You want to know how to tease a girl
or tease a woman effectively
so she becomes more attracted to you.
And there's a really
great way of doing this
that's very natural to elevate
her attraction for you.
Whether you've just met her
or you've actually been
in a relationship with her for a while,
what he said.
Okay, with your help I've landed
who appears to be the love of my life.
She's like a super score,
much younger than me, pretty,
shapely, and above all
nice and attentive to me.
Which is awesome of course.
I will continue listening to you Anna
because all you've taught me
has worked like a charm.
Awesome.
I had made a list of attributes
I needed in a lady
to be in a relationship and
"k" we'll call her "k,"
checked every box.
Now, at all costs I have to learn
how to keep her while remembering
I found her and could find another
if something, dread the idea,
should become a deal maker
for either of us.
True. It's been a month only
but communication is way ahead
of my usual one-months time period.
So, obviously still in the euphoria stage,
but still ahead of where he normally is
at this point in his previous relationships.
Saying no to them
is my thing to master.
Now I've done another video side note here
on how to say no effectively.
I'll link that later in the video.
Her being young, beautiful, and loving
beyond belief has nothing...
Cross that out.
Has everything to do with this.
Keeping her at all cost is a goal
and again, he's mentioned that twice
so I’m going to really talk about that.
So, being a pushover can't happen.
I've done this before and
I've been told you never say no to me.
I'll be looking for an opportunity,
this one cannot get away.
So, just before I get into my reply,
you've probably noticed that you know,
obviously when you find a good one
you tend to be anxious to
not want them to get away.
And it can really affect
your behavior with that person
in a way that is a turn off.
So, you want to mitigate that part by
offering up the nose as
I suggested in my other video
and then also teasing.
My reply.
The goal should be to keep her
as long as it's good for both of you,
but never at all costs.
Key point, never at all costs.
But he is right in that being a pushover
isn't good for either of them.
So, one of the ways you can avoid
being or seeming like a pushover is
by disagreeing on something.
If you haven't found
anything to disagree on yet
you are going to disagree with her
in a playful teasing way on something
that you might actually agree on.
But here's how you're going to play it out.
This is best done in person.
You will be able to gauge better
how far you can push this
and how far you can go with this
and whether or not
you're actually going to be
triggering her in a real way, you don't want to do that.
You need to be able to keep it playful
and fun and teasing
while still elevating
her autonomic arousal system.
So, the kind of
fight, flight, or freeze part of her brain
but not so much that
she really does get upset
or has negative
lasting feeling toward you.
So, you could say something like
hmm, I’m not sure
I agree with you on that convince me.
So, then she's going to defend her argument
and as long as you can see that
she's not really upset by it,
then you can say something like
I’m listening or tell me more.
And depending on
where she goes from there,
if you can see that she's playing along
and she's getting that this is
a fun tease,
you could take it one step further
by saying, anything else?
Maybe with a raised eyebrow.
And then in the end
you say something like,
well, argued Ashley.
I knew you were a smart one.
So, if she's been
very good-natured about the interaction
then she might like
act like she's upset with you like,
oh, you or what something like that.
When you are in a state of
arousal like, upset arousal,
your blood pressure is up,
your heart rate is up.
It's similar to the reaction you have
when you are physically turned on.
Then you can quickly
redirect that energy for her
into attraction
and maybe even immediate attraction.
By saying something like,
you know you're extra sexy
when you're spicy like this.
And then you might even follow it up by
get over here and give me a kiss
or you know, if she's close
better for her to be closer because
that shows that you are still closer.
She doesn't want to
start distancing herself.
So, watch for body language.
If she starts like moving away
then she might be more seriously
getting agitated by it.
She is not triggered in a negative way
and you can reach over and say,
all right let's kiss and make up.
And in the end you always want to
break the tension by
saying okay, you've convinced me
now get over here and kiss me.
Or something that breaks the tension
is a funny and
or creates physical intimacy right away.
But there's always ways that you can
modify and adjust the various things
that you might use.
The phrases and make them your own
so they don't sound canned or fake.
Do have limits
and we all have triggers
and if you've been with your girl for a while
or your woman for a while
and things are starting to slag
or you're feeling her
starting to pull away
then you definitely want to watch
my video on how to keep a keeper
or how to keep your woman happy.
Because there are often things
that happen in a long-term relationship
that make her start to pull away
that are preventable.
So, if you've been in a relationship for a while
and that's where you're at
then watch that video.
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