts they also require alone time to relax and recharge in a 20-19 essay ambivert are
renamed social introverts they like stepping out of their comfort zone they enjoy the energy of
social situations but eventually they reach back into their shell many ambivert hide for extended
periods much like introverts before returning to their normal selves because of their need
for solitude ambivert usually split their time about 50/50 they may cherish those afternoons
spent drifting amongst their own thoughts but when they've had a chance to recharge ambivert
unlock their social side and become the life of the party number three friendships quality and
quantity introverts and extroverts make friends very differently introverts preserve a small but
closely knit group of friends who they've bonded with on a deeper level these friendships are
strong and often last for years surviving hardship long distance and other major life changes
extroverts build the opposite kind of social circles their friendships are broad in numerous
extroverted people find themselves a part of many friend groups but spend little time bonding with
each individual friend extroverts know a little about a lot of people while introverts know a
lot about only a few well what about Amba verts what are their friendships look like ambivert
befriend a diverse spectrum of people much like extroverts they're typically a member of several
friend groups however they rarely overextend themselves as an ambivert you may have lots of
friends but you always make an effort to connect with them on a deeper level number four situations
specific does your personality change in different environments are you energetic and enthusiastic
in a crowd then reserved and independent at home according to the same 20-19 essay the personality
of an ambivert is situations specific in other words as a true ambivert you'll swing from one
personality to another almost like you're a different person now of course you're not
really a different person the personality of an ambivert is incredibly flexible as an ambivert
you may say things like I'm up for anything or everything sounds fun and you actually mean it
your personality type thrives in just about any environment to quote our 2019 ese Amba version
is the most adaptive and stable combination of introversion and extraversion number 5 two
styles of work what style of work suits you the best do you excel on your own or do you prefer
collaborating with a group of people introverts and extroverts fall on opposite ends of this
question introverts are notorious lone wolves they do their best work alone far away from anyone else
they rely on themselves make their own decisions and decide their own schedules and they're really
good at it if you throw an introvert into a group setting they usually struggle among
outspoken co-workers introverts may fade into the crowd they rarely voice their ideas even if they
are the most knowledgeable people in the room extroverts feel at home in a group setting they
have no problem speaking their minds in working with others they're excellent collaborators who
turn any group into a more social and productive unit but what happens when you leave an extrovert
to their own devices well this is where many extroverts struggle they find it difficult
to stay motivated and inspired on their own their energy fades their productivity suffers and their
work ultimately pays the price now if you're an ambivert you can work well under almost any
conditions you can inspire and motivate yourself enjoying the freedom of independent work but you
can also vocalize your opinions as a member of a team collaborating well without disappearing
into the background in fact ambivert smake some of the most capable leaders they're well-liked by
their coworkers consider other people's opinions and make everyone feel heard Amba verts aren't
afraid of the spotlight but they aren't afraid of the dark either number six healthy skepticism
introverts are skeptical about everyone it takes a long time to earn their trust extroverts on the
other hand give their trust away very easily and often pay the price for it luckily ambivert snow
when to be skeptical and when to be trusting unlike introverts ambivert snow that people
aren't always what they seem but that skeptical attitude has its limits at some point you have
to start trusting someone otherwise you'll never bond as friends or partners if you're careful of
others without going overboard you're probably an ambivert number seven effortless persuasion
are you a persuasive person many people assume that extroverts dominate in every social category
while extroverts make friends more easily than anyone their persuasive skills aren't always as
effective why because they overlook the deeper concerns of other people that's where ambivert
shine remember how ambivert subservience overts these observational skills are ideal for leading
groups and persuading other people well just imagine you're trying to sell someone a car
extroverts are fantastic at getting their foot in the door they'll introduce themselves to loads
of customers and gather all kinds of interest but closing the deal requires a much different
skillset you have to understand the real concerns of your customer which is where ambivert excel
ambivert have the confidence to get their foot in the door and the mindfulness to understand what
someone really wants in a 2013 study published by the Journal of Psychology science ambivert s' were
considered the most persuasive personality type if you make great first impressions and understand
the needs of others you're likely an ambivert number eight consistent indecision how do you
spend your free time do you find yourself craving two opposing extremes true ambivert struggle with
this all the time there are many advantages of being an ambivert great communication considerate
leadership steady friendships but Amba version also comes with its fair share of obstacles for
example ambivert struggle to balance their introverted and extroverted cravings one
side of their personality wants introspection and isolation while the other demands social energy
how do you satisfy both sides of your personality at the same time almost every ambivert gets stuck
in the middle introversion pulls you one way extraversion pulls you another and you're
left wondering which way to go number 9 laid-back attitude assertiveness is another common roadblock
among ambivert s' in this video we've talked about how ambivert s' succeeds socially they
make friends easily they handle attention well but there's one thing that ambivert rarely ever
do initiate whether it's starting a conversation with a stranger or pushing their own interests
ambivert avoid starting things themselves for example at any social gathering an ambivert may
light up and have the time of their lives they'll flourish in and out of their comfort zones but
ambivert rarely cross this boundary by choice while an extrovert has already made three new
friends ambivert spend the entire night talking to the same people as an ambivert people may describe
you as laid-back relaxed or carefree there's nothing wrong with a passive approach just don't
expect an ambivert to reel in a stranger number 10 seeing both sides this is the easiest way to
tell if you're an ambivert if you're listening to this video you've probably heard about these
personality types before you've read articles about introverts you've listened to videos about
extroverts but then you've found yourself in a strange position instead of identifying with one
or the other you see bits of yourself and both if this sounds like you hey you're an ambivert
this unique personality type is often left out ambivert very so significantly between
introversion and extraversion they're difficult to nail down however if you identify with polar
opposite characteristics that's a telltale sign that you're an ambivert but remember this your
personality will grow and change over the years new challenges and experiences will nurture
different aspects of who you are a die-hard introvert may find themselves enjoying social
connections a lifelong extrovert may crave a few days of solitude an ambivert may start leaning
one way or the other personality types help you understand your wants needs and behaviors but all
of those things can change so check in on your personality as time goes by reflect on the kind
of person you are today because you never know how you'll change in the future hey thank you
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