Uncle C, back in the office. And in this video, I'm going to be showing you exactly the top
texting mistakes that I see numerous students make all the time when it comes to dating
and when it comes to their interactions, because what they're trying to do is they're trying
to use the cell phone to seal the deal. Okay, most men today are trying to use the cell
phone to raise attraction, and to make sure that they can get the date so that way they
can escalate in person, that's perfect. As a man that is what you should be doing. But
here's the thing since I've gotten to the point now where I've coached over 600 men
to date, I've been seeing a lot of the same trends that a lot of men are running into.
And what I'm going to do here today is I'm going to break down the top texting mistakes
that I see almost every single men make when they try to approach a woman and get her warmed
up to him. So that way he can try to make something happen. Let's begin now fellas before
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moving on what is the biggest texting mistake and I'm going to even prove it to you to show
you a couple students of the mishaps that they've been making. The biggest mistake that
most men are trying to make time and time again when it comes to dating is they're always
going for the double commitment, right? They're always asking the woman For two commitments
instead of one, and I'm going to show you what I mean by this. They're trying to get
her to agree two times before one time has been solidified. Okay? And this is a big No,
no. The reason for that is because if she has not yet seen you once, if she has not
yet agreed to just one interaction, you don't have any business asking her to do something
after that initial date. This is what I mean. A guy wants to meet a girl. He says, Hey,
Kayla, do you want to go? Let's say hiking with me? How about we meet up and we go hiking
at 6pm. And then here, this is all he should do. He should say, we're going to go hiking
at 6pm he should make the appointment. He should see if she agrees and he should follow
through with his lead and decide where they're going to meet up and all of that stuff. But
what he always does is he always frames it with an n then and then we can go out to dinner
after and then what we can do is we can go for a walk in the park and then what we can
do is you can come back to my place and watch a movie. No, that is a big no no. The reason
for this is because Most men are assuming that the more time they can spend with her
in the first interaction is going to equal an increase in attraction. But this is completely
false. You have to remember what makes logical sense in your head does not necessarily make
sense in her emotional brain as a woman. And the fact is, she doesn't necessarily care
about what you care about. She cares about what she cares about. So as you care about
spending time with her and hopefully getting that opportunity or that shot afterwards to
escalate or to try to raise her attraction even more, that's not how it works, because
she needs to build the chemistry she needs to build the comfort. She doesn't necessarily
want to agree to two things back to back when she hasn't even met you a first time. This
is by far the number one mistake that I constantly see guys make time and time again. They're
trying to get her to agree to too many things. And they're so scared that a quick 1520 to
30 minute casual meetup is going to set them back in fact, what that is going to do if
you play your cards right fellas is that's going to actually give her a taste of your
personality, to get her to want to come back for more, if you try to show your whole card
right away, as she's going to see that you want to see her so badly that you're willing
to invest so much time into a person that you just met, this is going to resonate in
her head is probably a no go. Secondly, what she's going to see is she's going to see that
you don't necessarily have the complete social competence to raise a woman's attraction.
Okay, everything moves at her pace because she is the female and since she's a female,
she needs to be warmed up to you accordingly. I highly advise only going for one commitment
and I'm going to show you why. What I always do fellows is I always resonate almost everything
in life to sales, because sales is you building a human to human connection to get somebody
to trust in you and to invest in yourself or your product. Okay, the saying in sales
is that we only want to get them to buy once. Okay, once you can get a customer or a client
or somebody to buy your product or service wants. It's much easier to have a repeat buyer
Once they've already invested in you, the problem is that your woman has not yet invested
in you that you're trying to see, she has no investment in you, which means she has
absolutely no reason to want to take it a step further, she doesn't know you yet. Okay?
A repeat buyer is a hell of a lot easier than getting someone to buy from you one time.
But guess what, it's very easy to get that exact same person to buy from you twice once
they've already purchased from you once. So what I would like to really like apply this
to is essentially, if you guys have ever purchased something on the internet, you hit the purchase
button. And then on the very next page, it doesn't say thank you, your orders don't what
it says is, But wait, there's more. If you click now you're going to get three times
the amount of packages for half the price, just click here and it's going to complete
your order. Okay, this But wait, there's more. This is essentially that marketer. This is
essentially that business. Understanding that since they've already got you to say yes to
them once. It's going to be a hell of a lot easier for them to say yes to you a second
time which is exactly The same routine you have to understand in texting, since she doesn't
necessarily know you yet, since she's not necessarily warmed up to you, she needs to
actually take some time to just agree the first time. Okay, this is the biggest key,
what I'm going to be doing is I'm going to be showing you two students that I personally
work with. In my blueprint closed members group. A lot of people have seen the comments
in some of these videos and they say, hey, if this guy's coach six 700 people, why is
it that every time we type in the comments, what are his programs like, we don't see what's
because these people don't watch my YouTube. Okay, a lot of these people I've ran ads to
or I've actually just, you know, grown my name in my business that way to where they've
actually used me for coaching and they don't necessarily come from YouTube. But what I'm
going to do is I'm going to show you one student that absolutely just crushes it when it comes
to texting, and I'm going to show you another student that was struggling in the beginning.
So the very first student is a student that's struggling. We're going to leave his name
anonymous just for the hell of it. But I'm going to show you his interaction and you
can see he asks for that committment somewhere along the line, he talks about like outdoors
or hiking, and then he switches it to where he's asking her for another commitment, and
she totally just shuts him down. The reason for this is because in her mind, it is not
yet at that point in the interaction for her to be completely warm. If you switch to student
number two, okay, student number two completely calls a woman out on what he wants out of
her what he wants to see out of her, why he wants to see this out of her. And then what
happens is that she gets heightened attraction because he's actually telling what he wants.
You notice that throughout the whole interaction, he's more dominant in actually putting forth
his own desires. And he actually calls her on some of the BS that she was posting on
the internet that he didn't agree with. Okay, what this is showing is this is showing that
he's comfortable in his own skin to actually assert himself over the keyboard. Okay, what
this is actually going to do is this is going to give her a taste of your personality. The
reason why you definitely cannot text with scripts, you can't text with certain lines
and openers is because what happens is these Things probably don't match your authentic
self. Okay, what you have to do is you have to understand the main principles of male
versus female dynamic. And then take that a step further and applying that to your own
style of texting. The only way is to truly understand the principles and use them for
your own beliefs, not try to copy paste some routine or script. If you liked this video,
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