What's a favorite memory from when we were dating and what made it so fun?
Oh goodness. Two-part question. That is a lot.
Okay, so..
Our spontaneous day trip when we were visiting Malaysia when we went down to Singapore
Okay. Do you remember that? Yeah.
And we like got up at like 3 a.m. You got sick? Okay, that's...
I was gonna tell a little bit of the story. We like booked the tickets the night before
like went down to Singapore for literally a day, left our house or your parents house at like 3 a.m
drove to the airport, left our car there, went to Singapore
and just spent the whole day. We were in Singapore for less than 24 hours. Yeah.
Yes and we just were ridiculous tourists there and did all the touristy things and.. got sick.
And then I got sick. I got food poisoning.
But yeah it was a fun day but I think what made it memorable was driving home.
This is really bad but it was.. Yeah. Two things, well one when I was in Singapore.
Remember I had the hiccups? So like for like hours. Like what's going on? You tried all these things.
It was like the funniest thing but it was also like this weird like
because we hadn't been dating a super long time. Yeah.
That's the first like big thing that we did together. Travel. Travel together, right?
Yeah, so that was kind of like a funny thing with the hiccups
and then on the drive home from the airport once you're back in Malaysia, me like throwing up in the car
and you just being there for me like rubbed my back. You like didn't really know how you could help me
but I feel like afterwards we were like bonded even closer in that moment.
That trip, we were like we're getting married after that. Yeah, we were solidified right?
Basically I feel like that trip
and I remember.. All these memories was like floating back.
I remember being on the plane ride home and just looking over at you
and just thinking that like I was so in love with you
even though we had never told each other we loved each other at that point.
I remember feeling like in that moment I loved you so much that I was gonna marry you
Wow. And I was right.
I think at that point I wanted to marry you more than I thought it was the right thing.
If that made any sense. Kind of. Yeah, I was like I just wanted it so bad you know.
Like I didn't even know I was this.. so infatuated by you. You still feel that? Yeah.
Okay, just double-checking.
You'd beautiful eyes
Okay, next question.
You really do.
What things make you sad as a parent and as a spouse?
Make me sad?
I think I know the answer to this one.
As a parent and as a spouse?
I think as a spouse is that I don't have all of you after having kids.
Hmm. Make me kind of sad. Okay. I loved having you, all to me.
I could take all over the world. I could do anything. Just had you by my side
and you like with me, supporting me and I know I have to share that with the kids now
It's the reality of it you know. Do I like it? Not really but it's something that I know
it has to happen, right? But yeah, so that what makes me sad about spouse but kids, I don't know
The most superficial thing I can think of is that they don't like football or soccer.
That would make me really sad. That would make you sad but that's not the truth now
because Zaden... That's not the truth now. Yeah, like right now right? That's not the question.
I was gonna say what makes you sad especially with like Zaden is you don't like to see him hurt.
I don't like to see anybody hurt. Yeah, but I feel.. Tears drive me crazy. Yeah. Yeah.
I feel like when he like falls and gets hurt whatever like you have such like..
Oh, yeah. That's not just him. It's even with you. Yeah. That's even for me too.
You don't like to see me hurt whether it's emotional pain or physical pain.
I just can't see anyone cry, but yeah. Those are what kinds of things that make me sad
But it also makes you sad if your son ended up being a Manchester United fan? Disown him
If money was no object.. No object. Okay. All the money in the world. Okay. Where would you live?
Where would I live? That's a great question, actually. I really I do really want to know this.
I want to know that too, actually.
I feel like I haven't traveled enough to really give a definite answer.
Well, how about like the dream place right?
You're not going to know it fully you know. Like "Oh, it sounds romantic" or sounds like...
I really... Dream destination or something.
I feel like it's so cliche but I loved Paris when we were there. Paris is great.
I loved France in general. Great food. Such good food. Everywhere you go.
And just the culture and the whole like even the ugly parts were beautiful. Yeah.
Like I don't even know how to explain that. Yeah, the markets were filthy but they were great. Yes. Yes.
And like just.. we would pop into the most random cafes and would get the... The best food.
I literally have not stopped thinking about the omelette we ate? Oh, that breakfast. Oh man.
Isn't that was like four years ago? Yeah. Yeah, I remember that.
And I still dream about that omelette
and at the time I didn't really like omelette that much. Now, I love omelettes.
But I love Paris. Like I would just want to just live in a beautiful vineyard in France.
Yeah, that'd be fun. Yeah. Let's do that. Okay, I'm glad.
We're on the same page.
Okay, if money was no object, we'll move to France, learn French,
eat cheese. It'll be great.
Sounds like a plan.
What's one mistake you keep repeating?
I keep repeating? A mistake?
Not having a consistent expectation of things
or it's like the mistake is, I think certain things should go should be a certain way
when sometimes they're not supposed to be that way.
Okay. You know like I feel if. Examples here. Okay like I feel the kids should be a certain way but they're not.
They're just kids. They make mistakes. They do stupid things. They...
You know because that's like with kids.
I want my job to go different like I want my career to take off and be you know..
I'm an ambitious person. I want to achieve a lot of big things
but I think the real expectation is that it takes time.
It takes a lot of hard work way more than I think
It doesn't come easy, so I need to work for it and I can't just expect it's fall in my lap
but whether that's with kids, whether it's with my career, with my ambitions, anything.
I think my expectations like I can do it and sometimes I can't
and that's okay but I still want to try.
Do you think it's a mistake to have these unrealistic expectations?
It's a mistake because you need to have like proper expectations, right?
I don't think it's... Because it can break you
and sometimes it does break me when I have this like really high expectations of myself
and then I place that on my kids and sometimes on you
So yeah, it can... It's a mistake for sure and I'll admit that
Still go for it though. Not gonna change. Nope.
So nervous.
It's a question and answer I already know.
Oh, what's the fun in that then?
What was the best kiss of your entire life?
I know exactly what's the answer.
You know exactly the answer, huh?
I'll let you go first but I'll see if it's what I'm thinking. Definitely the same one.
Okay, I mean I feel like I have to say this one.
You don't have to. You can say something else. That's okay
You can say a different kiss that we had. It's okay.
It doesn't have to be that kiss.
All these like the best, I have a hard time thinking because I'm like
there's gotta be something better than this one
I mean kissing they get better over time. It did. You know. It did.
Kissing is much better now than it was initially
So you could pick something recent too. That's fine. Sure.
I... Knowing that I'm the only person you kissed.
That is true. You're the only person I've ever kissed my entire life.
Okay, so it's not like a specific moment in time then.
I think it's when you initiate and you just randomly come over to me and like give me a hug
and give me a kiss. Like in between the day? Yeah, it's not like one specific instance
but like when you come over and just really sweet and give me a kiss
Okay, that's fair.
I don't have to ask for it. I don't have to initiate. You just come and kiss me and I love that. Yeah.
And you know what was I thinking, right? Of course. Our wedding first kiss
Yeah. That was the first time you kissed.
Yeah, my very first kiss ever was on our wedding day
and we kissed for a long time.
I didn't realize how long it was, so I watched the wedding videos like "Oh my goodness gracious"
That's okay. In front of our friends and family.
We'll never forget that kiss. We never will. You made it so epic. I mean we made it epic. We made it epic.
It was a memorable time for sure. It was.
I mean that kiss.. I mean it's great because it's our first
but I feel like kissing has gotten a lot better over the years. It's gotten a lot better. Yes
I feel like you're gonna shake my hand
Thank you for the interview. Thank you for the interview.
Well, this is fun. I really enjoyed this and talk out some of the questions with you
Some of your answers surprised me
but most of them I felt like I would have guessed that's what you would have said
but I like learning new things about you. Me too. Makes me feel closer to you. Me too.
Let's just do more of it, okay? Without the cameras. This is.. we don't need that part.
I'll wait again. Maybe, we'll see. Okay.
I love you. I love you too