Hello, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours. And today, I am back on this beautiful day
to answer a question that I don't think I'll ever stop getting as long as I am coaching.
It's where to meet guys. So today, I want to give you my top 10 unusual suggestions of
places to meet men.
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Number 10 is Toastmasters. Confidence, social skills, public speaking,
and the potential to meet new men all rolled into one beautiful package. Perhaps the only
downside with Toastmasters is it can attract an older audience, so if you are in your 20s
or thirties I'd recommend you search for Toastmasters clubs that are based out of universities.
Number nine is church. Now we're not all religious, but for those of you that are, this is a great
way to meet new men and new people. Change up your churches. I have one client, she changes
her church every few weeks and rotates between them. She knows that bigger churches, she
has the opportunity to meet new people who share her beliefs. And it's a great way to
just be social and engage with new men.
Number eight, personal development seminars. This is a fantastic space to meet people.
There's people there who want to learn. There's people there with great mindsets who are interested
in working on themselves. There's people, they're men, women who are attractive and
taking steps in their life. Not only that, if you do go there and you don't meet anyone,
you still learn from the content and you walk out a more attractive human.
Number seven is volunteering, so I find this one's fantastic for my clients. Rich or poor,
young or old. Volunteering is a great opportunity to help out the community and interact with
people that you wouldn't normally interact with. Maybe you volunteer at a dog shelter,
walking dogs one day a week. Maybe you volunteer at a local homeless charity or organization
that helps those in need. Maybe you know, I have one client who volunteers at Lentil
As Anything, which is a really great little food serving place based down here in Melbourne,
Australia, whatever it is, volunteering is a great chance to be social, to give up a
little bit of your time to help someone less fortunate than yourself, meet people who have
the same beliefs as you and contribute to your community.
Number six is dog parks. Now this of course only works if you have a dog, but if you do
and you see a cute guy, you can send Little Scruffy over to meet his dog and it makes
the easiest introduction to the cute guys at the dog park.
Number five is the gym. So I think most of us know that you can meet people at the gym,
but very few of us actually do. Meeting people at the gym is fantastic because they're there,
they're interested in fitness. You're going to often see these people on a regular basis,
so you can have low pressure interactions and it's just a great way to be social and
be more communicative. Take your headphones out or only have one headphone in at a max.
Talk to people. Ask for help, do what you need to do, but engage with both men or women
regularly every time you go to the gym.
Number four is Expos, so this can be a little bit of a harder venue, but also a very rewarding
one. It's full of people who share your interests, who are in a chatty state, could be a boating,
camping, fishing expo. It could be a lifestyle expo, home and garden expo, could be sexpo,
could be health and fitness. It could be lifeline bookfest. There's all sorts of different expos
that are on where you can meet lots and lots of people during the day who are in social
moods, who share your interests.
And number three, as the sun comes out, workshops or meetups. These are both incredibly welcoming
environments where they're niched towards whatever you're interested in. It can be literally
anything from Reiki energy, masculine-feminine energy workshops, to water sports, to hiking,
to personal development workshops and meetups. Just head to meetup.com or find an area of
personal development or workshop that you want to go to and attend. There's going to
be lots of likeminded people there. They're going to be welcoming, they're going to be
in social states, they're going to share your interests and it's a fantastic spot to meet
people and potential partners.
Number two, my second favorite surprising place to meet men is self-defense classes.
So these are just fantastic. They're just, I can't say enough good about self-defense
classes. Make sure you're in with men as well, so you're doing mixed classes. You know, I
have clients who do Brazilian jujitsu, I have clients who do kickboxing, I have clients
who do some sort of more Tai Chi, energy-based sort of stuff. Whatever self-defense class
takes your fancy, I'd a hundred percent encourage you to attend to begin a session and get involved.
My clients who do this, they have more confidence. They meet so many more men and then they form
social circles within these classes. Self-defense classes are very social because of what you're
going through together. They're very bonding. So my clients, you know my female clients
who do a lot of Brazilian jujitsu, they're always out with the guys from the gym. They
go into coffees and they're going to little gym gatherings. They're meeting friends of
the guys from the gym. It's such a big boost to your male social circle and to your confidence
that I truly believe self-defense classes. I wanted the best things you can do to build
your social circle and to give you the best chance of meeting Mr. Right in person.
And number one, my favorite surprising place to meet men is improv classes. So there's
all sorts of classes you can do, but improv classes have to be my favorite for the playfulness,
spontaneity, and fun that they provide. Honestly, after you've failed a few times, you'll let
down your guard and you'll relax. You're just laughing the entire class. It's a huge confidence
builder and it's a great way to meet new friends and potentially Mr. Right.
Well, thank you so much for watching and for sticking around. Let me know your thoughts,
comments, questions in the space below. Have you done some of these? What were your experience?
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