You feeling like the narcissist
is just on your chest and
like you just cannot win and you are
so ready to put them in their place.
Alright.
I know you feel like they're
constantly winning
and you're like,
how are they getting away with this all the time?
I know, I hear it all the time.
I'm a lawyer
and I constantly hear how are
they getting away with this.
They always when the system is broken.
I'm gonna give you six tactics for
putting a narcissist in their place right now.
So don't move.
And in fact,
I'm gonna give you six
and the best one is at the end.
Alright?
So don't move.
Alright.
Number one.
I know it's scary.
It's definitely scary,
but they've been questioning you
from the beginning and you gotta start saying,
like things are changing.
They gotta know that there's a new game in town.
So just little by little, you gotta start saying,
“hey, that's not adding up.”
Even if it's in an email,
even if it's in a text,
even if it's in an app.
If you're using an app,
you just gotta say,
“hey, that's that's not adding up”
and you gotta start putting that in documentation.
Remember,
every text,
every email,
everything that you put in
writing is a potential trial exhibit.
That's not adding up.
So number one,
call them out when things aren't adding up.
Going through six tactics
for putting a narcissist in their place
and this is something that you want to start doing.
Number two
is remember
you don't wanna give them narcissistic supply.
Right?
They're gonna throw that bait
out there and they're gonna be
like, trying to reel you in.
Use things against you.
Remember when you're dealing with a narcissist,
it's like getting arrested.
Everything they say or do
is gonna be used against you.
They're gonna try to use your
emotional reactions against you.
They're gonna go
“oh, look there's the crazy one.
Look, they're gonna be sitting over there like,
all cool and calm and collected.
Like, they're the normal one
because they're trying to get you to do things.
They're trying to bait you, trigger you.
So do not react to the bait.
So hard.
I know, but as soon as you do,
they'll use it against you.
So don't react.
Number three.
The number three tactic
for putting narcissists in their place is
You gotta get them to lie.
You gotta bait them.
Right?
So they're laying bait against you.
Now you gotta do the same
thing back against that.
And I have a whole video on
what happens when you catch narcissists lies.
This is what you can do.
Right?
This is you wanna nab them.
So get them to lie and
then flip it against them.
I have a whole video on this.
You wanna nab them.
I want you to put this in the comments right now.
“NAB THEM!”
Alright?
So get them to lie and flip it against them.
This is tactics for putting
narcissists in their place.
You wanna do this.
Right?
So the next one
This is a step beyond not reacting to their bait.
This is literally you do not care.
What's going on with them like, okay.
Like, I don't even know your name.
Who are you again?
What?
Do whatever you're gonna do.
Mhmm.
Like, that is how you are.
Okay?
I don't even care
what you're doing right now.
That's the next one.
Okay?
Six tactics for putting a narcissist in their place.
They're trying to get supply from you.
You are cutting off their food source,
their oxygen.
That is what supply is.
That's number four.
Number five tactic for putting a narcissist
in their place is
Right?
Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate focus on You.
So I knew that is my SLAY methodology.
That's what I teach.
That's my program.
You are creating invincible leverage.
That is what you need to do.
That is how you're gonna
put a narcissist in their place.
Part of getting them to lie
and flipping it against them.
That's why you need to
go watch that other video.
Right?
But you're gonna create
invincible leverage actually
have a whole video on
how to create leverage too.
You can definitely check that out as well.
All kinds of free stuff on this channel.
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Alright?
And number six.
Number six is
Never defend yourself.
Okay?
I have a little video on that too.
Don't defend yourself.
Don't do that.
So as soon as you defend,
you're like giving them you're
saying there's an issue.
Don't defend.
Be offensive.
So that's number six.
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And I will see you in the next video.